i'm still in love with my wife, brehs...

Steve Piffler

I got them CERTS
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
8,220
Reputation
1,270
Daps
18,678
Reppin
Houston
kobe-laugh.gif

:russ:
 

Steve Piffler

I got them CERTS
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
8,220
Reputation
1,270
Daps
18,678
Reppin
Houston
If u feel u wanna save the marriage..thats a commitment YOU made my nikka and not noone else on this site..dont let anyone lead u astray..do what u feel is right my dude...

yeah, i know. these nikkas are some goons. but i will say this....people always talk about how marriages don't work and people get too many divorces. it's because they forget about what is said in the vows. "...for better or worse, through richer or poorer, in sickness and in health..." that's real shyt. marriage is HARD. you go through all kinds of shyt. i read on one of the other threads this morning about peoples parents' relationship. plenty of people have parents that have been together for 20, 30, 40+ years. there is no possible way that people have been together for so long and haven't had times where they wanted to cheat (or have), slap the other, get separated, etc. it's part of the territory. what differs from old marriages and recent ones is that we are quick to get tired and fed up and throw in the towel. call it quits. cancel that bytch, etc. i think if i legit HATED my wife or didn't love her anymore genuinely, then divorce would be the way to go. but i still love her. i still look at her with hearts in my eyes.....even after all that we have been through. so most people will say that i'm crazy or simpin' or i share that girl, or whatever reverse shaming language that is used (yes brehs, it's the same thing), but i love her breh. and it has never been more apparent to me than it is now....:manny:
 

beenz

Rap Guerilla
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
84,263
Reputation
11,087
Daps
193,913
Reppin
The Chi (South Side)
I thought the threadstarter had jumpoffs after moving out. what are u gonna do about them? just charge it to the game and change ur phone #?
 

JayYoung713

All Star
Joined
May 31, 2012
Messages
1,128
Reputation
481
Daps
2,538
Reppin
Houston Tx
I went through a similar situation a while back with my ex. Ultimately I wound up leaving her because I knew I could not see myself spending another minute with her and any emotional attachments I may have had with her were pretty much broken beyond repair so I was out.

You just gotta do what you feel will be best for you in the long run. It's nothing wrong with wanting to explore the possibilities of a reconciliation since both of you still love each other just dont make the decision in an emotional state. Sit with it for a while and give yourself some time to really consider the pros and cons. If the both of you can admit your faults and are truely willing to work on repairing your relationship for the long run then yall got a shot.

Just my 2 cents.
 

SouthernBelle

#Feyonce
Joined
Jul 15, 2012
Messages
6,463
Reputation
510
Daps
12,426
yeah, i know. these nikkas are some goons. but i will say this....people always talk about how marriages don't work and people get too many divorces. it's because they forget about what is said in the vows. "...for better or worse, through richer or poorer, in sickness and in health..." that's real shyt. marriage is HARD. you go through all kinds of shyt. i read on one of the other threads this morning about peoples parents' relationship. plenty of people have parents that have been together for 20, 30, 40+ years. there is no possible way that people have been together for so long and haven't had times where they wanted to cheat (or have), slap the other, get separated, etc. it's part of the territory. what differs from old marriages and recent ones is that we are quick to get tired and fed up and throw in the towel. call it quits. cancel that bytch, etc. i think if i legit HATED my wife or didn't love her anymore genuinely, then divorce would be the way to go. but i still love her. i still look at her with hearts in my eyes.....even after all that we have been through. so most people will say that i'm crazy or simpin' or i share that girl, or whatever reverse shaming language that is used (yes brehs, it's the same thing), but i love her breh. and it has never been more apparent to me than it is now....:manny:


This post is on point and to the bold, it is the EXACT same thing they are accusing the women of. They are trying to shame you into a divorce (so that you can be miserable). The divorce or getting back together do not have to be rushed. Take your time before you make such a huge decision. Based on the other thread, you parents have been married for a long time. You can do it to if that is what you want.
 

Steve Piffler

I got them CERTS
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
8,220
Reputation
1,270
Daps
18,678
Reppin
Houston
I thought the threadstarter had jumpoffs after moving out. what are u gonna do about them? just charge it to the game and change ur phone #?

yep.....they both know my situation. i didn't lie to either of them. one of them gives head like a wood chipper anyway :scusthov:, so i'm glad to get rid of that bytch...:huhldup:
 

Soundbwoy

Accept to take the L
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
17,867
Reputation
4,427
Daps
57,295
Reppin
Montreal
If you can save the marriage go for it breh, but the two of you are gonna have a serious sit down to resolved every past issues yall had with eachother
 

Sandy_Cheeks

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Dec 31, 2012
Messages
6,477
Reputation
1,621
Daps
16,913
:snoop:


A wise man told me once that as long as I searched for love, chasing it, desiring it, needing it, it would evade me.

It took years for me to understand what he meant. I thought at the time that he was just telling me that the whole idea was pointless, and that love was only an illusion that does not really exist.

I know better now.

Love is not the beginning.

Love is not what draws men to women, and women to men.

Love is not the catalyst for stable relationships.

Respect is the beginning.

Physical Attraction is what draws men to women, and women to men.

Maturity is the catalyst for stable relationships.

When both man and women have respect, attraction, and maturity, and have shared these things with each other, love is the end result.

As with everything in this toxic wasteland we live in, it seems that all men and women want the prize, but few men and hardly any women seem to want to run the race for it.



This is the realest shyt I have read in life. Thank you bruh for the wisdom.:ohhh:
 

spliz

SplizThaDon
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
64,062
Reputation
9,973
Daps
213,371
Reppin
NY all day..Da Stead & BK..
yeah, i know. these nikkas are some goons. but i will say this....people always talk about how marriages don't work and people get too many divorces. it's because they forget about what is said in the vows. "...for better or worse, through richer or poorer, in sickness and in health..." that's real shyt. marriage is HARD. you go through all kinds of shyt. i read on one of the other threads this morning about peoples parents' relationship. plenty of people have parents that have been together for 20, 30, 40+ years. there is no possible way that people have been together for so long and haven't had times where they wanted to cheat (or have), slap the other, get separated, etc. it's part of the territory. what differs from old marriages and recent ones is that we are quick to get tired and fed up and throw in the towel. call it quits. cancel that bytch, etc. i think if i legit HATED my wife or didn't love her anymore genuinely, then divorce would be the way to go. but i still love her. i still look at her with hearts in my eyes.....even after all that we have been through. so most people will say that i'm crazy or simpin' or i share that girl, or whatever reverse shaming language that is used (yes brehs, it's the same thing), but i love her breh. and it has never been more apparent to me than it is now....:manny:
Fam I wholeheartedly agree fam...go for it...
 

Buckeye Fever

YOU WILL ALL HAIL TO THE VICTORS!
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
82,882
Reputation
43,428
Daps
386,676
Reppin
Hip-Hop Since '79
she shared me too....:manny: i didn't expect her to be a born again virgin after we parted. i just believe that we can we can work things out. isn't that what a married couple is supposed to do? we got all the way to the divorce papers, but i don't want to file them. i want her back.:dead:

Naw, if me and my wife split up, the only way we'd get back together is if she didnt fukk other nikkaz during our separation. On the flipside, the best way to get a woman to desire u back after a separation is to fukk other women.

They'd be like "I need him back!:noah:"
 
Top