I’m thankful I dated a racist — here’s why

[godkiller]

Amazing,


I dont care who she dated in the past. (didn't read the article so if she was on some really disrespectful ish to her) but If she has seen the light I think she is MUCH more useful to a cause then some of these fools that are living a lie. "One min they love being black" but you get them alone with a few drinks and you start hearing questionable things like "I can't stand nikka's sometimes" on some ish.



Truth of the matter is out of the 11 percent of the US that is black there is a even smaller percent that is really about black love and the growth completely at all cost. The ones that aren't dating, sleeping or entertaining people of other races no matter how good they look or how much money they have they aren't interested or attracted to them. I can say I've meet maybe 2 in my lifetime and one I'd question if he was "always" like this.


My point is there are very few black people that grow up in the USA that are awoke from being a child through adulthood. How can most be when we live in white america where everything your are shown implies that "white is right" and "white is beautiful" Unless you come from a strong black family you've probably had your "c00n" moments.


Love being black, love your people and come to understand the power that comes from a black couple and a families. A successful black and happy couple confuses and scares alot of white people. People grow and people change, the people who've actually experienced whats its like to come from a place of disgust or hate and then learn from that are the people I'd listen too and advice I'd take to heart the most.


Alot of you are running around here with absolutely no experience or real dedication to any kind of black cause. Especially if its inconvenient, If some rich white, Latin or Spanish model wanted to take you from your black faithful girlfriend for life yall'd hop and skip right on over to them in a heart beat.

I dont care about a wenching past or c000ning pass in most cases unless it was excessive and hateful. It would take alot for me to trust someone that is reformed from that kind of behavior and a relationship with a black women who was like that....It'd take awhile for me to trust her enough to even attempt to be on that level. But I'm not going to cast off a sister who's potentially seen the light.

Having a wenching or c00n past isn't like your sexually history, but it can hold some similarities. You'll always have that brand of and some people will treat you as "once a always a..." but people like that who have come up out of it are some of the best people to teach or share with others so they dont have to go through it or at least not to the same extent.




Yall going over board, I got no love for a wench or a c00n but I aint gonna hate on someone that has righted there wrongs and see there mistake. male or female

Building with bedwenches, like thieves and murderers, is like building on quicksand. They are morally, intellectually and behaviourally compromised. You can no more trust a bedwench with fighting white supremacy than you can trust a career thief with the world's biggest diamond. Better to be rid of the negative people and elements like bedwenches than to trust them do the opposite of what they've done so long.

You're a woman so your opinion here should be taken with a grain of salt. Black women are naturally craven.

 

[Cheese McNair]

Even though I'm happy she broke from her programing, I don't understand why some of you can't see why dudes would be wary to date someone who only came to like you because her first picks didn't see her as more than a exotic fukk toy. Just like I wouldn't blame bw for not taking back dudes who want to come home cause they put ww/non-bw on a pedestal and got burned in the process.

With that logic, it would be pointless to "come home" if you're not even going to be accepted by your "home"


That's just YOUR perspective. EVERYONE has baggage. Aint nobody just walking around with no mental issues/life problems. Her baggage from her past relationship with a racist, aint even that much baggage. I'd rather have a chick with that issue than a sexually issue because she was molested as a kid.

 

[Samori Toure]

So she used to think that black men were no good because " society taught her that " until she got smutted out by a racist white man, then she said to herself " maybe black men are not so bad after all " .
Some black women in the same environment don't need to pass through all that to date a black man, and those are who I respect .

Or look at it like this. She realized that she had been lied to in order to think that all White men were good. So by extension she then realized that she was lied to in order to think that all Black men were bad. She was misguided and obviously she is admitting to not being perfect.

My only problem with folks like her is that when they hear White folks or any other group say something bad about the group that she belongs too; how did/does she convince herself that the statements didn't/don't apply to her? Because if White men said that to her about Black men; then what does she think that White women are saying to Black men about her and other Black women? There is a lot of delusional thinking among Black people if they can't see themselves in racist comments and thoughts of others.

 

[thatdude954]

Simps bouta come up and cape. bytch built like the wb frog

You saying you wouldn't hit off looks alone?

 

[Cheese McNair]

this post brought up something that i've never known about black folks that i've been discovering lately: there are many black people out here who embraced their blackness (whatever this means) VERY late in life, like in college and shyt

you will hear them say shyt like "i hated being black"; "i didn't think black was good"; "i never felt black"
shyt like this is just foreign to me because being black in my mind was ALWAYS cool and black folks who embraced being black was all i looked up to. i thought this experience was shared between all black folks but i'm learning that there's a SUBSTANTIAL portion of black folks who this was not the case for.

so you get these chics who are 20+ years old and for the first time calling themselves "embracing blackness" but never had any real love for a black man, woman or black culture this "woke" shyt is more of a costume, a phase that they're going through.

i'm always suspicious about black folks who talk about didn't embrace being black or didn't like being black and shyt like that. they basically just saying they were c00ns for most of their formative years. and those beliefs don't just go away

I truly believe that some people can learn to not hate something/someone. We just never see it happen because it's rarely encouraged.

