Insecure women eliminates herself on ‘Pop The Balloon’; black men get blamed for it

[Braman]

Triggering. A woman’s insecurity will be repackaged as your fault or an excuse to treat you bad or for her to do dumb shyt

She said ‘There’s no attraction’. So bc SHE felt insecure, she was gonna have him walk away thinking he’s unattractive. It’s minor, but it’s telling . She will do whatever she gotta do to protect her insecure heart

There is nothin beautiful about this. He’s a dumbass for picking her Her insecurity is gonna be a headaches and she’s gona gaslight tf outta him

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Idk why he picked her after that. Any woman who has the lack of pride to reject someone and THEN admit to that is a guaranteed headache.

The type that would need constant positive affirmation to let her know that you still like her.

Possibly because he now knows she can get flipped easy.

I've dealt with women who told me later they felt like I wouldn't see them at first, and often times those were the easiest to flip.

I wouldn't take them serious as prospects, but yeah they could and did catch the brick.

Need for positive affirmation almost always equals eager to please.

First woman I really turned out and introduced me to the "yet" pressure scale was pretty but had a major hangup about certain features.

Flipped her like one of those toy barking puppies from the 80s.

 

[Wiseborn]

I'm confused as to why women's lack of desirability has to be taken so much more seriously than men's.

If you're a man, either change or die.
Women don't like you, tough luck. Change something.

Yet men are responsible for why women feel the way they do about themselves.

Men's rejection = he's a loser.
Women's rejection = colorism or something she has no control over.

The fact that she went into an interaction with a man she's attracted to assuming he wouldn't be attracted to her is incel behavior.

Not to mention dark skin men have similar experiences as dark skin women, so to frame colorism as an issue created by black males is disingenuous.

because a woman on here Don’t take these dudes seriously Yet there here.

Same poster needs a Man for nothing and doesn’t want to even live with one

but on a board that she seems to vehemently disagree with.

Maybe it’s because women will always need Men and they need to everything they can from self improvement and using bleaching cream if they feel they have to to get the Men that they want. And if they can’t self improve use shaming tactics.

 

[Wiseborn]

These are the same dudes that also say they don't approach women because they're all getting flew out by celebrities and letting the pookie and ray-rays smash too. Or the woman wants all their money and will up and leave them. Or they're just trying to get free food out of them. So a lot of their opinions are filled with the very same insecurities and assumptions as the women they try to call out.

correct. You’ll never get woman to #bothsides this.

 

[Gloxina]

@Gloxina @Chelsea Bridge @Black pearl


Do yall have the same energy when they pop on a light skin dude just for being light skin and no other explanation ?

I don’t actually watch the show, but if that’s what brehettes are doing then of course that’s fukked up

 

[Wiseborn]

This is what I don’t get.

You already put yourself in front of a camera to be judged. That’s like entering a beauty pageant and then taking yourself out cause you think your body shape won’t win.

Pop the balloon hasn’t been exposed but it’s been exposed at most of these other dating “reality shows” whether the women is picked or not she gets piped by the picker.

 

[Gloxina]

Now when someone reduces Colorism to an Ugly girl argument you’d say that’s wrong but you’re admitting that average looking Dark skinned women get overlooked for average lghtskinned women.

You just explained why Black women risk their lives and spend thousands of dollars for BBL's

Because a fat ass is a beauty marker for Men. There’s been a ton of average in the face girls Darkskinned and not who have had their bodies right and got over on the her body shape.

? It’s not an ugly girl argument.

The point is being pretty for a woman is what opens doors initially. However having LS is preferred over all. So in a room filled with beautiful women, the LS woman is considered more attractive not because of features or facial symmetry, but because of her LS, “exotic look” and proximity to dominant society.

 

[Wiseborn]

Majority of women really have to find something more productive to do with their in 2025

exactly women have to come to terms on their need to simp out on the Men that they want.

A different but related issue. The IR game in the UK is waaaaaaaay more common than in the US.

You say you don’t deal with cacs and I believe you but you’d understand why I would find that hard to believe. A Black woman in the states might find in challenging to divest because of the massive segregation in america.

Hard to Divest in Detroit

shyt isn’t a problem until it is a problem biracial Tracee Ellis Silverstein can’t get a Man despite her lightskin being in the Limelight and her alledged big Butt.

but she deals with the YN’s that she pays for and keeps it pushing.

 

[DaRealness]

This is why brehs are becoming indifferent. Of course colorism exists, it’s worldwide and not just exclusive to the black community. But too many women use it as a crutch to project.

You can have a movie about strippers:

“Why aren’t there any black women in it?”

You put a black woman in it.

“Why couldn’t she be dark skinned?”

You put a dark skinned black woman in it.

“Why does the dark skinned one have to be promiscuous?”

