im tired of always being a guys second or third choice
- Thread starter ridingonawhim
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ridingonawhim
4b/4c hair expert
actually i lied. im 5'8.
i carry my weight well im tired of how my face looks at this current weight though.
im african so i already have alot of larger features and a fat face certainly doesnt help
West Coast Avenger
West Coastin & Smokin
It sounds like you are going after men that are out of your league.....
....and you sound a little to nice....which means you may be a little easy to take advantage of....
....and you sound a little to nice....which means you may be a little easy to take advantage of....
ridingonawhim
4b/4c hair expert
So you're Steve Smith?
You're probably honed in on men that are above your level and thus, have better options. It's the same thing with men.
Guys and girls who are average expecting to have Miracle Watts or Michael Ealy.
Most people date on their level and with you being a female, I guarantee that it's men approaching or interested in you that you likely are giving the screw face.
Either make yourself more appealing or get in where you fit.
Guys and girls who are average expecting to have Miracle Watts or Michael Ealy.
Most people date on their level and with you being a female, I guarantee that it's men approaching or interested in you that you likely are giving the screw face.
Either make yourself more appealing or get in where you fit.
If you want to slim down OP do it for you not to get these nikka's, its going to be the same stuff different day even at 30 pounds lighter.
Instead of being the "side dish " you be the main dish and you'll have a whole new set of problems.
Larry Lobster
/-_-\
Another man pretending to be a woman. 
Your probably one of those chicks who like the 20% of men
Gtfo
- blackierobinson
Gtfo
- blackierobinson
Look it's not that serious. It's the interweb. But here is a chart.
Now I ain't saying its nothing wrong with big girls. You know its cuffing season so your stock might go up.
And yes that was a double entendre, and you can ask me how
Action Mike
All praise..
Well...
Date men with specific similar interests. Date realistically - If you are a 6 or 7 date another 6 or 7. Don't sleep with them - make them fiend for you. Fix yourself up not in looks but in life - learn a language, learn a new skill, learn a new sport, try a new hobby. Be social - join a few new organizations. You go to an HBCU - are you in a sorority? Don't always be lost in the shuffle of your friends if / when you go out with them - hang in small groups 2 or max. 3 most guys are not going to approach a crowd. Make sure you look your best at all times. Upgrade your wardrobe if you need to do so. Make sure your hygiene game is impeccable. Be friendly but not too friendly. Be a bit mysterious and reveal yourself little at a time. Insist on respect or bounce.
^^^ Just generalizing since I don't know you - except what you said in the OP.
^^^ Just generalizing since I don't know you - except what you said in the OP.
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