I'm terrified of BW.

[Gold]

A few times. Not that many. Most was just light hearted roasting. Some would randomly laugh or notice I had weird quirks. So I'd change the way I dressed or tried to act a certain way so I'd be more tolerable. I'm sure they meant no harm and it was my own self esteem that made me change.



It's not their fault. It's me....

As a man, I gotta man up.

Called it.

We all been there.

Trust me, they grew up too. Nothing to be scared of breh. As a grown man, black women are the most inviting and kindest group of women.

Speaking from personal real life exp, not internet.

If i see a black woman, i know she gonna treat me right. Asian? Nah im fukked

 

[KneeGrow.]

How are you at talking to BM?

Maybe you're gay.

 

[Ol’Otis]

Tevin Campbell face ass nikka


Bw cool tho

 

[stave]

be scared of women brehs

 

[Biscayne]

I totally get what you’re saying. I do the same if I talk to black men. It’s like an anxiety almost... you don’t want to say the wrong thing.

I have to have a whole script before I even talk to a BW. Hell, I'll walk to the bathroom 5 times in a row to put on chapstick, lotion, sanitizer, check my nose, check to see if my face is dry before I can walk out and assist black female coworkers. Some brother saw that I was ashy today(I had just washed my hands) and he offered me lotion, and my heart almost sank because I thought

If he noticed I was ashy, imagine all the BW who I conversed with noticed the same thing.



It's not that I didn't have my own lotion, I just washed my hands previously..

 

[Gold]

I have to have a whole script before I even talk to a BW. Hell, I'll walk to the bathroom 5 times in a row to put on chapstick, lotion, sanitizer, check my nose, check to see if my face is dry before I can walk out and assist black female coworkers. Some brother saw that I was ashy today(I had just washed my hands) and he offered me lotion, and my heart almost sank because I thought

If he noticed I was ashy, imagine all the BW who I conversed with noticed the same thing.



It's not that I didn't have my own lotion, I just washed my hands previously..

You my homie but i jus about fell down the stairs reading this

 

[Coco Loco]

Is that you in your avi?

 

[Gold]

Is that you in your avi?

Das him

 

[yates]

I have to have a whole script before I even talk to a BW. Hell, I'll walk to the bathroom 5 times in a row to put on chapstick, lotion, sanitizer, check my nose, check to see if my face is dry before I can walk out and assist black female coworkers. Some brother saw that I was ashy today(I had just washed my hands) and he offered me lotion, and my heart almost sank because I thought

If he noticed I was ashy, imagine all the BW who I conversed with noticed the same thing.



It's not that I didn't have my own lotion, I just washed my hands previously..

You ever had a gf before ? If yes, did she not boost your confidence with women ?

 

[KOOL-AID]

its ok my guy, work on it.

 

[Wink Beaufield]

To dive deeper into this I gotta ask: How was the family situation? You on good terms with your sisters and moms?

 

[Coco Loco]

Das him

He's handsome.


OP it's just your confidence. You are attractive so that's a huge plus. Make sure you don't have body odor, are well groomed and don't say anything corny. Just be yourself. If they don't like you being yourself, fukk them.

Don't over think it. It'll show. An edible gummy or two might help you relax lol

 

[UncleTomFord15]

I just want to leave these here

 

[Biscayne]

You ever had a gf before ? If yes, did she not boost your confidence with women ?

I've never in my life had a GF.....

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You probably just got clown as a kid by a black girl.

Its ok breh breh, we all did.

We grown now, and black women dont want to clown us, they want to give us the p*ssy

I’ve been clowned by black men when I was younger too and it probably did cause some of my social anxiety when I got older and men started hitting on me.

Once I started having confidence in myself, I didn’t have that anymore.

OP you are lacking confidence. I’m sure those black women are not judging you or thinking ill of you. You’d be surprised how easy it is to have a conversation with a black woman if you approach her respectfully. Just watch out for the boogie ones. They’re not approachable to anybody, lol.