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Not sure if this is completely solvable considering I believe most of the people suffering from these issues are in some sort of denial about how life works...

not sure if upbringing is at fault or just poorly formed opinions based off of life experiences
 

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Nobody is told this. Men are taught that women are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. If a dude cheats on a chick the first thing is Why??? Like women don't cheat on men.

Biology (and women) demands that Humans are tournament maters meaning we compete for each other, everyone has dominant and recessive genes so if only ugly incels dated each other the world would be filled with ugly stupid people with bad genes (because even pretty girls and handsome gang has recessive genes)

The Egyptian and european royals tried dating only other royals and their own family members and they quickly developed shytty ass genes.

So no a smart as fukk ugly gang nikka needs to get with fly ass model chicks so humans have the best of both worlds
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When I’m out the majority of couples are evenly yoked in the looks department. A femcel and an incel may not have the best genes, but they have more commonalities, that at the very least would make it easier to connect.

I’m also of the belief that you should pay attention to who you procreate with. If their are mental health issues, social awkwardness, obesity, alcoholism, unattractive looks etc etc. within the family background it can be passed to the offspring.
While it’s understandable why someone unattractive and stupid would want to be with someone attractive and fly, what does the attractive and fly person get? Lol

I have an uncle who loved redbones with slim waist and big booties. He got a couple of them pregnant. One happened to be a little “slow” but she was very pretty so I don’t think he had the foresight to see how that would turn out. My uncle is very attractive too. Unfortunately as pretty as my cousin is she is mentally retarded and she’s on social security. It ran in the mothers family.

While I wanted my son to look like his father, because I just couldn’t imagine a boy version of myself, my son actually looks a lot like me. He has his dads dimples though. Anyway strangely, just like it was for me when I was growing up—with random people always stopping my mom to say how pretty they thought I was, I get stopped all the time and people say how handsome my son is. There are also other traits my son took from me that I didn’t want him to, and traits he took from his dad that I didn’t want him to lol. You never know how your child will turn out.

And like I already said, I see very weird couples that made me feel weird, awkward looking couples and unattractive couples within varying income levels, racial backgrounds, and regions. So it’s not like incels and femcels are doomed. It’s actually more likely that they will end up with one another, which is why I made a point of mentioning that the average couple is typically compromised of two individuals that are on the same wavelength/journey.

Also, the lies taught to men about women are told to all men correct? So why are incels different from other young men who eventually learn the game and wise up and eat?
 

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When I’m out the majority of couples are evenly yoked in the looks department. A femcel and an incel may not have the best genes, but they have more commonalities, that at the very least would make it easier to connect.

I’m also of the belief that you should pay attention to who you procreate with. If their are mental health issues, social awkwardness, obesity, alcoholism, unattractive looks etc etc. within the family background it can be passed to the offspring.
While it’s understandable why someone unattractive and stupid would want to be with someone attractive and fly, what does the attractive and fly person get? Lol

I have an uncle who loved redbones with slim waist and big booties. He got a couple of them pregnant. One happened to be a little “slow” but she was very pretty so I don’t think he had the foresight to see how that would turn out. My uncle is very attractive too. Unfortunately as pretty as my cousin is she is mentally retarded and she’s on social security. It ran in the mothers family.

While I wanted my son to look like his father, because I just couldn’t imagine a boy version of myself, my son actually looks a lot like me. He has his dads dimples though. Anyway strangely, just like it was for me when I was growing up—with random people always stopping my mom to say how pretty they thought I was, I get stopped all the time and people say how handsome my son is. There are also other traits my son took from me that I didn’t want him to, and traits he took from his dad that I didn’t want him to lol. You never know how your child will turn out.

And like I already said, I see very weird couples that made me feel weird, awkward looking couples and unattractive couples within varying income levels, racial backgrounds, and regions. So it’s not like incels and femcels are doomed. It’s actually more likely that they will end up with one another, which is why I made a point of mentioning that the average couple is typically compromised of two individuals that are on the same wavelength/journey.

Also, the lies taught to men about women are told to all men correct? So why are incels different from other young men who eventually learn the game and wise up and eat?
You make some great points.
To answer your question though the difference between incels and other young men assuming we’re using the technical term for an involuntary celibate is he can’t even get women on his level or below.
 

