I’m thankful I dated a racist — here’s why

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Must be the vibe you give off :mjpls:

Not at all.:pachaha:There are just a distinct subset of Old White men who go crazy over young black girls & will try a young black girl to see if she is up for it.

On social media, old white men did ask me if I ever had a Sugar Daddy before & asked if I would be willing to try it.Or they would from the jump ask me if I liked lingerie, vacations,shopping,etc.:skip:Would put it out there like it's a free offer.I distinctly remember this old White man telling me how he loves Black women's skin & bodies and how they are so "sensual," & how he would love to spoil me & take me on a trip to "the mountains," to a cuddle me in front of a warm fireplace. :merchant::mjlol:
 

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A lot of Black women who look to White men for validation and love have mental and emotional issues. They deal with cognitive dissonance, weird abuse, and depression, from what I've seen.
If you ever meet any of those Black girls into Dd/lg and BDSM, 9/10 times they've dated or are dating White men who are into sick power games, they they gain some gratification from.
I don't even know how to quantify this into useful data, but this is anecdotal evidence with a sample size of like 70.

Yes and platforms like Tumblr are normalizing the sex positive, swirl stuff.

:wow: Bruh, I used to browse tumblr and stopped because there is some fukked up shyt on there.

That Dd/lg shyt with bw and wm is prevalent there. These women in ropes and chains and calling their white partners master and themselves slaves and shyt
:wow:And they proud of it too.

I can't understand how a black woman can do bdsm with a white man with the historical context involved.

Shyt can change your perception of black women for real and desensitise u to a lot of shyt, but you just have to remember the ones in your life and stay grounded :mjcry:
 

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Not at all.:pachaha:There are just a distinct subset of Old White men who go crazy over young black girls & will try a young black girl to see if she is up for it.

On social media, old white men did ask me if I ever had a Sugar Daddy before & asked if I would be willing to try it.Or they would from the jump ask me if I liked lingerie, vacations,shopping,etc.:skip:Would put it out there like it's a free offer.I distinctly remember this old White man telling me how he loves Black women's skin & bodies and how they are so "sensual," & how he would love to spoil me & take me on a trip to "the mountains," to a cuddle me in front of a warm fireplace. :merchant::mjlol:

I don't think many young Black women can relate :mjpls:
 

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:wow: Bruh, I used to browse tumblr and stopped because there is some fukked up shyt on there.

That Dd/lg shyt with bw and wm is prevalent there. These women in ropes and chains and calling their white partners master and themselves slaves and shyt
:wow:And they proud of it too.

I can't understand how a black woman can do bdsm with a white man with the historical context involved.

Shyt can change your perception of black women for real and desensitise u to a lot of shyt, but you just have to remember the ones in your life and stay grounded :mjcry:

You will only see such sh*t if you deliberately go looking for it. :mjlol:

I don't think many young Black women can relate :mjpls:

:yeshrug: I think many can.Perverted old white men are everywhere Bee.
 

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That's why you should be wary of some black women in IR, you don't know the fukked up shyt they do :sas2:.

Lol u already know I won't get seriously involved with a bw whose dated IR:pachaha:

Just seeing that shyt still wild tho, I guess my problem is I sometimes expect too much from black people.:mjcry:
 
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good thread the sistas need to know what they getting into if they so choose to date IR. This could always be a possibility with today's climate when dating IR.

:obama:
Stories like this could deter others who are about to make a similar mistake so don't frown on that.

What about black men?

Would similar stories help them?
 

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shyt, I do. Even when I was in 3rd Grade and I heard a White kid make a racist joke they'd heard from their parents, I could feel how wrong it was. I didn't have to be well versed in racial discourse to know it was fukked up.
thats YOU though. i knew what was up in like 5th grade myself. but thats ME. everybody is different is all i'm saying. and some dont respond to knowledge the same.

my girl is mixed and she knows her place as a black woman..but her sister who has the same parents as her is face deep in an identity crisis and doesnt fully understand her blackness...and she's the older sister too...i can only hope she opens her eyes but that may never happen.
 

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This is why its good for our people to be in our area and invest and build upon it.

White areas just aim to brainwash our people.
 
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