If u feel u wanna save the marriage..thats a commitment YOU made my nikka and not noone else on this site..dont let anyone lead u astray..do what u feel is right my dude...
yeah, i know. these nikkas are some goons. but i will say this....people always talk about how marriages don't work and people get too many divorces. it's because they forget about what is said in the vows. "...for better or worse, through richer or poorer, in sickness and in health..." that's real shyt. marriage is HARD. you go through all kinds of shyt. i read on one of the other threads this morning about peoples parents' relationship. plenty of people have parents that have been together for 20, 30, 40+ years. there is no possible way that people have been together for so long and haven't had times where they wanted to cheat (or have), slap the other, get separated, etc. it's part of the territory. what differs from old marriages and recent ones is that we are quick to get tired and fed up and throw in the towel. call it quits. cancel that bytch, etc. i think if i legit HATED my wife or didn't love her anymore genuinely, then divorce would be the way to go. but i still love her. i still look at her with hearts in my eyes.....even after all that we have been through. so most people will say that i'm crazy or simpin' or i share that girl, or whatever reverse shaming language that is used (yes brehs, it's the same thing), but i love her breh. and it has never been more apparent to me than it is now....![]()
I thought the threadstarter had jumpoffs after moving out. what are u gonna do about them? just charge it to the game and change ur phone #?
A wise man told me once that as long as I searched for love, chasing it, desiring it, needing it, it would evade me.
It took years for me to understand what he meant. I thought at the time that he was just telling me that the whole idea was pointless, and that love was only an illusion that does not really exist.
I know better now.
Love is not the beginning.
Love is not what draws men to women, and women to men.
Love is not the catalyst for stable relationships.
Respect is the beginning.
Physical Attraction is what draws men to women, and women to men.
Maturity is the catalyst for stable relationships.
When both man and women have respect, attraction, and maturity, and have shared these things with each other, love is the end result.
As with everything in this toxic wasteland we live in, it seems that all men and women want the prize, but few men and hardly any women seem to want to run the race for it.
Fam I wholeheartedly agree fam...go for it...yeah, i know. these nikkas are some goons. but i will say this....people always talk about how marriages don't work and people get too many divorces. it's because they forget about what is said in the vows. "...for better or worse, through richer or poorer, in sickness and in health..." that's real shyt. marriage is HARD. you go through all kinds of shyt. i read on one of the other threads this morning about peoples parents' relationship. plenty of people have parents that have been together for 20, 30, 40+ years. there is no possible way that people have been together for so long and haven't had times where they wanted to cheat (or have), slap the other, get separated, etc. it's part of the territory. what differs from old marriages and recent ones is that we are quick to get tired and fed up and throw in the towel. call it quits. cancel that bytch, etc. i think if i legit HATED my wife or didn't love her anymore genuinely, then divorce would be the way to go. but i still love her. i still look at her with hearts in my eyes.....even after all that we have been through. so most people will say that i'm crazy or simpin' or i share that girl, or whatever reverse shaming language that is used (yes brehs, it's the same thing), but i love her breh. and it has never been more apparent to me than it is now....![]()
she shared me too....i didn't expect her to be a born again virgin after we parted. i just believe that we can we can work things out. isn't that what a married couple is supposed to do? we got all the way to the divorce papers, but i don't want to file them. i want her back.
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