 

[Cheese McNair]

She used to see black men as less than her. How does it help us as black people to crusade for women who saw our men as inferior?

how is forgiving someone so hard? She wasnt hanging us, she was just confused. You could blame her mom for NOT forcing her to be around her own people. She still got so many years to live. She could end up doing THE MOST for us NOW... You mean to tell me, we still cant forgive her?

Damn, we can hold some serious grudges over not so significant shyt.

 

[KingTut]

Well you're a guy so yeah you think women are more hypocritical. Perspective.

Most black women are with black men but y'all stay angry about the few who do.

All I'm saying is being a c00n is equal opportunity. Treat both black men and women the same.

Kinda like how black women went ape shyt on twitter at Michael B Jordan for dating outside of his race.

And I think being a hyporcrite a just a human trait, not one that is women are more prone to. Hell men are probably more hypocritical than women tbh. I just dislike how both of us react to each other when one gets into an IRR.

 

[Cheese McNair]

Nah b, only reason she "found herself" was because that white boy reminded her that at the end of the day she's still black regardless of her dating a white man. She thought she was above black men and didn't want anything to do with em until she got that wake up call.


She saw that she was just a rag for white men and now she wants to settle for a black man? Get outta here with that bullshyt, they can keep her c00nette ass

She only in her 20s though. This is not the dumbest thing that can happen to a 20 year old. This chick just wanted attention and she got the wrong kind.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Can't friend your way in the p*ssy breh.

You also can't anger and bitter your way into it...breh

 

[Cheese McNair]

Truth

nikkas really think we need to save every black person

Some r never gon change and some put up a front and r not really bout shyt despite their fake " fukk whitey" chants, and , etc

Like 80% of nikkas on thecoli and 60% of nikkas in real life

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

You saying you wouldn't hit off looks alone?

Nope. Neck yes

 

[Cheese McNair]

shyt, I do. Even when I was in 3rd Grade and I heard a White kid make a racist joke they'd heard from their parents, I could feel how wrong it was. I didn't have to be well versed in racial discourse to know it was fukked up.

Good for you Gawd

 

[Rarebird77]

Kinda like how black women went ape shyt on twitter at Michael B Jordan for dating outside of his race.

And I think being a hyporcrite a just a human trait, not one that is women are more prone to. Hell men are probably more hypocritical than women tbh. I just dislike how both of us react to each other when one gets into an IRR.

Yeah those chicks are buggin'. I could care less.

I'm more concerned with internalized racism.

What she about her belief of black men is deep and something that resonates with me.

When you're black you really do internalize that all black people are negative. It makes you do one of two things to avoid black people and date other races altogether or to seek out the most negative example of black people because subconsciously you think bad = black so if you do date black people, you only date the worst kind because that's who you think black people are.

I read a lot of you guys wondering what's the fascination that some black women have with thugs, well it's because of what I said above. They are attracted to black men but think all black men are bad so they are compelled to chose the worst examples. Maybe by they time they have been through it they finally snap out of it but that's a shame.

Black men do the exact same thing. They internalize that black women are all fat, ugly, poor with tons of kids, so they either avoid black women altogether and only date interacially or only seek out the worst example of black women.

Here essay was really telling and deep in my opinion.

 

[Cheese McNair]

nikkas are really wasting their time arguing with this subset of black women when it comes to this issue. some of y'all can't understand that no matter how you rationalize it, their disdain for us black men clouds their judgment. experience will be their only teacher.

and honestly, they are 100% entitled to their choice.

i just advise my brothers to thoroughly check the ho-fax these days... we already seeing this phenomenon, but we're going to see it way more in the coming years... college-educated BW used and abused by todd, jasper and brett... only expecting to come back to the open arms of darius who got them certs

I dont just know black people but I can say I've met about 4 people named Darius, but I've only met one Todd and Brett.

Never met a white guy named Jasper

 

[Blackout]

Yeah those chicks are buggin'. I could care less.

I'm more concerned with internalized racism.

What she about her belief of black men is deep and something that resonates with me.

When you're black you really do internalize that all black people are negative. It makes you do one of two things to avoid black people and date other races altogether or to seek out the most negative example of black people because subconsciously you think bad = black so if you do date black people, you only date the worst kind because that's who you think black people are.

I read a lot of you guys wondering what's the fascination that some black women have with thugs, well it's because of what I said above. They are attracted to black men but think all black men are bad so they are compelled to chose the worst examples. Maybe by they time they have been through it they finally snap out of it but that's a shame.

Black men do the exact same thing. They internalize that black women are all fat, ugly, poor with tons of kids, so they either avoid black women altogether and only date interacially or only seek out the worst example of black women.

Here essay was really telling and deep in my opinion.

Your not factoring in that she was in a white area/school that white washed her and how she came back to black when she got a nikka wake up call.