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When I’m out the majority of couples are evenly yoked in the looks department. A femcel and an incel may not have the best genes, but they have more commonalities, that at the very least would make it easier to connect.

I’m also of the belief that you should pay attention to who you procreate with. If their are mental health issues, social awkwardness, obesity, alcoholism, unattractive looks etc etc. within the family background it can be passed to the offspring.
While it’s understandable why someone unattractive and stupid would want to be with someone attractive and fly, what does the attractive and fly person get? Lol

I have an uncle who loved redbones with slim waist and big booties. He got a couple of them pregnant. One happened to be a little “slow” but she was very pretty so I don’t think he had the foresight to see how that would turn out. My uncle is very attractive too. Unfortunately as pretty as my cousin is she is mentally retarded and she’s on social security. It ran in the mothers family.

While I wanted my son to look like his father, because I just couldn’t imagine a boy version of myself, my son actually looks a lot like me. He has his dads dimples though. Anyway strangely, just like it was for me when I was growing up—with random people always stopping my mom to say how pretty they thought I was, I get stopped all the time and people say how handsome my son is. There are also other traits my son took from me that I didn’t want him to, and traits he took from his dad that I didn’t want him to lol. You never know how your child will turn out.

And like I already said, I see very weird couples that made me feel weird, awkward looking couples and unattractive couples within varying income levels, racial backgrounds, and regions. So it’s not like incels and femcels are doomed. It’s actually more likely that they will end up with one another, which is why I made a point of mentioning that the average couple is typically compromised of two individuals that are on the same wavelength/journey.

Also, the lies taught to men about women are told to all men correct? So why are incels different from other young men who eventually learn the game and wise up and eat?

I couldn't agree more about considering family history and what traits are being passed along or people that are in the same lane finding each other. So many people fail to consider each of these things. Sidenote: Exactly "slow" was old girl? I am not super well versed on how that works but I thought that kinds of stuff was the result of issues during gestation, birth, or the mother's age? But I do know that intellect is hereditary obviously.

The last part could apply to anything. Look at all the info out there about diet and then look at how many overweight people we have. Some people learn to get their spending habits together and some just continue to blow their money. That's why the things that instilled in youth are so important.
 

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This is a main issue for folks who have issues meeting others...their social life is lacking. Its helpful to have multiple social circles as well as being open to meet new friends/associates. U gotta be in multiple social settings to get best or most prospects.

However, I know social butterflies and folks who are of the upper echelon and still have issues finding eligible partners. Its a lot of mediocre and ain't shyt people outchea too.

you also need a bit of money and infrastructure to not only be able to go out but have confidence talking to anyone. if your situation is trash you'll feel trash. i just transitioned from trash to not trash situation and it's night and day.
 
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*I know this sounds callous but it’s hard to feel sorry for them. There’s people legit suffering in this world, going through actual hardships etc.

Facts.

Way too many real problems in the world to give a damn about some greasy unwashed basement dweller who feels like they deserve p*ssy from the finest women because they THINK they're "nice guys" but wont put any effort into improving their situation to actually attract women.
 

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When I’m out the majority of couples are evenly yoked in the looks department. A femcel and an incel may not have the best genes, but they have more commonalities, that at the very least would make it easier to connect.

I’m also of the belief that you should pay attention to who you procreate with. If their are mental health issues, social awkwardness, obesity, alcoholism, unattractive looks etc etc. within the family background it can be passed to the offspring.
While it’s understandable why someone unattractive and stupid would want to be with someone attractive and fly, what does the attractive and fly person get? Lol

I have an uncle who loved redbones with slim waist and big booties. He got a couple of them pregnant. One happened to be a little “slow” but she was very pretty so I don’t think he had the foresight to see how that would turn out. My uncle is very attractive too. Unfortunately as pretty as my cousin is she is mentally retarded and she’s on social security. It ran in the mothers family.

While I wanted my son to look like his father, because I just couldn’t imagine a boy version of myself, my son actually looks a lot like me. He has his dads dimples though. Anyway strangely, just like it was for me when I was growing up—with random people always stopping my mom to say how pretty they thought I was, I get stopped all the time and people say how handsome my son is. There are also other traits my son took from me that I didn’t want him to, and traits he took from his dad that I didn’t want him to lol. You never know how your child will turn out.

