i can personally relate.. About 4 years ago my kids’ mom put weave n my daughters hair for the first time. I was dropping my youngins off at school that morning but before i did...I cut that shyt out with scissors and sent her to school with a kimar/hijab on..
My BM was pissed but she didn’t express it to me cause she knew she should’ve talked to me before hand.
Nowadays i get pictures asking do i like her hair every 3 weeks. My reply is usually
My son has a high top fade and she knows not to fw his hair without my input too
