I'm tired of being alone on Saturday nights

Cloutius Maximus

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yea I had a couple bad experiences in my teenage/pre-teen years that followed me for a long ass time

It was hard for me to believe women liked me until I like 2 years ago

I wish I could go back and tell my dumb ass 15 year old self to stop being so sensitive and see what's in my face

in the beginners mind there are many possibilites, in the experts mind there are few...

let go of that limited mind and try to attain universal mind, the mind that contains all things within itself

 

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Sit at home with nothing holding you back from meeting other people and complain of loneliness, brehs.

Here's a hint....you don't have to go somewhere just to meet females. You can legit go somewhere just because you like going. Just go!
Not always that simple breh first and foremost there's a limit to where you can go alone without looking creepy, remember almost everyone will be in their own group at an event/ social spot.
Your gonna need some serious social skills to be able to spark convo with people already with their friends.
 

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Step out your comfort zone and change your situation. A lot of y'all on here don't seem willing to make the moves to change things

you not getting no chicks if you don't holla.
I'm willing, just don't really know how/where to start
 

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Not always that simple breh first and foremost there's a limit to where you can go alone without looking creepy, remember almost everyone will be in their own group at an event/ social spot.
Your gonna need some serious social skills to be able to spark convo with people already with their friends.
Last place I went alone was to the movies to see the DBZ movie.:mjlol:

The whole idea of going to a bar/club alone seems weird to me.

I'm not ruling it out though. I just need to step out that comfort zone.
 

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Dawg every day is a clean slate. What happened yesterday doesn't matter today let alone what happened to you at your college orientation :gucci:

You need to toughen up, join a Jiu Jitsu club and meet people that way, socialize with them WHILE also getting your ass beat on the daily on the mats.

Once you internalize that taking a L on the mat isn't the end of the world and you have a chance to win the next day, your whole mental game will change for the better. Then when you make another dude tap out, you'll gain even more self confidence that you can win in life in other ways :ehh: that's my advice b.

bruh i was just on a google hangout last night with black youtubers and they was all talkin about how every man needs to learn to fight

im bout to take some boxing lessons :wow:
 

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I'm willing, just don't really know how/where to start

Today sunday, go to your local target/wal mart or grocery store and approach a chick(21+) you find attractive

regardless of the results if she rejects you keep it movin if she gives you the # text her tonight.That's taking a step
 

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lol it has to be more than just sex with women. I have female cousins and her friends inviting me to hang out. I never really socialized with women in a platonic way before so Im just learnin to try to care about them in a different way
I feel you, if you play the platonic role she might hook you up with other women
 

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Today sunday, go to your local target/wal mart or grocery store and approach a chick(21+) you find attractive
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