I'm terrified of BW.

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    I can't talk to them unless I'm tipsy or drunk in a social setting like a club. Otherwise I can't even have daily convo with them without internal anxiety. The internet don't count. Other races of women? They don't scare me, because I'm not attracted to them like that. So I don't really seek the validation of other races of women. But I care too much about BW opinions of me. I'm doomed to be alone forever....:snoop:
     
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    Any negative perception that any BW has of me is crippling.

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    Why am I like this?

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    Did you grow up around only cacs?
    Did you grow up around only hood chicks?

    Im tryna figure this out
     
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    BW hold my self esteem in the palm of their hand....

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    Mix of both at diffirent parts of my life....

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    Did a BW embarrass you in front of a group of people? Or her friends?

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    nikka why u looking androgynous in your pic? :dame:



    anyway how's your relationship with ur mom? i hope this aint an excuse to pawg:unimpressed:
     
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    We often fear what we love the most :wow:
     
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    You probably just got clown as a kid by a black girl.

    Its ok breh breh, we all did.

    We grown now, and black women dont want to clown us, they want to give us the p*ssy :mjlit:
     
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    Sad shyt, no wonder you like San Antonio
     
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    A few times. Not that many. Most was just light hearted roasting. Some would randomly laugh or notice I had weird quirks. So I'd change the way I dressed or tried to act a certain way so I'd be more tolerable. I'm sure they meant no harm and it was my own self esteem that made me change.

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    It's not their fault. It's me....:snoop:

    As a man, I gotta man up. :snoop:
     
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    I like Texas in general. I like Dallas, Houston and East Texas as well. And all 3 are filled with black women who I could never approach.

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    I totally get what you’re saying. I do the same if I talk to black men. It’s like an anxiety almost... you don’t want to say the wrong thing.
     
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    Yeah that shyt is tough, Ive had a fear of women for so long.:russ:Was developing a mouthpiece but fell off since I no longer work around them.

    Only thing I can tell you is practice. Talk to them more. The more you talk to them the better you get. Put yourself out there. Every black woman I've spoken to, have always been nice, so there's nothing to fear.

    Y'all gotta man up and improve yourself. Set goals and gain confidence. Right now I'm trying to lose weight so I can start cold approaching and I'm definitely thinking about doing salsa classes
     
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