Incel/Femcel Solutions

Bossino

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
7,477
Reputation
2,895
Daps
24,292
Reppin
So Cal
Why do you think more violence?
Well in addition to that Roe v. Wade overturning being otw (more oops babies that will become neglected unguided adolescents), more desperate parents, and as thing become more normal relative to Rona, mass shooters will be byke. If you remember the bulk of them had the motives of either white supremacy, or lack of happiness due to not getting women/the life they envisioned. As @Marc Spector alluded to shrinking middle class = more broke folk, more broke folk = more crime, more crime = more violence. In terms of polygamy, women who aren't claimed provided for will more prone to tweaking like you see on worldstar, and we all know the resentment/hatred of unclaimed/illegitimate children. And misery needs company and will seek it out through all types of fukked up means. Hell this fall finna be robbin' season of the strength of no stimulus.

A bunch of alone, broke, sexless, unhappy, men is a recipe for evil.
 

semicko82

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Oct 9, 2012
Messages
33,188
Reputation
6,252
Daps
95,868
Reppin
NULL
Well in addition to that Roe v. Wade overturning being otw (more oops babies that will become neglected unguided adolescents), more desperate parents, and as thing become more normal relative to Rona, mass shooters will be byke. If you remember the bulk of them had the motives of either white supremacy, or lack of happiness due to not getting women/the life they envisioned. As @Marc Spector alluded to shrinking middle class = more broke folk, more broke folk = more crime, more crime = more violence. In terms of polygamy, women who aren't claimed provided for will more prone to tweaking like you see on worldstar, and we all know the resentment/hatred of unclaimed/illegitimate children. And misery needs company and will seek it out through all types of fukked up means. Hell this fall finna be robbin' season of the strength of no stimulus.

A bunch of alone, broke, sexless, unhappy, men is a recipe for evil.
Interesting
 

International Playa

Playa with a Passport
Joined
Nov 26, 2012
Messages
12,966
Reputation
2,330
Daps
54,911
Reppin
NULL
Teach them social skills, how to listen & talk to women.

Most of these guys are not willing to put in the work to get better with women. They want the hot girl to want them for just being them. The reality, the hotter the girl, the more she requires from a guy.

Some of these Incels feel entitled to want hot women also. You have to be realistic about the type of woman you can catch.
 

semicko82

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Oct 9, 2012
Messages
33,188
Reputation
6,252
Daps
95,868
Reppin
NULL
Teach them social skills, how to listen & talk to women.

Most of these guys are not willing to put in the work to get better with women. They want the hot girl to want them for just being them. The reality, the hotter the girl, the more she requires from a guy.

Some of these Incels feel entitled to want hot women also. You have to be realistic about the type of woman you can catch.
That’s the misconception that these guys are going after 7 and ups. They’re getting curbed by women on their same “level “
 

Scustin Bieburr

Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Joined
May 3, 2012
Messages
23,538
Reputation
13,181
Daps
136,407
Its a problem with society that needs to be fixed at multiple levels.

Media reinforces the idea that men and women cannot be happy or "complete" without pairing up with someone. This creates unrealistic expectations such as "by the end of high school you must have had sex at least once" or that college is just one great big orgy 24/7 and getting laid is as easy as walking to the store.

It creates a narrative that you cant be happy unless your sexual needs are met and that relationships and sex are several times more important than they actually are.

You have ideas told to women that their man should not be their equal but their superior in every way and photogenic. The problem is that women are outpacing men in education and income. So women are vying for a smaller and smaller pool of men then blaming the rest of men for disappointments they experience dating the top 20 percent of men. Rather than told that these women need to be more realistic, whole cottage industries have sprung up telling these women that its right for them to not seek their equals and essentially confirming their worst biases.

Social media has distorted what people actually expect one another to look like and live like. I've seen women who look COMPLETELY DIFFERENT in real life vs their Instagram and Facebook photos. Social media has made people think that life is supposed to be a highlight reel and forced women to attempt to live up to unrealistic ideas on what life is like.

People are not honest with one another. You didn't want to date him because he was short and had six chins. Just say it instead of saying "he had a bad attitude" if he had a bad attitude and was good looking then he's just rough around the edges. Men tell men who look deformed that its all about confidence and a mouth piece instead of telling them the truth: You need to get into the gym and save up your money for surgery after you've seen a counselor for your anxiety.

All of this shyt aint going away until people are ready to have frank, respectful discussions and take responsibility. Men and women. And this involves women letting men speak about their experiences of loneliness and frustration. It involves men being accountable to themselves and eachother about what they need to do to improve themselves.
 

shutterguy

Photographer
Supporter
Joined
Nov 21, 2012
Messages
13,842
Reputation
5,412
Daps
41,890
Reppin
Cleveland
A school shouldn’t be teaching/providing guidance on this subject imo. Hell, we see how fukked our education system is in just making sure every kid has mastered the basics. I agree that incels will continue to increase with time but I don’t see a solution and doubt there will be anything done. Let’s just admit (or at least I admit for myself) that i don’t care about their plight.
It’s a big embarrassing L, they have entitlement issues and need to be put in counseling. It’s something their parents need to do, not the education system.

