Never seen it happen. Maybe it could happen but look at those IG threads most of us are pretty accurate when rating women and when we see an attractive female we all acknowledge it - even if we won't smash for whatever reason. Same as women with men. Plus a 6 - 8 is not that great a point spread. There is more trouble when an 9 dates a 5 for example.
im tired of always being a guys second or third choice
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Never seen it happen. Maybe it could happen but look at those IG threads most of us are pretty accurate when rating women and when we see an attractive female we all acknowledge it - even if we won't smash for whatever reason. Same as women with men. Plus a 6 - 8 is not that great a point spread. There is more trouble when an 9 dates a 5 for example.
If you behave like a 2nd or 3rd choice, they will treat you like one. The 20lbs seems to be hindering your confidence so lose it for yourself and your health and nothing more. Demand what you want in a relationship and if he's not showing you he's with it, leave. Don't tie yourself emotionally to one guy until you find one that is showing you you're number one. Before then, treat them as they are disposable and don't have sex with them.maybe when I get out of my hbcu my options will get a bit better but for now im
always kicked to the curb for someone else
when i lose these 20 pounds ima shyt on these men, yall. I swear
Good point.
Action Mike
All praise..
here ya'll nikkas go again. Op isn't big at all, in fact she's the true definition of "thick". Ya'll stay provin the fact that you have no idea about women's bodies, especially black women.
Can't tell brehs what to be attracted to/wife, and the fact this topic was made means an issue.
'Thick' should be made redundant, your either in shape or not depending on build.
Aceofspades404
Superstar
But most of you guys are average/ borderline ugly so your scale is totally different from attractive dudes who actually get play. I know from personal experience.
Action Mike
All praise..
Queen
CEO of #GPB
If she is taking Ls left and right then she needs to follow my advice. Yes, sometimes you have to give off strong signals, but the point is that the mindset needs to be changed first. All these posts telling her to "go after this type of guy" are rubbish.
Be a lady. Keep yourself looking decent. Be pleasant. Be able to hold an interesting conversation. Don't be a doormat. Learn the art of flirtation. Do not pursue any man. The end.
The_King_of_Everything
Yeah.
DAMNdont act like you werent in my inbox anyway my first day here
i was actually about to ask, but i want to see how this plays out
if it gets bad in a few pages can i still ask you to move it
Aceofspades404
Superstar
Your argument is invalid bc I guarantee you if op posts a pic of her body(which she already has) you would think she's attractive. Going by numbers is stupid.
edit: I dont think she should pursue or entertain any men right now.
Step back take a breather, lose the weigh she wants and then jump back in the game wit the advice you suggested
Oh so you know how I look now.
Something I said made you uncomfortable?
Okay ...
Think about what you are writing.
How could I be giving this pov to fix a relationship without living it.
Another one?dont act like you werent in my inbox anyway my first day here
Of course it does. Clearly that's easier said then done.
25YOUTHS!!
Superstar
But what are you bring to the table tho
So that's the only requirement now?
She's in an environment where everyone is currently in school