I'm tired of being alone on Saturday nights

[The Coochie Assassin]

That's my problem tho.

The move to Los Angeles was supposed to be my "clean slate".

I moved to LA from a small town and my first day of orientation we all in this big ass room and I got the corner seat.

The instructor tells us to introduce ourselves to the person we're next to.

I turn around to say hi and the girl sitting next to me straight up ignored me and wouldn't turn around to say hi.

Now me being from a small town I'm like "well damn this is what these stuck up LA bytches is like? fukk it then" and I never attempted to connect with anyone.

Dawg every day is a clean slate. What happened yesterday doesn't matter today let alone what happened to you at your college orientation

You need to toughen up, join a Jiu Jitsu club and meet people that way, socialize with them WHILE also getting your ass beat on the daily on the mats.

Once you internalize that taking a L on the mat isn't the end of the world and you have a chance to win the next day, your whole mental game will change for the better. Then when you make another dude tap out, you'll gain even more self confidence that you can win in life in other ways that's my advice b.

 

[Prynce]

It’s weird how shyt we went through in our younger years can shape and affect us as men years down the line. I still have hang ups about shyt that happened when I was 16, I’m 36 right now

I'm 25 and a lot of shyt that happened within the last 10 years fukked with me more than what I know

I legit had cute girls all on my jock and I believed that I was ugly in my head so much that I ignored girls who would have done anything for me

I realized how important it is for a child to grown up around positive reinforcement

thank god im getting over a lot of them but I still have some when it comes to women

if Im not tryna fukk I dont know what to do with a woman. Im having to learn how to be a chicks friend now

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Girl at my old job I used to chat with at work and I helped her move hit me up

We went to a sushi spot and I went to a get together at her house

A few ppl showed up

If u want to be cool with ppl you have to do popping shyt in your life so you can meet them or extend a hand out and be helpful

It’s a lot harder as you get older. I think some shyt you can’t make up for lost time

My next goal is to get a career and travel

 

[semicko82]

I'm 25 and a lot of shyt that happened within the last 10 years fukked with me more than what I know

I legit had cute girls all on my jock and I believed that I was ugly in my head so much that I ignored girls who would have done anything for me

I realized how important it is for a child to grown up around positive reinforcement

thank god im getting over a lot of them but I still have some when it comes to women

if Im not tryna fukk I dont know what to do with a woman. Im having to learn how to be a chicks friend now

First thing don’t try to be a woman’s friend either she’ll think you’re gay, asexual, or can’t put it down in the bedroom.

 

[Shorty K]

Yall no friend nikkas just need to join a mma gym and take it seriously. Then after that, join a meditation class and take it seriously. Problem solved and I just set you up so yall got hands and can take 95% of these dudes you meet in the street after a year of training.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Sit at home with nothing holding you back from meeting other people and complain of loneliness, brehs.

Here's a hint....you don't have to go somewhere just to meet females. You can legit go somewhere just because you like going. Just go!

 

[Prynce]

First thing don’t try to be a woman’s friend either she’ll think you’re gay, asexual, or can’t put it down in the bedroom.

lol it has to be more than just sex with women. I have female cousins and her friends inviting me to hang out. I never really socialized with women in a platonic way before so Im just learnin to try to care about them in a different way

 

[Mandarin Duck]

It’s weird how shyt we went through in our younger years can shape and affect us as men years down the line. I still have hang ups about shyt that happened when I was 16, I’m 36 right now

I didn't realize how shyt from my past effected how I deal with people on a daily basis until recently.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Sit at home with nothing holding you back from meeting other people and complain of loneliness, brehs.

Here's a hint....you don't have to go somewhere just to meet females. You can legit go somewhere just because you like going. Just go!

Man ain't nothing like stopping by at a little bar and getting a brew by yourself and just enjoy the ambience. You'll meet people easily that way too. A lot of cats just stay at home everyday afraid of making a move unless someone asks them out.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Yall no friend nikkas just need to join a mma gym and take it seriously. Then after that, join a meditation class and take it seriously. Problem solved and I just set you up so yall got hands and can take 95% of these dudes you meet in the street after a year of training.

You giving nikkas bad advice

Being able to fight won’t get u a social circle

 

[Prynce]

Brehs better be lucky y'all aint fukked up like me

If y'all would've seen the shyt i did to get in my own way with people

 

[Stir Fry]

That's my problem tho.

The move to Los Angeles was supposed to be my "clean slate".

I moved to LA from a small town and my first day of orientation we all in this big ass room and I got the corner seat.

The instructor tells us to introduce ourselves to the person we're next to.

I turn around to say hi and the girl sitting next to me straight up ignored me and wouldn't turn around to say hi.

Now me being from a small town I'm like "well damn this is what these stuck up LA bytches is like? fukk it then" and I never attempted to connect with anyone.

As much attention as cali gets got its current wave of gentrification, it's always been like this in cali tbh. It's actually pretty easy to meet people on a superficial level out here because the ratio of natives has always been pretty even with people from out of town. Out of towners always go out of their way to be nice in order to begin building their networks. I think if you started trying to apply yourself again, you'd realize it's actually pretty easy to meet new people here. It'll be hard to penetrate the groups that were born and raised here, but fortunately there's just as many transplants looking to make new connections just like you.

 

[Shorty K]

You giving nikkas bad advice

Being able to fight won’t get u a social circle

You clearly never been in a mma gym.

 

[Kaypain]

Man is OP a woman or a man I'm tired of asking this shyt

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You clearly never been in a mma gym.

Been in a bjj gym...