And like I already said, I see very weird couples that made me feel weird, awkward looking couples and unattractive couples within varying income levels, racial backgrounds, and regions. So it’s not like incels and femcels are doomed. It’s actually more likely that they will end up with one another, which is why I made a point of mentioning that the average couple is typically compromised of two individuals that are on the same wavelength/journey.

Also, the lies taught to men about women are told to all men correct? So why are incels different from other young men who eventually learn the game and wise up and eat?
You're gonna make me use incel talking points:

But before I do that understand that people tend to personalize issues that aren't reall. There's not going to a a "beta male revolution" and the population isn't going to crash in our lifetimes.Things are working just the way they're designed to work.

Now if you were a young single chick and say you had a young George Washington Carver kick it to you and you knew what he was going to become would you accept the holla? How about a young Bill Gates? or a Young Imohetep? What about a youngTyson Beckford?


Everyone has dominant and recessive genes pretty people have recessive ugly genes two pretty people can make an ugly child and two ugly people can make a pretty child. Same thing with intelligence and Atlethicism.

Then you'd have to talk about what makes people attractive. Across all cultures and genders an assymetric face makes everyone attractive, Meaning a sqaure jaw no laugh lines etc. The further you vere away from that the harder it is to be seen as universally attractive.

You'd have to give every #uglygang nikka about 2 points extra in attractiveness because women put way more effort into looking attractive. I remember when I was a teenager a chick told me I didn't know how to wash my face. She was right like most nikkas I just used some bar soap and a face rag and called it good. Chicks use astringents, and facial scrubs and ointments and tea tree oils and shyt. Let's not even talk "fakeup" and clothes and hair. When you talk about that a dime is nore like a seven. Then there's the IG poses and the surgeries. Anybody seen a "before" picture of K.Michelle? She had a skinny ass horse face with big teeth and a twistout. And she was skinny and short she looked like a broke creackhead. She didn't just get tons of fix a flat in her ass she got a boob job and something done to her face and her teeth fixed too.

Women do that because they have to, nikkas use looks money and status to get the best chicks. As a man I don't really understand status, sure you can sometimes monitize clout but not always. Natalie Nunn has "clout" but that doesn't take away from that strong ass chinny chin chin and she's not ugly she like K. Michelle just has a narrow ass face and a prominent chin. Clout by it'self will get you bytches. I remember being in Florida and chicks were mobbing the tall lightskinned nikka from the B.E.T. show College Hill.
 

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Facts.

Way too many real problems in the world to give a damn about some greasy unwashed basement dweller who feels like they deserve p*ssy from the finest women because they THINK they're "nice guys" but wont put any effort into improving their situation to actually attract women.
90% percent of those nikkas self improve. For the nikkas that go all out with self improvement some of them become monsters.

The pimp Sir Captain admitted before he got in the game he never had a chick look at him sideways.
 

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It’s not about giving women responsibility or blaming men. It’s just about observing trends.

On average it’s reported that married couples have more sex than single people. That’s always been the case. The myth of the single bachelors and bachelorettes touted in the media is a lie. In the past, you got married to have sex amongst other reasons.

However, as the article explains, men AND women are putting off marriage. But not just marriage. Sociologists are calling it delayed adulthood. Emergent adults (18-25) are being studied. When asked why they don’t want to get married, divorce isn’t a reason.

And when taking a look at sexlessness in this population, delayed adulthood plays a huge role. For instance, still living with your parents. It should be obvious that living with your parents might make it difficult to have sex.

Also you mentioned that men meet women in school, but even here there is a disconnect happening.

I think this phenomenon has more to do with current economy being ravaged by past trickle down economic policies gutting the middle class, destroying job sectors, limiting employment opportunities, and increases in female economic achievement. All of this results in undeserved social anxiety due to feeling like you aren’t good enough for a relationship unless you are a 10 in looks and make six figures.


This is correct but this is the only society where being poor means no p*ssy. Everywhere else it means less p*ssy and more children only in the feminist west does poor people have less children.

Why is that? My guess is because women's standards have increased. Again the so called nuclear family only came about in the post 2nd world war generation and that was only because of massive social safety nets The G.I. Bill and federally backed home loans built the single family home suburbs. Before that most people lived in cramped apartments filed with relatives or on multigenerational homesteads in the country.

Women decided that a nikka working hard at the car wash wasn't good enough anymore. If you made the show Good Times today Florida would've been single and all the kids would've had different fathers. You make that same TV show 20 years in the future and Florida would a single old lady because she wouldn't have even had the kids.
 

