It really doesn't matter because even skinny, highly attractive women can be the 2nd or 3rd choice if she allows a guy to make her that. Men's scum-baggery doesn't start and stop with bigger/thick/fat or whatever the hell women.
im tired of always being a guys second or third choice
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Aceofspades404
Superstar
when did I say you were ugly?
Oh so you know how I look now.
Something I said made you uncomfortable?
Okay ...
Think about what you are writing.
How could I be giving this pov to fix a relationship without living it.
You said most of us which you were referring to coli dudes. If it ain't you, don't worry about it.
Nothing you said made me uncomfortable, I just wanted to add a different perspective from my own experience.
Action Mike
All praise..
those brehs who put her at 2nd or 3rd also found her 'attractive', 'attractive( can mean anything.Personally at that weight I'm good, no offense OP. I'm trying not to be mean here.
Hmmm maybe.
LadySimone
Banned
No it isn't. Everyone should get their wants and needs met (within reason) by they person they are involved with.
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
Problem is that women these days don't properly do that. They'll consider a signal something like telling a dude "I'm single and looking for a relationship, hopefully whoever I'm with can show me a good time like we're having now". Now a chick would think this shyt should be obvious considering I'm out with this dude, alone, just us, and I'm telling him this shyt. But guys nowadays are so afraid of rejection that he just won't take the hint.
LadySimone
Banned
So that's the only requirement now?
She's in an environment where everyone is currently in school
She is a college student, young and developing herself. She brings as much to the table as her male peers. What she need to bring to a table these young boys ain't got? FOH.
Truth Hurts
Banned
just enjoy being the "slump buster" and new things will come your way
A woman at 5'9 can carry 185 in what most men would consider Bad easily.
If shes has a bust side of D's or above a decent size booty and hips and some muscle under the fat....yeah its not bad at all.
If shes has a bust side of D's or above a decent size booty and hips and some muscle under the fat....yeah its not bad at all.
Action Mike
All praise..
Better yet, make expectations clear, not hope they'll 'get it'.
ridingonawhim
4b/4c hair expert
well im at college
i really dont have that many friends here, only aquantences (sp).... only 3 or 4 people i can call "friend".
i attract all types, one thing i notice is that i attract older dudes too.....i find myself attracting geeks if at all.
one thing i have to come to ropes with is the way I dress....im frumpy, but not too frumpy....imo.
i just feel like the way you look naked is more important...idk.
dont really have alot of money for clothes, dont like dressing up. i dont like facades, so i dont wear makeup often. if i do wear makeup i do get some play, but i dont like the way it feels on my face.
plus i like to walk alot and end up sweating it off....
ridingonawhim
4b/4c hair expert
ridingonawhim
4b/4c hair expert
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
