Is actually wanting a "Clingy" Girlfriend normal?

[SmoothOperator]

 

[lotteryplaya]

If she is clingy like checking my phone,always obsessed with where I am going and what I am doing. Then maybe she will be too busy being all up under me to go out and cheat
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[marcuz]

dependent girlfriend, sure, but clingy, no. you gotta realize, when you do eventually want some space. she's going to fill that void with another dude attention, cus she cant handle being alone.

 

[Ohene]

Its all cool till you want space

this. its good but too much of that shyt gets annoying real fast. its the main reason why dudes like to stay single

 

[Elle Driver]

Do you check your back accounts daily? Do you find yourself reading stock reviews from multiple websites? Women are checking up on their investment. You can never watch your money too closely.

Lmaooooooooooo.

 

[Paisley Darts]

just sounds like you are desperate and lonely
that's the only way I can make sense of anybody wanting a clingy ass girl

 

[aXiom]

Show me a dude that wants a clingly girl and I'll show you a dude that craves attention.

 

[IceDragon]

When i got my first super clingy girlfriend i was i can't lie it does feel good to be wanted and clingy people are extra with all that but after a while it was mentally exhausting and in my case she became much more possessive a few months in . Had to end things when i had enough and she wanted me to choose her over ma dukes more You do you though, not all clingy women turn out like that.

 

[Forlife44]

 

[NSSVO]

Breh it's a blessing to be loved nikkas just want to be single, and have something to fukk on. They need to just stay out of relationships until they want to settle down.

 

[PinotNoir]

I have the opposite problem. I've been told by guys that I'm not clingy enough and should open up, call more etcetera. Little did they know I was secretly crazy about them like I adored them, I just didn't know how to let them know verbally, fear of being rejected even though they told me there feelings. Most recent guy pretty sure I've lost him due to not being open with feelings. He said he got tired of one sided relationships but yet I drove hours across state just to see him and we'd talk everyday so I didn't understand how it was one sided. I tend to show my love through gifts and cooking/being intimate. I don't know. My problem is not calling/texting enough usually I let the guy handle this early on but I now know that I must make an effort as well. He had it all, educated, intelligent, ambitious, professional and was encouraging me to complete my goals. I'm pretty sure we are over. You win some you lose some. I'll take what I learned and apply it next time.

Anyways when someone is clingy there's some kind of fear there and issue they need to address within, same with aloofness. It's a catch 22 at times.

 

[Bless't]

Know yourself.

If not, trouble awaits.

 

[Yup]

I have the opposite problem. I've been told by guys that I'm not clingy enough and should open up, call more etcetera. Little did they know I was secretly crazy about them like I adored them, I just didn't know how to let them know verbally, fear of being rejected even though they told me there feelings. Most recent guy pretty sure I've lost him due to not being open with feelings. He said he got tired of one sided relationships but yet I drove hours across state just to see him and we'd talk everyday so I didn't understand how it was one sided. I tend to show my love through gifts and cooking/being intimate. I don't know. My problem is not calling/texting enough usually I let the guy handle this early on but I now know that I must make an effort as well. He had it all, educated, intelligent, ambitious, professional and was encouraging me to complete my goals. I'm pretty sure we are over. You win some you lose some. I'll take what I learned and apply it next time.

Anyways when someone is clingy there's some kind of fear there and issue they need to address within, same with aloofness. It's a catch 22 at times.

Same with me. I have been told that o am aloof and not loving.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Clingy chicks annoying. Im the kinda nikka that will not even hit my girl up for an entire day

 

[PinotNoir]

Same with me. I have been told that o am aloof and not loving.

Yes I'm like but I think about you multiple times throughout the day. If I called/texted you whenever I thought about you, you'd think I was nuts. I'd also get so busy with things I was doing at work etc and sometimes wouldn't have the time to talk. It's crazy.