im tired of always being a guys second or third choice
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West Coast Avenger
West Coastin & Smokin
5'9 and 189 isn't necessarily fat...especially when it's proportioned nicely....
Here is an example....
Date men with specific similar interests. Date realistically - If you are a 6 or 7 date another 6 or 7. Don't sleep with them - make them fiend for you. Fix yourself up not in looks but in life - learn a language, learn a new skill, learn a new sport, try a new hobby. Be social - join a few new organizations. You go to an HBCU - are you in a sorority? Don't always be lost in the shuffle of your friends if / when you go out with them - hang in small groups 2 or max. 3 most guys are not going to approach a crowd. Make sure you look your best at all times. Upgrade your wardrobe if you need to do so. Make sure your hygiene game is impeccable. Be friendly but not too friendly. Be a bit mysterious and reveal yourself little at a time. Insist on respect or bounce.
^^^ Just generalizing since I don't know you - except what you said in the OP.
How do you even know who is on your level physically?
Shouldn't she just try to go after guys she's attracted to?
Lol. Breh.
This dude Said a butter stick.
ridingonawhim
4b/4c hair expert
You're probably honed in on men that are above your level and thus, have better options. It's the same thing with men.
Guys and girls who are average expecting to have Miracle Watts or Michael Ealy.
Most people date on their level and with you being a female, I guarantee that it's men approaching or interested in you that you likely are giving the screw face.
Either make yourself more appealing or get in where you fit.
I don't usually agree with putting all of your shyt onto social media for the world to see, but... I can't even be mad at him. I completely understand.
Like women can't be animals them damn selves.
honestly i dont think im aiming too high
i ONLY say this because they always come back....most of the time with hella baggage
talking about "oh I should have dated you before, I knew you were for me" headass nikkas
out of school or have kids now ass nikkas
"my ex hurt my feelings, I actually liked you" headass nikkas
"can we still go out" ass nikkas.
like no, fukk you.
im still the same person. I just lost a little weight
i just feel like noone will give me a chance. now i have to get hot
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
y'all nikkas need hobbies man
Lie to yourself brehettes. You know where you are are on that scale we all do. Or you could just let her go after male dimes and let her get her feelings hurt.
honestly i dont think im aiming too high
i ONLY say this because they always come back....most of the time with hella baggage
talking about "oh I should have dated you before, I knew you were for me" headass nikkas
out of school or have kids now ass nikkas
"my ex hurt my feelings, I actually liked you" headass nikkas
"can we still go out" ass nikkas.
like no, fukk you.
im still the same person. I just lost a little weight
i just feel like noone will give me a chance. now i have to get hot
What kind of man you attract, and do you have friends that are in relationships?
Just because I think a guy might be on my level physically doesn't mean he does and vice versa.
How do you know she's going after male dimes?
It could be regular guys that are making her feel this way.
West Coast Avenger
West Coastin & Smokin
LOL!!...no....then she will be the 2nd or 3rd option again....
Exactly.....
Attractiveness is highly subjective. It's not linear.
LadySimone
Banned
But what are you bring to the table tho
Oh please. She is a college student.
So she should date guys she's not attracted to?
Attractiveness is highly subjective. It's not linear.
Exactly.
