I'm tired of being alone on Saturday nights

[Rell Lauren]

Go to sleep early like I do.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

enjoy your lonely saturday nights in your prime and non existent sex life

You coming up with a lot of reasons why you can't instead of reasons why you can :franchit:

My swagger is OFF right now.

I know for a fact I'll embarrass myself.

Dreads all fuzzy and I need to shave.

Plus I'm 6'1.

I just feel like a giant weirdo hitting on some random girl I don't know at all.

Basically I'm too insecure

 

[Kane1]

*slides in DMs*

edit: you a dude???

Who's mans is this.....

 

[god shamgod]

My swagger is OFF right now.

I know for a fact I'll embarrass myself.

Dreads all fuzzy and I need to shave.

Plus I'm 6'1.

I just feel like a giant weirdo hitting on some random girl I don't know at all.

Basically I'm too insecure

Nah you just comfortable making excuses.I don't understand the bolded logic at all wtf

and you being 6'1 has what to do with anything? You clearly aren't that tired of spending saturday nights alone

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

I'm not sure where i stand on cold approaching women either i'm always of the opinion most women just want to go about their day and not be bothered by an average joe . I'd overthink the hell outta that shyt too unless we both waiting a bus stop or in a Queue that convo initiation would be awkward as shyt lets say a girl is walking in front of me running up from behind on some excuse me seems a bit off as does walking towards her and saying hi.

 

[SAINT]

I’m kinda similar to some of the shyt I see here. The difference is I met a lot of people and they tend to gravitate towards me without me even trying. The only thing is I push them away or keep em at a distance
I think I enjoy my own company more than I enjoy the company of others, until I get bored then I hit up tinder or one of my homies once like every 8 months then I get back into my focus. Which is becoming as rich and as successful as I can be. If I have to be lonely to get there, then so be it

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Nah you just comfortable making excuses.I don't understand the bolded logic at all wtf

and you being 6'1 has what to do with anything? You clearly aren't that tired of spending saturday nights alone

It's all apart of my insecurities.

And as weird as it sounds even my height makes me insecure.

I need to change my mentality before I can even think about dating.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

OP on a Saturday night

 

[Prynce]

I ain't doing shyt today so spill it

When I was 16 I had a cute jawn bend over and told me to grab her ass

I walked away scared af

at 21 I had this chick doing everything in her power to fwm. Even started claiming me as her BF and I never said 1 word to her

even now i'm kinda inhibited. Last week chick all on me in the club and throwing p*ssy. I just went home and smoked weed

I attract hella people. I just have big ass walls up and im extremely distant. If i could fix that I would be top 5

I brought all my loneliness on myself because I got my feelings hurt as a kid

I do want those connections but at the same time I run from them

 

[cartierhoe]

Thread took a turn with the first reply

 

[Soundbwoy]

It's all apart of my insecurities.

And as weird as it sounds even my height makes me insecure.

I need to change my mentality before I can even think about dating.

whatever you're into do it alone that will help you build confidence and people will actually gravitate toward you

 

[Shorty K]

Been in a bjj gym...

Then you understand what a inviting and social environment it is and a great way to be around friendly people who will break him out his shell.