Incel argues with ex (gets emotional)

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Deprivation mindset. A redpill thing that so many of these dudes seem to miss is this: genuine desire cannot be negotiated.

If shes not feeling you, you move on. Women aren't possessions and they won't fix your life if its already a mess. If your life is trash without a woman in it, a woman is the equivalent of putting a dryer sheet on top of a cart full of garbage to mask the smell.
 

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Nah. It’s fine and healthy for men and women to show emotion. It’s not okay to abuse people with your emotions. It’s not okay if women did that to you. It ain’t okay that he’s doing it to someone else.
Having a conversation and healthy communication needs to be normalized. We all get frustrated but we need to learn to control ourselves. I could see if it was one vent. But just wanting another party to listen to you scream at them while you determined to not let them talk is just a big ole waste of time.
I feel you but with her being an ex in this audio, communication was NOT what either of them needed. breh @rabbid is right that he had to go see his boys. 'Cause once the shyt is overs you gotta either vocalize to your boys, get a diary or a psych, or find yourself a hobby you can express how you feel with.

He had no business calling her...but he was in his most intense feelings. :wow: And because she's haunting his waking and sleeping hours this nikka went an pulled a bytch move.
A mistake of the uninitiated. :wow:

PS: Homegirl should've threatened to put a restraining order on him.
 

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I’ve been in this woman’s position lol. I know why she sounds so nonchalant too. I’m dead. When an emotional man who love you more than you love him is upset with you it can be a bit much. I would only get a few words out, while listening to his overemotional speech that would just go on and on and on. Usually I tuned out and got on my computer. he always noticed. “Are you still there? Your not saying anything!” But everytime I would talk he would cut me off or get even more emotional. it just annoyed me. The thing is ,when it happens often enough you just stop giving a fukk. I can tell that this wasn’t her first time having this kind of call with him.
You didn’t have to do me like that
 

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I’ve been in this woman’s position lol. I know why she sounds so nonchalant too. I’m dead. When an emotional man who love you more than you love him is upset with you it can be a bit much. I would only get a few words out, while listening to his overemotional speech that would just go on and on and on. Usually I tuned out and got on my computer. he always noticed. “Are you still there? Your not saying anything!” But everytime I would talk he would cut me off or get even more emotional. it just annoyed me. The thing is ,when it happens often enough you just stop giving a fukk. I can tell that this wasn’t her first time having this kind of call with him.
you and this woman are two completely different people.....
 

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Well duh. That doesn’t mean I can’t relate to being on the receiving end of an overemotional attached man in his feelings.
doesnt necessarily mean you both have the exact same scenario. No one even knows the full back story for these people relationship lmao and a lot more could have transpired that would void whateverever "relation" you have to this scenario
 

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Deprivation mindset. A redpill thing that so many of these dudes seem to miss is this: genuine desire cannot be negotiated.

If shes not feeling you, you move on. Women aren't possessions and they won't fix your life if its already a mess. If your life is trash without a woman in it, a woman is the equivalent of putting a dryer sheet on top of a cart full of garbage to mask the smell.
This.

Rejection and failure is literally apart of dating for both men and women. I feel like an incel mindset would focus way heavily on WHY a woman didnt choose you instead of continuing to search for a woman best suited for you (keep shooting). You cant force a woman to like you, that's a very rapey way to look at it
 
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