I’m thankful I dated a racist — here’s why

Guile

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Wow, the amount of hate this woman is reaping in here is sad. We live in a sick racist society. That sickness infects us all in different ways. Kudos to this sista for realizing how ill white supremacy made her. She got herself some help, did a triage, and is now healthier than a lot of other black folks who think just dating within the race is the only thing that makes you well. Newsflash, it isn't.

needing a wake up call when we live in a systematically racist society doesn't make her well. and missing the point. she was dating this white dude because she loathed her blackness, not because she liked the guy. that's what the problem is. now she's coming back to black guys (not really though) after getting smutted out.
 

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needing a wake up call when we live in a systematically racist society doesn't make her well. and missing the point. she was dating this white dude because she loathed her blackness, not because she liked the guy. that's what the problem is. now she's coming back to black guys (not really though) after getting smutted out.

I mean we welcome back ex gang bangers and drug addicts as reliable witnesses for the horrors of growing up in this sick society. We even invite them to schools to preach about it. I don't see this as any different.
 

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Amazing,


I dont care who she dated in the past. (didn't read the article so if she was on some really disrespectful ish :scust: to her) but If she has seen the light I think she is MUCH more useful to a cause then some of these fools that are living a lie. "One min they love being black" but you get them alone with a few drinks and you start hearing questionable things like "I can't stand nikka's sometimes" on some :patrice: ish.



Truth of the matter is out of the 11 percent of the US that is black there is a even smaller percent that is really about black love and the growth completely at all cost. The ones that aren't dating, sleeping or entertaining people of other races no matter how good they look or how much money they have they aren't interested or attracted to them. I can say I've meet maybe 2 in my lifetime and one I'd question if he was "always" like this.


My point is there are very few black people that grow up in the USA that are awoke from being a child through adulthood. How can most be when we live in white america where everything your are shown implies that "white is right" and "white is beautiful" Unless you come from a strong black family you've probably had your "c00n" moments.


Love being black, love your people and come to understand the power that comes from a black couple and a families. A successful black and happy couple confuses and scares alot of white people. People grow and people change, the people who've actually experienced whats its like to come from a place of disgust or hate and then learn from that are the people I'd listen too and advice I'd take to heart the most.


Alot of you are running around here with absolutely no experience or real dedication to any kind of black cause. Especially if its inconvenient, If some rich white, Latin or Spanish model wanted to take you from your black faithful girlfriend for life yall'd hop and skip right on over to them in a heart beat.

I dont care about a wenching past or c000ning pass in most cases unless it was excessive and hateful. It would take alot for me to trust someone that is reformed from that kind of behavior and a relationship with a black women who was like that....It'd take awhile for me to trust her enough to even attempt to be on that level. But I'm not going to cast off a sister who's potentially seen the light.

Having a wenching or c00n past isn't like your sexually history, but it can hold some similarities. You'll always have that brand of :scust::patrice: and some people will treat you as "once a always a..." but people like that who have come up out of it are some of the best people to teach or share with others so they dont have to go through it or at least not to the same extent.




Yall going over board, I got no love for a wench or a c00n but I aint gonna hate on someone that has righted there wrongs and see there mistake. male or female :yeshrug:
 

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needing a wake up call when we live in a systematically racist society doesn't make her well. and missing the point. she was dating this white dude because she loathed her blackness, not because she liked the guy. that's what the problem is. now she's coming back to black guys (not really though) after getting smutted out.

How did she get smutted out? She was in a long-term, committed relationship that she chose to leave once she got her eyes opened and realized the race game in America and that her boyfriend was a racist. A lot of y'alls self-esteem is so low is and feelings of inferiority are so high, that you simply cannot believe that a black woman would choose black men over white men. "Nah, she lying. She only came back because he didn't want her no more but she'll go back to white boys 'cause don't nobody really want us." :mjcry: Is the self-hatred so intense that it blinded your eyes to the immense praise she gave black men? Did it blind your eyes to the fact that she clearly preferred black men and had no desire to date another white man? A lot of posters here are in genuine need of psychiatric help.
 

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I applaud her journey and honesty. She's human, and the fact that she mentions undebatable facts such as the subtle indoctrination our kids face and the reason most CHILDREN grow into these strongly controlled stereotypes.. It takes honesty and could easily send a person in the opposite direction to the one which she travelled. To the coli brethren spewing vile hatred towards her, i know you dudes think you were born with holistic god given knowledge of the universe, but give the rest of us humans a break, life is about knowledge through experience, sometimes you have to be wrong to figure out whats right
 

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How did she get smutted out? She was in a long-term, committed relationship that she chose to leave once she got her eyes opened and realized the race game in America and that her boyfriend was a racist. A lot of y'alls self-esteem is so low is and feelings of inferiority are so high, that you simply cannot believe that a black woman would choose black men over white men. "Nah, she lying. She only came back because he didn't want her no more but she'll go back to white boys 'cause don't nobody really want us." :mjcry: Is the self-hatred so intense that it blinded your eyes to the immense praise she gave black men? Did it blind your eyes to the fact that she clearly preferred black men and had no desire to date another white man? A lot of posters here are in genuine need of psychiatric help.
Your post makes absolutely no sense.
 

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Wow, the amount of hate this woman is reaping in here is sad. We live in a sick racist society. That sickness infects us all in different ways. Kudos to this sista for realizing how ill white supremacy made her. She got herself some help, did a triage, and is now healthier than a lot of other black folks who think just dating within the race is the only thing that makes you well. Newsflash, it isn't.

Man get out of here with this bullshyt :mjlol:

And what makes her healthier than other blacks ? The fact she wears an ankh necklace and writes bullshyt articles about becoming "woke" :heh:

Many blacks been doing what she just started doing from childhood. Good for her for finding herself, but ain't nobody bout to give her a cookie for it.
 

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How did she get smutted out? She was in a long-term, committed relationship that she chose to leave once she got her eyes opened and realized the race game in America and that her boyfriend was a racist. A lot of y'alls self-esteem is so low is and feelings of inferiority are so high, that you simply cannot believe that a black woman would choose black men over white men. "Nah, she lying. She only came back because he didn't want her no more but she'll go back to white boys 'cause don't nobody really want us." :mjcry: Is the self-hatred so intense that it blinded your eyes to the immense praise she gave black men? Did it blind your eyes to the fact that she clearly preferred black men and had no desire to date another white man? A lot of posters here are in genuine need of psychiatric help.

bih, keep my self-esteem out your mouf.:pacspit: I got love for black women and they love me.

I know that on the whole black women prefer black men and black men prefer black women.

this girl stated clearly that she did not like her blackness despite being raised in a pro-black family. most black people aint like that.

fukk this bytch, she was smutted out because she fukking hated herself and was fukking this white dude to get away from her blackness. it took dating this cac for a year and moving in with him to see what was clear as day to most black people.
 
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