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you also need a bit of money and infrastructure to not only be able to go out but have confidence talking to anyone. if you're situation is trash you'll feel trash. i just transitioned from trash to not trash situation and it's night and day.
Very true....being in different situations, organizations, settings, etc. can provide different outcomes for u.
 

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You make some great points.
To answer your question though the difference between incels and other young men assuming we’re using the technical term for an involuntary celibate is he can’t even get women on his level or below.
There are unattractive men who are with women who are also unattractive(at their level or below). The idea doesnt add up when we’ve all seen and know undesirable unattractive men with women as well as men who aren’t successful with women but don’t take on the weird incel traits. I think that’s why people have a difficulty feeling sorry for incels—many recognize that there are some other issues at play that need to be addressed by those individuals.

You're gonna make me use incel talking points:

But before I do that understand that people tend to personalize issues that aren't reall. There's not going to a a "beta male revolution" and the population isn't going to crash in our lifetimes.Things are working just the way they're designed to work.

Now if you were a young single chick and say you had a young George Washington Carver kick it to you and you knew what he was going to become would you accept the holla? How about a young Bill Gates? or a Young Imohetep? What about a youngTyson Beckford?


Everyone has dominant and recessive genes pretty people have recessive ugly genes two pretty people can make an ugly child and two ugly people can make a pretty child. Same thing with intelligence and Atlethicism.

Then you'd have to talk about what makes people attractive. Across all cultures and genders an assymetric face makes everyone attractive, Meaning a sqaure jaw no laugh lines etc. The further you vere away from that the harder it is to be seen as universally attractive.

You'd have to give every #uglygang nikka about 2 points extra in attractiveness because women put way more effort into looking attractive. I remember when I was a teenager a chick told me I didn't know how to wash my face. She was right like most nikkas I just used some bar soap and a face rag and called it good. Chicks use astringents, and facial scrubs and ointments and tea tree oils and shyt. Let's not even talk "fakeup" and clothes and hair. When you talk about that a dime is nore like a seven. Then there's the IG poses and the surgeries. Anybody seen a "before" picture of K.Michelle? She had a skinny ass horse face with big teeth and a twistout. And she was skinny and short she looked like a broke creackhead. She didn't just get tons of fix a flat in her ass she got a boob job and something done to her face and her teeth fixed too.

Women do that because they have to, nikkas use looks money and status to get the best chicks. As a man I don't really understand status, sure you can sometimes monitize clout but not always. Natalie Nunn has "clout" but that doesn't take away from that strong ass chinny chin chin and she's not ugly she like K. Michelle just has a narrow ass face and a prominent chin. Clout by it'self will get you bytches. I remember being in Florida and chicks were mobbing the tall lightskinned nikka from the B.E.T. show College Hill.


The reality is that fair or not fair, if a woman is not attracted to a man she is not going to give him two extra points. She’s just going to think he’s unattractive and not mess with him. If men want to get with Kylie Jenner and call her a dime even though they know she’s had a ton of surgery that is on them. If a man chooses to overate a woman that only looks good with makeup that is on him too. The whole issue with incels is that there are women who don’t see them as options. Whether these women are lookers are not, doesn’t matter if the women does not want those men.

But step outside and you’ll see that most people date people within a similar level/range of their own attractiveness. In cases where that doesn’t happen it’s because one person compensates in other areas(whether resources, finances, personality, clout, etc). But those are not average or common cases. What applies in Hollywood/entertainment industry is also not helpful to incels.

Another reality is that you can find someone attractive and like them, but that person has to feel the same about you.

At some point most people learn their lane based on their successes, rejections, etc. but the thing is as I’ve said numerous times in this thread there are men deemed unattractive, weird, fat, socially awkward that manage to find a likeminded woman. All is not lost.
 

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There are unattractive men who are with women who are also unattractive(at their level or below). The idea doesnt add up when we’ve all seen and know undesirable unattractive men with women as well as men who aren’t successful with women but don’t take on the weird incel traits. I think that’s why people have a difficulty feeling sorry for incels—many recognize that there are some other issues at play that need to be addressed by those individuals.




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Yea it’s no such thing as an incel thing; the people who can’t get women are just crazy :yeshrug:
 
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