“I’m so TIRED of the EMOTIONAL LABOR that comes with dating… BLACK MEN. TIRED of the LACK of SUPPORT, MONEY and COMMITMENT. I don’t know what to do”
- Thread starter Jazzy B.
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it might be her dad, but i think her bd is dark skin. dude in the birth video is dark skin.
she was engaged to her bd but chose to end the engagement and be a single mom, so all that "they don't marry us" isn't even her experience since she had someone willing to marry her
i think she's insecure about being biracial, so she just agrees with online groups that claim to be progressive & pro-black. she repeats lgbt babble on her page.
she's fit, looks like a bathed Zoe Kravitz, good job...honestly she could find somebody but i don't think a sane man/woman is going to want to be with someone talking crazy about their identity especially if that's an already oppressed identity
90% of Problack Women Are self hating wenches,
Don't ask me how
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
Mixed woman, by the way. Just saying
Her momma is a pawg. So don’t blame this on Black women
lets not forget how a black therapist went in on blk men.... and these black ladies support her thoughts
ProBlackIntersectionalistPanAfrican Jawn: "We must fight the shackles of the patriarchy and white oppression, be allies of women of color...But first, I must give praise to my soulmate...Trip...my savior"
What type of geniune discussion were you expecting be had, when she came out blazing with a generalization.Thread went exactly as it always does. No real discussion to be found about her core complaints.
So she then so got hit back with one.
She's a single mom, who deals with broke and unstable dudes. A tale as old as time.
Brehs like me, ain't trying play clean up duty for bad decisions in someone's past.
feelosofer
#ninergang
The general arrogance of a lot of Black women is astounding. Even if you have issues believe it or not, white men do not find that type of mindset attractive. This why I just let these divestors cook because most of them cannot pull white men outside of one night stands.
Dameon Farrow
Superstar
Et tu, @Gloxina ?Mixed woman, by the way. Just saying
Her momma is a pawg. So don’t blame this on Black women
Piff Perkins
Veteran
I'd argue people with means commit all the time, hence why the marriage rate for higher income people is increasing. They're getting married a lot. I think the problem with the woman in the OP is that she wants a man who is specifically designed not to be any of the things she claims she wants. Emotionally stable, financially stable, mature, respectful, committed, etc. You can't be those things while pretending to be a thug and not having a good job. But that's the type of black man she is probably searching for.
When she finally grows up and starts looking for successful black men she's gonna run into the commitment issue you mentioned, but for a different reason. Most successful men are not out here looking to date or save a single mom. They'll fukk you for a few months but that's it. Single moms are an emotional and financial dead end that most successful men have no interest in committing to. Which means her dating prospects are extremely limited. She can get on tiktok and pretend like a white dude is gonna willingly date her and raise a black man's child but that ain't happening in 95% of cases. Maybe she finds the 5% and things work out. More than likely she's gonna meet the 95% and trust me, that white man's mother will make sure that relationship doesn't prosper. Understandably so...
See how she emphasized it when she said "lack of money"? She's just looking for a meal ticket. Bye bytch
Their “problackness” is always rooted in selfishnes rather than a race of people. It’s all about worship and serving of the black woman to prove she is worthy of the white man. Then nikka simps dont realize they part of the hotep wench street team
