Interracial dating/marriage

[David_TheMan]

I don't understand the mindset where a person feels they have to attack or demean someone for their dating or mating preference.
Do what you feel good with and if the other man isn't hurting you, leave him/her alone and let them live their life to the fullest.
Life is too short to be so invested in anything else but finding your own path to happiness.

 

[Dontay Flaco]

In reality we don't do anything but hurt each other in relationships. So if you really love your race you'll only date interracially. Save your sistren some heartbreak.

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[SeveroDrgnfli]

You're a peculiarly dumb fella, ain't cha?

This made me laugh. I am dumb. It was dumb of me to consider sharing an idea with a community with too many trolls.

I like the overall message. But based on statistics, the bolded is just not true. I have no idea where this idea comes from;but it's just not true.

This thread has expanded my view on the issue because I see people are supportive of black folks and can express that in different ways, though I still think black should be bae. Did we have a productive conversation in TLR? We did!

This is why I love my community. Even the hecklers and non believers I still got love for.

 

[Mook]

Nah I need a yellow redbone or a black as coal goddess.

If I could just smell Serena's pants after a tennis match once

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

Interracial dating is for people with severe mental issues.

Typically.

 

[HandsomeBrute]

Why are people on the internet so concerned with what other people are doing in their lives?
If it doesn't affect you, don't worry about it.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

When I was in Atlanta I saw nothing but black professionals. It blew my mind to be in a town populated by blacks who were professionals and not dating interracially. In the Bay Area, that's where I'm from, interracial dating is pretty much the standard. We're all inclusive.

Black people lose when dating interracially. Non blacks get their liberal achievement badge for proving they're not racist. Their kids get the hair and the skin the parents want without the culture the parents don't want. And we lose a potential soldier.

Nobody wants to address that. Black is under attack. We're being slowly erased and assimilated into the American blob. It's sad.

When the revolution comes I can't wait to hear all these sell outs argue for their lives of marganilzing their own culture while hiding behind a liberal ideology. We need do some ethnic cleansing and give these nikkas an ultimatum. Either they contribute to our race or they die.

This nikka said "when the revolution comes"

 

[Versa]

I've dated a lot. I live in an ethnically diverse liberal area. I also work for white families with African babies. For some reason interracial dating bothers me now.

I'm all for love being colorless, but black women and men get shyt on everyday, and I think it's important for us to be together on meaning black is beautiful. More often than not black is tolerated and not embraced when it comes to cultural standards of beauty.

It breaks my heart when black boys and girls I work with think their hair is ugly because it isn't straight like their classmates. Or they think black hair and black eyes aren't beautiful.

Black women don't date out as much as black men. Fellas, we need to come home. We have to stop placing anything mixed with black over black. Imagine the message that sends to black women and girls everywhere. It tells them we don't think they're beautiful and we don't support them.

Ladies, I understand you wanting to date someone who's on your level but it's discouraging that typically black women with college degrees marry interracially. I feel college educated black men do the interracial thing heavy too. I'm speaking from experience and what I see in the suburbs I work in.

Feel free to contribute by insulting me, agreeing with me, or disagreeing. I'd like to hear from everyone.

Sincere post, and you covered a lot of reasons why I would never marry or date a woman who isn't black. We as a people gotta come together.

 

[Versa]

Why are people on the internet so concerned with what other people are doing in their lives?
If it doesn't affect you, don't worry about it.

Not everyone is as self-absorbed as you are friend.

Its deeper than "just date who you wanna date" when self-hate is so rooted in us as a people which leads to many of us hating the thought dating our own. It's deep and it matters and it needs to be addressed.

 

[Biscayne]

I feel you. I still believe you gotta find someone who's compatible and actually likes you, though. If you miss the chance of being happy because of their race then you're not fully living your life.

Who's to say there isn't someone of your own race who could make you happy? There's millions of Black Men and Millions of Black women in this country. You can find at least 20 other Black people who you're compatible with....

Why are Black people the main ones abandoning ship and attributing their lack of companionship with the opposite sex of their race?

 

[Cake]

daps? you don't analyze race? c00n alert the shyt just doesn't look right to me..i can't go from watching racist documentaries and then go outside and see that shyt in public without feeling weird about it..

nice edit. Negged.

I see race but I'm not anaylyzing it in that situation.

You can't always tell people's race based off of looks alone.

You should just be happy to see someone else happy. Instead you disapprove. Deep down you're unhappy and you want everyone else to be that way too. I disapprove of you

 

[Versa]

Who's to say there isn't someone of your own race who could make you happy? There's millions of Black Men and Millions of Black women in this country. You can find at least 20 other Black people who you're compatible with....

Why are Black people the main ones abandoning ship and attributing their lack of companionship with the opposite sex of their race?

The excuses these sellouts make are hilarious breh.

Millions upon millions upon millions of black folks in this country - let alone the world - and you can't find ONE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY?

 

[Luna]

Who's to say there isn't someone of your own race who could make you happy? There's millions of Black Men and Millions of Black women in this country. You can find at least 20 other Black people who you're compatible with....

Why are Black people the main ones abandoning ship and attributing their lack of companionship with the opposite sex of their race?

I'm sure there's someone out there for me but It's not likely I would meet them in my lifetime. Also because I think most nerdy black guys prefer women of other races because of the environment they live in. It's not as easy as: go out and find someone to like you.

 

[Biscayne]

Yeah, I understand what you're saying. I can't give you any advice because I don't want kids. I will say that interracial relationships should be 'colorblind.' Which is hard to achieve in the U.S.

I have a white sister and it's crazy to think about it because I don't even see her as 'white', I see her as just... my family.

But that's besides the point. IR can work out if your partner has the right mind and if they're ready to raise a half-black child in America. Which requires them to be racially concious, ergo NOT colorblind.

Man, it's complicated.

YES!!! Poignant!!

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Who's to say there isn't someone of your own race who could make you happy? There's millions of Black Men and Millions of Black women in this country. You can find at least 20 other Black people who you're compatible with....

Why are Black people the main ones abandoning ship and attributing their lack of companionship with the opposite sex of their race?

Some of you act like finding perfect or near perfect matches is easy for people. It's easier for some people than others. Every one simply isn't going to pass up a great option and potentially miss out on a happy relationship.