i'm still in love with my wife, brehs...

[Steve Piffler]

whats this all about? did ur check start looking real after child support and the tax increases?

did you already take the L selling the mercedes, or ya'll still got it?

i'm not on child support. and i did take an L selling the mercedes ($5500). i genuinely would like to explore a reconciliation with her. i love her and have never stopped. i just thought that we could never get past our communication/trust issues. for the first time, i am actually optimistic. has nothing to do with money....

 

[Steve Piffler]

How long y'all been married?​

9 years. been together for 14 years in all...

 

[Soundbwoy]

damn, that was fast! you probably woke up out of your sleep like ".....somebody in the world is wanting to save their marriage....i must...intervene...."

 

[Turbulent]

and he fell for the okey-doke...

 

[Steve Piffler]

and he fell for the okey-doke...

when you have been with someone for 14 years, you KNOW when what they are saying is bullshyt and when it's genuine. but i wouldn't expect you to understand that. 14 years ago, you were probably only 7 or 8 years old....what do you know?

 

[Turbulent]

when you have been with someone for 14 years, you KNOW when what they are saying is bullshyt and when it's genuine. but i wouldn't expect you to understand that. 14 years ago, you were probably only 7 or 8 years old....what do you know?

I've seen close friends get married, get sepreated, get back with their girls, leave etc, etc. they did and said the same things you did, percieved things the same way. they had kids too, houses, the whole thing.

I'm the dude from those other threads you made who kept telling you not to fall for the okey doke. I along with other people tried to give you advice on the tricks women pull. I told you the play by play of what would happen and you actually cosigned me saying that's exactly what happened so far. I kept saying don't fall for the okey-doke and you dapped/cosigned. Today you're trying to clown me.

See you think i'm trying to clown you but it's not even that. I'm not saying to stay bitter. it's not about holding on to anger or the past. I don't know your wife and i mean no disrespect but from what you described, it seems like she just played the "sincere heart to heart" play. And she probably WAS sincere too. It softened your heart (this is normal, i'm not saying it wouldn't have happened to me or to other men). For your sake i hope i'm wrong. but the tone of your OP suggests you're in a somewhat emotional state right now...in any case, God bless you and your family and I hope your wife and you change the dynamic of your relationship for the better in the future.

 

[kermit da hustla]

threads like this are why this forum needs a SLAP button added to the dap button. nobody cares if you love that bytch. shouldn't have married her in the first place. sucker ass thread.

 

[Crakface]

Go the Kobe route, buy her something, take her on a date then go down on her while you say im sorry. She'll forgive you.

 

[Turbulent]

another thing by the way addressed at everyone. What do we constantly say about taking advice from females. first things females tried to do in this thread is discredit us "bitter women hating" advice (shaming tactic). Second thing they said is to follow your heart (knowing damn well your heart has just been softened a little already).

Lord please protect me from their wicked ways...

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

9 years. been together for 14 years in all...

Get counseling and talk to those who've been married for significant amounts of time to see how they handle things. Don't pattern your relationship after them, but get a good understanding of a long-term marriage's dynamics from different perspectives and use what works for yours.

Good luck.​

 

[DaRealness]

I'm in your situation and I personally wouldn't do it, but everybody's circumstances are different so it's not totally impossible. Each to their own.

 

[DaRealness]

first things females tried to do in this thread is discredit us "bitter women hating" advice (shaming tactic).

Yep, I noticed that too. Good thing us dudes in the other thread are Shame Tactic Proof and indifferent to such typical and asinine remarks.

 

[kermit da hustla]

can yall stop giving this nikka advice? nikka has made the same lame fukking thread for how long now? married a bytch he was already sharing, and now she's probably getting dikked down by someone else, and now he wants to stay with her?

every nikka who is about to get divorced goes through this. it's called buyer's remorse. if you stay with her, you're a sucker. point blank period. at this point, steve piffler is trolling for attention.

 

[The ADD]

how can i get her back? we're not divorced yet, so it's possible...

 

[spliz]

she shared me too.... i didn't expect her to be a born. gain virgin after we parted. i just believe that we can we can work things out. isn't that what a married couple is supposed to do? we got all the way to the divorce papers, but i don't want to file them. i want her back.

If u feel u wanna save the marriage..thats a commitment YOU made my nikka and not noone else on this site..dont let anyone lead u astray..do what u feel is right my dude...