May I ask why you and others hate talking on the phone?
I’ve stopped calling people just to talk and catch up cause Im not trying to bother anyone
Feels a little impersonal to always text people but I try to respect peoples space
For me, If I haven’t talked to someone in months then yeah, I’ll pick up.
But usually how I feel now is that people call me to waste their time... there’s no benefit for me at all. They literally would call me to put me on hold, barely say shyt, or to just solely talk about their problems and issues and I’m like nikka, I literally stopped what I’m doing for this?
I might be studying, working, talking on the phone to someone else, watching a movie, sleeping, enjoying my alone time, etc., and this is what you called me for? Especially when I was working 12 hour days and taking 3 hours to get to and from work. I literally cut my phone off when I got home. I don’t want to sit there and focus on my phone for hours. I actually rather FaceTime
And see, if I have issues I rarely call anyone about it because I feel no one genuinely gives a fukk or gives a fukk as much as I do about my problems but they usually expect me to feel the same about theres.
And then I will get hit up for money often too. I know when nikkas want something from me because I won’t hear from them forever, then I will begin to hear from them daily like they care what I got going on. If I answer I got to sit there and listen/deal with it then. If they just text me Ill let that shyt sit
If I call you it’s usually to bullshyt and see how you doing. My phone calls aren’t always like that.