i'm still in love with my wife, brehs...

[dennis roadman]

A wise man told me once that as long as I searched for love, chasing it, desiring it, needing it, it would evade me.

It took years for me to understand what he meant. I thought at the time that he was just telling me that the whole idea was pointless, and that love was only an illusion that does not really exist.

I know better now.

Love is not the beginning.

Love is not what draws men to women, and women to men.

Love is not the catalyst for stable relationships.

Respect is the beginning.

Physical Attraction is what draws men to women, and women to men.

Maturity is the catalyst for stable relationships.

When both man and women have respect, attraction, and maturity, and have shared these things with each other, love is the end result.

As with everything in this toxic wasteland we live in, it seems that all men and women want the prize, but few men and hardly any women seem to want to run the race for it.

copy/pasting your beliefs from some other woman hater's board

 

[Why-Fi]

if you both want to work it out and the opportunity is there, then its a no-brainer. love is stronger than pride...

 

[Steve Piffler]

First off I'm highly disappointed that you would ask such a serious question to a bunch of anti women anti marriage bitter bandwagon boys.... They aren't going to offer you good advice...

Secondly...follow your heart...you are married...and if you still love your wife and she still loves you...your marriage still has a chance if you are both willing to fight...it may even be better this time around...talk to her

she has always wanted to get back with me. i was the one that was . but after the dinner and talk that we had on Saturday, i believe that what we were arguing about is not worth getting a divorce. it can be fixed.

 

[954UAlreadyknow]

she has always wanted to get back with me. i was the one that was . but after the dinner and talk that we had on Saturday, i believe that what we were arguing about is not worth getting a divorce. it can be fixed.

What was the talk about?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

What opulence said.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

A wise man told me once that as long as I searched for love, chasing it, desiring it, needing it, it would evade me.

It took years for me to understand what he meant. I thought at the time that he was just telling me that the whole idea was pointless, and that love was only an illusion that does not really exist.

I know better now.

Love is not the beginning.

Love is not what draws men to women, and women to men.

Love is not the catalyst for stable relationships.

Respect is the beginning.

Physical Attraction is what draws men to women, and women to men.

Maturity is the catalyst for stable relationships.

When both man and women have respect, attraction, and maturity, and have shared these things with each other, love is the end result.

As with everything in this toxic wasteland we live in, it seems that all men and women want the prize, but few men and hardly any women seem to want to run the race for it.

You can have respect, physical attraction and maturity but still you may not love the person.

To love someone, you guys gotta have the same ethics and/or share the same values. FOr example, there are open relationship people who deeply love each other. Weird if you ask me, but it works for them. Same way, you will not find a negga in here fall in love with the pawgs. Same way, you would not see a smart negga fall in love with a single mother of 3.

Love takes time. It grows on you and it takes time to leave your mind. So, don't think he can just move on from some woman he had a kid with. The kid is 12 years old.


I would love to meet your chosen lady, breh.

 

[Huellz Santana]

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[opulence]

she has always wanted to get back with me. i was the one that was . but after the dinner and talk that we had on Saturday, i believe that what we were arguing about is not worth getting a divorce. it can be fixed.

So then this post was about just posting your thoughts?

Not sure how serious this is to you...but when you make life altering decisions you should not consult with biased people...bitter people...or people that do not know you personally that can offer you a mature opinion...suggestions are very powerful and you don't want negative seeds placed in your mind that can blossom problems that were not there

 

[Steve Piffler]

What was the talk about?

we just kinda layed all of our cards on the table. everything that was bothering her about our relationship, and vice versa. she brought some things up that i never knew about and that she was afraid to tell me for fear of a huge arguement. i did the same. after dinner, everything just felt different. like there was nothing that was hidden anymore. i saw her in a different light. she was calm and cool. she listened and took the time to understand. she NEVER did that before. i mean, i'm not just going to pack my shyt and run home. but i'd like to definitely explore the possibility...

 

[Tallac]

If u truly love her, and she does love u too, go get her. I just hope that U don't miss her just for the sake of it, but more like U feel u can't live without her,

 

[Numpsay]

Females are the absolute worse people to listen to in this situation. Remember 99% of their opinion is based off an emotional stand point. You sound like you are in a vulnerable state right now so its easy to buy into that train of thought.

Things got the way they got between you two for a reason, if that has been identified and you realistically think it can be corrected and you all can move on then go for it.

What happens the majority of the time is people think they can fix things, then get back together and realize things are vastly different or the relationship falls back into the same pattern after so much time.

Remember logic>emotions. If it logically makes sense then go for it, but if its an emotional decision you may want to

And don't think what you two have been doing while separated isn't gonna come up. I suggest talking about that and getting it out of the way prior to committing back together. Also consider that now that you all have shared each other to some degree, it won't be very difficult for either of you to go that route again.

 

[beenz]

Let it go breh. It'll never be the same again. Love ain't shyt without happiness.

she still wants me tho....and the more i interact with her, the more i realize that i want her too...

whats this all about? did ur check start looking real after child support and the tax increases?

did you already take the L selling the mercedes, or ya'll still got it?

 

[kingdizzy01]

find your heart and stomp that mu'fukka out. i still remember the thread about u wanting to leave. by goin to dinner

 

[Steve Piffler]

Females are the absolute worse people to listen to in this situation. Remember 99% of their opinion is based off an emotional stand point. You sound like you are in a vulnerable state right now so its easy to buy into that train of thought.

Things got the way they got between you two for a reason, if that has been identified and you realistically think it can be corrected and you all can move on then go for it.

What happens the majority of the time is people think they can fix things, then get back together and realize things are vastly different or the relationship falls back into the same pattern after so much time.

Remember logic>emotions. If it logically makes sense then go for it, but if its an emotional decision you may want to

And don't think what you two have been doing while separated isn't gonna come up. I suggest talking about that and getting it out of the way prior to committing back together. Also consider that now that you all have shared each other to some degree, it won't be very difficult for either of you to go that route again.

real talk, breh.

but i'm not gonna just run back. it's gonna take time. but the thing is, i'm open to it now. we have already discussed everything that happened during the marriage and the that happened during the separation. i don't care about that. i just want her back...

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

How long y'all been married?​