At this point I think most people have accepted that it’s for the best to let them continue watching porn and jacking off, picking at pimples, and writing manifestos on weird Internet forums about women they don’t have the courage to talk to.

There’s bigger fish to fry and I’d rather the country invest in solutions for other things, like poverty, hunger, child abuse.

*I know this sounds callous but it’s hard to feel sorry for them. There’s people legit suffering in this world, going through actual hardships etc.

This.......

We live in a country where the avg 18-21yr old doesn't know a damn thing about credit and how important it is to maintain a good score. I work in powersports sales, I see it everyday, they come in and want to finance luxury items and don't know the difference between what the bank considers a necessity or a luxury purchase/toy. That's a worse problem then not knowing how to talk to the opposite sex. How come the important of credit is not taught in senior yr of HS? The example they have could be their parent who might have fukked up credit.
 

Wiseborn

Veteran
Joined
Feb 16, 2017
Messages
31,204
Reputation
2,751
Daps
67,477
Specifically for incel and femcels - definitely not


For both genders in general it is equal.


.
There's not a such thing as an incel generally speaking. That being said there's way less homeless chicks than homeless men too.

Women have their priorities straight in that regard.
 

Bossino

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
7,477
Reputation
2,895
Daps
24,292
Reppin
So Cal
Well in addition to that Roe v. Wade overturning being otw (more oops babies that will become neglected unguided adolescents), more desperate parents, and as thing become more normal relative to Rona, mass shooters will be byke. If you remember the bulk of them had the motives of either white supremacy, or lack of happiness due to not getting women/the life they envisioned. As @Marc Spector alluded to shrinking middle class = more broke folk, more broke folk = more crime, more crime = more violence. In terms of polygamy, women who aren't claimed provided for will more prone to tweaking like you see on worldstar, and we all know the resentment/hatred of unclaimed/illegitimate children. And misery needs company and will seek it out through all types of fukked up means. Hell this fall finna be robbin' season off the strength of no stimulus.

A bunch of alone, broke, sexless, unhappy, men is a recipe for evil.

@Dogmatic Yes this is coming from a guy who has regularly pondered committing that. Out of obligation to my family I ultimately never would, and even if I ever did I have the understanding that if I'm unhappy or don't feel like carrying on, I'm leaving, JUST me. While life isn't fair and as a breh I may be at a particular disadvantage I understand it be like that and I either figure it out or don't. I'm a logic/objectivity/awareness guy. I don't know if you were implying in your neg that I'm advocating for anything in the my quoted post, as I'm not, but that doesn't change human nature for most people nor the fact of the matter. At this point in life I'm used to taking Ls so I know how to go back to the drawing board, to avoid additional Ls going forward, and cope with the sentiment in the moment. That's not true for everyone. Repeatedly through human history when people feel abandoned/played/dealt a bad hand a large amount become misers at best, or imposers of destruction upon others. It's not pleasant to read/acknowledge but neither is most truth
:yeshrug:
 

Bossino

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
7,477
Reputation
2,895
Daps
24,292
Reppin
So Cal
This.......

We live in a country where the avg 18-21yr old doesn't know a damn thing about credit and how important it is to maintain a good score. I work in powersports sales, I see it everyday, they come in and want to finance luxury items and don't know the difference between what the bank considers a necessity or a luxury purchase/toy. That's a worse problem then not knowing how to talk to the opposite sex. How come the important of credit is not taught in senior yr of HS? The example they have could be their parent who might have fukked up credit.

Because are economy is predicated on debt, and in the American version of capitalism there HAVE to be perpetual losers for their to be perpetual winners. If school actually educated the masses they might change society for the better and that doesn't help those in power (politically+financially) maintain their positions. There are few coincidences in the arc of inequity of Murica
 
Joined
Dec 19, 2012
Messages
4,974
Reputation
1,993
Daps
24,947
Reppin
NYC
@Bossino i'm not reading another word from a defeatist loser who is actively preaching and spreading a loser mentality amongst us when it isn't necessary nor encouraging
 

MajesticLion

Veteran
Joined
Jul 17, 2018
Messages
35,228
Reputation
7,208
Daps
76,233
I dunno. School has a huge influence on child development. How can it not. They spend more of their pivotal developmental years there from ages 5-18 than they do with their actual parents. 5 days per week, 8 hrs a day, 180 days a year.

Vs seeing parents on the weekend possibly or briefly after school or in between work. I think behavioral training can go a long way if taught consistently.

I agree. Yet schools can only build upon, 5 through 18, what's taught at home from 0-5. And if the teachings from one to the next are conflicting, you end up with what you end up with today. You used the perfect word: consistently.
 

Jeshaman

All Star
Joined
Aug 7, 2019
Messages
1,305
Reputation
100
Daps
5,549
When I was younger I had zero luck with women and never resented or hated them. Just thought it was one of those things and focused on sports. I think it's interesting that the natural reaction of some people when they don't get what they want is the equivalent of a child throwing a tantrum. That said; I do have some sympathy for them as a former ugly gang young breh. It can be frustrating.
 
Top