No matter what, you’ll always get these femcels complaining about something. Even if you represent black women, they’ll find a fault.

They’re even complaining about the blsck women in the movie Sinners. And yet if they were left out, then they’d complain too. You just can’t win.

It’s best just to not even entertain their ego because confident black women who don’t spend all the time online looking for confirmation bias, don’t let these things affect them.

Exactly. I stopped caring for their whining a long time ago. Imagine how it would look if I tell a woman I don't think she'd like me cos I'm not 6'5 and you had a bunch of dudes saying yeah, if women treated men of a certain height better he wouldn't have to feel that way.

We don't like dark skinned women, but let prime Bria Myles walk in the room and brothas would literally be tripping over themselves and simping heavily to get a chance and she's dark as they come.

Black men are NOT turning down a dark skinned woman in shape with a nice, feminine personality that's the bottom line. Same thing with weaves - we ain't telling them to put weaves in their hair, we like it natural. Yet we get the blame for that too.

At some point black women are gonna have to look in the mirror and take accountability and stop placing the blame at the door of black men to deflect off themselves for THEIR insecurities. I know a lot of brehs are scared to even critique black women, but at some point you gotta stand up like a man.

 

[Wiseborn]

Possibly because he now knows she can get flipped easy.

I've dealt with women who told me later they felt like I wouldn't see them at first, and often times those were the easiest to flip.

I wouldn't take them serious as prospects, but yeah they could and did catch the brick.

Need for positive affirmation almost always equals eager to please.

First woman I really turned out and introduced me to the "yet" pressure scale was pretty but had a major hangup about certain features.

Flipped her like one of those toy barking puppies from the 80s.

Women want to be simps When they crash they let it be immediately known that that breh can hit immediately

If she does a follow up she’s gonna come up with a story on why their not together.

She’s gonna leave out the fact that she fukked immediately.

 

[Illuminatos]

Guilt tripping a man into a choosing you is crazy lmao. Very manipulative as well but it worked so more power to her I guess.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Exactly. I stopped caring for their whining a long time ago. Imagine how it would look if I tell a woman I don't think she'd like me cos I'm not 6'5 and you had a bunch of dudes saying yeah, if women treated men of a certain height better he wouldn't have to feel that way.

We don't like dark skinned women, but let prime Bria Myles walk in the room and brothas would literally be tripping over themselves and simping heavily to get a chance and she's dark as they come.

Black men are NOT turning down a dark skinned woman in shape with a nice, feminine personality that's the bottom line. Same thing with weaves - we ain't telling them to put weaves in their hair, we like it natural. Yet we get the blame for that too.

At some point black women are gonna have to look in the mirror and take accountability and stop placing the blame at the door of black men to deflect off themselves for THEIR insecurities. I know a lot of brehs are scared to even critique black women, but at some point you gotta stand up like a man.

Breh, I was going to post this almost verbatim. Women talk about how draining it is to deal with an emotional needy man, which is valid. Why would a man want to deal with the same thing when it comes to women?

More men would be sympathetic if colorism was talked in its entirety, but it’s almost exclusively always from the perspective of desirability. It’s such a parochial way of thinking that it becomes exhausting.

The idea that a dark skinned woman has to be a dime to be on the same level of an average light skinned woman is a fallacy. You put a dime of all races/shades of women and DarkSkinned women will come out on top 9/10 to every man, it’s not even close.

Yes, there are black men who will gas an average woman because she’s fairer skinned but they damn sure aren’t the majority. Otherwise, where are all these black children coming from?

 

[Wiseborn]

I don’t actually watch the show, but if that’s what brehettes are doing then of course that’s fukked up

That’s what these women do. I don’t watch either but the manosphere clips these shows out.

I can’t find that Clip that FaceandLMS used on Take me out South Africa where the Black women ( fresh out of apartheid). dissed a Black Man and all of them choose the cac.

I think they took it off because it was too much evidence of Just be white theory.

 

[Wiseborn]

? It’s not an ugly girl argument.

The point is being pretty for a woman is what opens doors initially. However having LS is preferred over all. So in a room filled with beautiful women, the LS woman is considered more attractive not because of features or facial symmetry, but because of her LS, “exotic look” and proximity to dominant society.

Again I agree way before you get to Nate Andrews Power Tricks fly women get doors opened to them because of their looks.

I hundred percent agree with this. Even in Set it Off Nate would’ve been fine with Hiring Stoney to sell cars ( based on her looks) and maybe watching her bend over once or twice and positioning himself with the Possibilty of sex It was when she overplayed her hand and asked for an advance that he switch from simp to Power trick.

 

[KingDanz]

just watched, she was insecure but it was because of chick #2(who happens to be light skinned), who popped but asked for her balloon back.. That where it stemmed from


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