Insecurities

[Illuminatos]

do you wanna be an accountant for money or interest? and i could lie and say it gets easier or better, but it doesnt.

For money. I figured since I'm good with numbers Accounting might be a good choice. I got my first class in an hour...wish me luck.

 

[Rawtid]

I felt this way for a while until I realized that nikkas ain't shyt No offense to you men in here, but there's no one out there that is that special. I'm more concerned with whether I like the person or not as opposed to vice versa.

LMMFAO!! my homegirl said something similar to me "Men are trash". I get what you're saying with the bold and I may have to take that approach. It feels good when I like someone but by the time I finishing thinking and analyzing I've decided it's best I shouldn't talk to him anymore

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

For money. I figured since I'm good with numbers Accounting might be a good choice. I got my first class in an hour...wish me luck.

good luck breh. As long as you are aware of the industry and actual day to day logistics of CPA's. I couldnt sit in a cube box all day crunching numbers.. ide die.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I'm not used to receiving things/gifts from people, so I worry that I dont show or express enough gratitude when situations like that arise. It's also hard for me to be lovey dovey, even if I really like the guy..saying baby, babe, and all that other shyt lol I feel weird when I say it but I'm working on it.

 

[IronFist]

I felt this way for a while until I realized that nikkas ain't shyt No offense to you men in here, but there's no one out there that is that special. I'm more concerned with whether I like the person or not as opposed to vice versa.

Now you know that this is a generalization. Alot of good dudes out there, that not on that BS, beloved.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

I can't dance for shyt or move my body in erotic ways.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I've found the only time my insecurities cause a problem is when I start dealing with a guy on more than a friend level. I don't know what to do about it though except just be single forever.

deal with the insecurity?

 

[Milk N Cookies]

At 25, i aint did sh1t with my life...college drop out cause i couldnt focus and was tired of waisting money & time.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

LMMFAO!! my homegirl said something similar to me "Men are trash". I get what you're saying with the bold and I may have to take that approach. It feels good when I like someone but by the time I finishing thinking and analyzing I've decided it's best I shouldn't talk to him anymore

I feel what you're saying. It's more like realizing everyone is human and more likely than not, this person that you're stressing yourself over probably has issues just like you do, thus more of a reason not to worry too much about them.

 

[Rawtid]

deal with the insecurity?

Easier say that done breh-by. I'd need to find a dude extremely patient to deal with that and I'd have to allow myself to be vulnerable enough to let him know the problem exists in the first place. It's levels to the shyt.

 

[Soundwave]

I aint gonna lie my lack of confidence is my worse insecurity

 

[The 10th Letter]

One of my insecurities is my lack of direction in life.
I have all of the drive in the world if I put my mind to it,
but I don't like anything enough to focus on it professionally.
I honestly have no idea wtf im doing and im 26.
I have always been a free spirited kinda person and I feel
that adulthood stifles that.
Either you conform to the way things are
or you dont and you get left behind.

I used to feel like that. Now that I have an idea of what i wanna do in life, I struggle with the thought of having to do some demeaning shyt in order to attain a goal. I dont mean working a minimum wage job, but working my absolute hardest and doing the best job possible and it still not being enough because I didnt kiss a boss' ass.

 

[Solano707]

Man, I promise, I'm so self conscious
I've got no idea what I'm doing in college, That major that I majored in don't make no money
But I can't drop out, my parents will look at me funny

Now, tell me that ain't insecure
The concept of college SEEMS so secure

What degree did you pick? Tell me it is not Fine Arts LOL

You can do it breh, don't quit.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Now you know that this is a generalization. Alot of good dudes out there, that not on that BS, beloved.

Nah, I use it more as a way to tell myself not to be putting you men on pedestals. I don't mean it literally I love my kings

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Easier say that done breh-by. I'd need to find a dude extremely patient to deal with that and I'd have to allow myself to be vulnerable enough to let him know the problem exists in the first place. It's levels to the shyt.

I'm dealing with something similar now and it sucks . But there are patient men out there that are willing to work with you. especially if they understan that everybody is fukked up to one extent or the next. I think you should continue to date or put yourself out there.