Introverts Don’t Hate People, They Hate Shallow Socializing

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I have become introvert over the years

thats because once I loss my job the so called friends I had and who I helped out and party with couldn’t even let me have $5...

After that moment it was me against the world and just worry about my own paper and needs..
 

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Since we're throwing out wild ideas, how about introverts being narcissistic a$$holes for refusing to engage in conversation/small talk unless it serves their particular interests?

I identify as an introvert as well, and I used to dread the mandatory small talk at work. If you don't take part, you're automatically seen as either too private, or a weirdo. I would just rather not mindlessly talk about the weather, or what's going on in my personal life every cot damn day, and instead get straight to business!

It was only when I started to take the initiative and direct the banter in my areas of interest (eg you see the fight/game of thrones episode last night?) much like extroverts would that I started to not only tolerate small talk, but to actually enjoy it.
If this isn’t the most arrogant, self absorbed shyt that you just posted I don’t know what is

it’s crazy how y’all talk so bad about people that y’all tag as extrovert

once again, no one has ever called themselves that
Two "extroverts" with struck nerves who just got reminded of the times they tried to force convo with introverts, were found to be annoying and exhausting, and took it very personal because they think everyones supposed to like them and entertain their bullshyt :mjgrin:
We make you folks question yourselves and lose sleep when we deny you an audience:mjlit:
You say that introverts are narcissistic a$$holes for only engaging in convo unless it interests them as if extroverts dont do the same shyt, except they try to push their interests onto other people, force convo and hold folks hostage for the sake of their own feelings. Like god forbid someone internalize and be in their thoughts not to have it interrupted by annoying fukks who talk pretty much to hear their own voice, now were arrogant a$$holes for wanting our space :gucci:
If that isnt the most bytch ass thing Ive ever heard, please dont tell me yall get in your feelings if other men dont wanna engage in convo too:dame:. As I said, ya take the shyt real personal because you think society is supposed to cater to your feelings, but WERE the narcissists tho:gucci:
 
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EVERYONE feels like this tho :mjlol:

It seems normal. But then there are some people that HAVE to be busy body and talk to everybody. My bff's girlfriend is just like that, they go out EVERYNIGHT, on her days off she HAS TO do something out and about, and she will have full blown conversations with everyone that comes in her radius lol.

I don't get what need she is trying to fulfill
 

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Not a bad premise :patrice:


The thing is, the inanities are currently the glue that binds this society together...and what that says about the quality of said society, well :francis:
 

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I'm an introvert, but I don't think we're anything special. We might excel at some things, and are horrible at others.
 

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when i was youngin people always called my quiet and shy. when it was just that i didn't want to talk about the bullshyt they were talkin about. also know as small talk.
when i did eventually start tellin people i don't do small talk they changed their approach tand were able to get me to have a conversation.
 

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I can socialize, skillfully even, but I like to have a purpose for it, and yes, I struggle or just outright defer small talk most of the time, which can make casual encounters painful for me. It isn't a fixed system, it's just which one you are more comfortable with, I would never be considered the "life of the party", but that doesn't mean I cannot socialize.
 
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