I'm terrified of BW.

[Exlurkernegro]

Alright Op I'm 30+ black male and I have had my fair share of up and downs in the game . I hope this helps. I know the coli at times is a cesspool but I'm give some advice. What you do with it is up to you.

1. BODY GAME : Hit the weight room if you don't already. Women like that is health and in shape. I will go as far as to say that it add a half a point or two to your looks . Clean up your diet the older you get it gets harder. I don't know what age you are but start right now.

2. LOOK IN THE MIRROR: A lot of men's problems can be solved by being honest with themselves. I'm talk about myself for a bit. I like to make a women laught so I watch a ton of stand up comedy and I have a good crude sense of humor. What I'm not good at is the charisma game. Thats because I'm such a introvert. I'm type of nikka that I don't like people but I want the best for everybody. That mean I need to get out my comfort zone and just talk to more people. Address what your weakness and be honest about them. Take accountable and responsibility as a man cause you not going to meet too women that do .

3. APPROACH: Approach women this is what helps strength your mouthpiece. You will get over your approach anxiety. Listen to women learn HOW to listen . Remember the best way to have a great conversation is building a a great life it will give a ton to talk about. I have two threads I want to get off one of those threads is approaching a 100 women and post it journal style in the "lil gems dealing with women threads". Don't be scared to approach and take your lumps its apart of the game.

4. MENTORS/MALE FRIENDS : If you don't already get you some male friends that will hold you accountable and you talk to about what you going threw as a man. Find guys that are doing good in life and seem like they don't put up with much shyt. Find some that will help pick you up when you down.





Find you a mentor and don't be scared to ask to be mentored. I will get into my mentors later but the one is Titus unlimited I have a conference with him next month. Get around some positive and great men.

5: WOMEN'S NATURE : First understand that women go threw things and as you develop as a man you'll know when to have empathy and when to call a women out on her bullshyt. When you learn and study women's nature you'll learn to take your ego out of dealing with women. Ego for most men is the weakness cause they dont know how to you use it and harness it like a should . The nature of a women is deep especially when you hear them talk about sex....oh boy. Its a thing called a sexual underworld you'll stumble upon this the longer you stay in the game. I'll leave it at that. Women nature can and will blow you away.

6. FASHION: Step your fashion game up. This will add half a point to your looks. I plan on hooking back up my stylist. O have been fortunate enough that my uncle was an ex pimp and was raised around women. I started reading GQ when I was 15. Fix your style and it helps a lot like when you have different styles it helps you move in many different worlds. A man's style is very underrated. Don't sleep on it style game.

7: BUILD YOUR WORLD : What type man do you want to be? What do you stand for ? What type of legacy do you want leave behind ? What is your dream car? What does your dream house look like ? Were do you want live when it's all said and done ? What type of women you want in your life ? So you want to be married one day ? Are you an open relationship type ? Or are you into polygamist or polygamy ? What type of money are you aiming to make ? Figure YOUR world out you and will answer many question about yourself. Things will just fall into place.

My YouTube mentors: Rom wills I'm in his secret group I talk to him a lot.


ARC (Allen Rodger Curry) Mr Mode one I'll leave it at this.



BGS is the conscience he know a lot about OUR black people . He has manly principles that are spiritual in nature.


ATHLEAN-X - He lifts weight with knowledge and wisdom. You'll like him he is the best to me on YouTube when it comes lifting weights.


Kevin Samuels: is the style guy for us brothers style is underrated like I said said style game is underrated .

StephisCold: is for young dudes you'll le him


Hopefully this helps man. Remember when you get to a point in the game were you comfortable share some wisdom with brothers that need it . It helps that means it is less nikkas hating and cock blocking or dirty macking.

Don't be scared of black women yeah it can be warlike dealing with them but it's some cool sisters out here. Funny thing is if you get good at dealing with black woman ....other races of women is easy to talk to and deal with. In my experience.

BOUNS: A beautiful sister that I love to listen to is

Kendra D:

Best post here.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Edibles aren’t good for people with anxiety, actually marijuana in general can sometimes make anxiety worse. I know a few brehs that had to stop for that reason. Hell edibles made me so fukking paranoid I had to go to the hospital. Granted I ate too much but idk if he should take them.

Sounds like you smoking Sativa, I stay away from the mind highs I'm already hyper naturally I don't need to boost it anymore. A good Indica though to calm you down though is .

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

You're scared to talk to women bruh.

For real you're legit scared to talk to women bruh.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Best post here.

Except dont ever ask another man to be mentored

You can ask them for advice, get cool with them

But on some Dame ish..dont say please be my Daddy?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Sad thing is those men don’t think we deal with anything unless it’s self inflicting.,,, they think they are the be all and end all of slavery and white supremacy.

That’s why I didn’t even bother w/ going back and forth with brehs in here over it anymore. It’s Pointless. Thankfully we both have bm in our lives that don’t feel the way some of the posters in here feel. I feel like this site tends to attract a lot of posters with deep issues.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

What flick is this from bruh bruh?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

folks take internet way too serious


it's ok to log off for a hr or 2

 

[Carlton Banks]

What flick is this from bruh bruh?

That's Sophia Castello and she's Mexican, not a pawg.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

That's Sophia Castello and she's Mexican, not a pawg.

Dap + Rep

 

[Worthless Loser]

I’m sorry but this site does not have millions of black men posting on it so your opinions do not represent any majority...... just like my experiences aren’t representative of the majority of black women even as I frequent websites where black women have a lot of criticisms for black men and I say the same things in defense of black men ( as far as generalizing) as I say on here for black women.

Should I take their views as the representative of the black male race... or as truth? I’m sure you would prefer I didn’t in that respect, but in this one, I’m supposed to take it as truth?????

The things that people have said in this thread about black women are truth. It's all over TV, the media and the social society. There's no other way around it. Maybe you should look in the mirror and ponder why your fellow black women are like that instead of using experiences to suggest that's not the truth to protect your own bias and defense of black women.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

Except dont ever ask another man to be mentored

You can ask them for advice, get cool with them

But on some Dame ish..dont say please be my Daddy?

If it's an older brother or cousin or OG then it's cool imo.

 

[Biscayne]

Let me be clear. I love our sisters. To death. I love them. While there are cuties of other races, I'm just obsessed and consumed with the idea of black love. And I'm determined to make that happen by any means necessary.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

They aren't generalizations. They are truths. It doesn't mean black women are less liked by those same people who make those criticisms. Again, no one, no race, no people are above criticism.

When there's black women that generalize and criticize black men everyone listens except a few. When in reverse most people dismiss black men and label them lame or c00n.

 

[Bumblebreh]

You're scared to talk to women bruh.

For real you're legit scared to talk to women bruh.

thecoli.com

"yeah I would smash bu..bu.but I terrified to approach brehs"

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Let me be clear. I love our sisters. To death. I love them. While there are cuties of other races, I'm just obsessed and consumed with the idea of black love. And I'm determined to make that happen by any means necessary.

Your such a sweetheart. Check your inbox.