I'm certainly not an expert, let's get that straight. And as far as me personally I'm not actually doing that anyway, I was just making the suggestion. Fat chicks are always easy marks for whatever you're trying to do.If you are manipulating them, why the hell are you dating them? Doesn't make sense. If you're an expert at psychology or whatever, then playing the long game with someone who isn't fresh out of high school, fat, and is already guaranteed to be on the fast track makes more sense, no?
Why not manipulate the successful, already attractive person into latching on to you?
Is 25 too old to be messing with 19 year old?
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Some dudes will date fat chicks with pretty faces because he knows he can get her when her stock is low, and the weight can be lost with the right motivation, and now you have a physical dime with low self esteem that's dedicated to you. Or maybe that's just me with that thought process.
Or she leaves the dude realizing she can do better now that she's a legit dime.
I've seen it happen
Dating older and wanting guidance and a leader and being "molded" are two completely different things. I like a dominant man, but not someone who wants to "mold me". That wording comes off as possessive and manipulating.
I'm seeing some one almost double my age , but I'm also 25 and not naive as fukk and impressionable like I was and most 19-21 year olds are.
A mid 20s female dating up is different than a 19 yr old dating up. There's so much mental progression and maturity from the age of 18-22. I don't know how any man in his mid 20s would want to date a 19 year old thinking back to how immature and naive I and many females like myself were at that age
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At 25 your still gonna be "molded" by a man with his head on straight thats double your age. Believe that
This.
Guys have adopted the same mindset as females. Shaming language and scare tactics women will use to attempt to dissuade you from dating someone younger and more attractive.
As if your average, female collegiate freshman isn't into the older guys on campus.
As if females haven't historically dated and preferred men older than them. Anyone falling for the okie doke is a straight gump.
There are 19 year olds with their heads on tighter than some 23 - 25 year old females I know.
Live your life for you and access every situation on a case by case basis.
I'm 23 (and 3 quarters 
) and I wouldn't take a chick that age seriously. It's not about the age difference in this case, but the fact that she's that particular age. You don't want anything serious with a chick that age. Anyone who's been to college should know that.
) and I wouldn't take a chick that age seriously. It's not about the age difference in this case, but the fact that she's that particular age. You don't want anything serious with a chick that age. Anyone who's been to college should know that.
Headache. I was dating a 21 year old when I was 25 and she was still damn there a little girl. Immature as fukk
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The fukk you nikkas be debating? 
If she 18 she fair game
If she 18 she fair game
Even when I'm 50 I'm still going to be attracted to 18 year olds. 
kittykat89
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nope that seems legit
I personally wouldn't do it, let it be know. I don't like molding people, I guess someone out there will if you don't or life experiences will.
Either way, I dont want anyone to ever be able to look back and say, I didn't because @realdarkphoenix held me back or didn't let me.
Either way, I dont want anyone to ever be able to look back and say, I didn't because @realdarkphoenix held me back or didn't let me.
as long as its legal who cares,
i wouldnt get serious with a girl whose 19 or marry but "mess" around with in my demnic days why not
i wouldnt get serious with a girl whose 19 or marry but "mess" around with in my demnic days why not
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There is nothing wrong with it.