Is actually wanting a "Clingy" Girlfriend normal?

[Hyperion]

Yes I'm like but I think about you multiple times throughout the day. If I called/texted you whenever I thought about you, you'd think I was nuts. I'd also get so busy with things I was doing at work etc and sometimes wouldn't have the time to talk. It's crazy.

At least it's not like....

Man: I love you.

You:

 

[Perpetual Beast]

I have the opposite problem. I've been told by guys that I'm not clingy enough and should open up, call more etcetera. Little did they know I was secretly crazy about them like I adored them, I just didn't know how to let them know verbally, fear of being rejected even though they told me there feelings. Most recent guy pretty sure I've lost him due to not being open with feelings. He said he got tired of one sided relationships but yet I drove hours across state just to see him and we'd talk everyday so I didn't understand how it was one sided. I tend to show my love through gifts and cooking/being intimate. I don't know. My problem is not calling/texting enough usually I let the guy handle this early on but I now know that I must make an effort as well. He had it all, educated, intelligent, ambitious, professional and was encouraging me to complete my goals. I'm pretty sure we are over. You win some you lose some. I'll take what I learned and apply it next time.

Anyways when someone is clingy there's some kind of fear there and issue they need to address within, same with aloofness. It's a catch 22 at times.

Awwwwwwuhhh babe

 

[PinotNoir]

It's okay though. You live and learn but I do miss him.

Awwwwwwuhhh babe

 

[Giselle]

If you love her, why would you want space from her?

I have the opposite problem. I've been told by guys that I'm not clingy enough and should open up, call more etcetera. Little did they know I was secretly crazy about them like I adored them, I just didn't know how to let them know verbally, fear of being rejected even though they told me there feelings. Most recent guy pretty sure I've lost him due to not being open with feelings. He said he got tired of one sided relationships but yet I drove hours across state just to see him and we'd talk everyday so I didn't understand how it was one sided. I tend to show my love through gifts and cooking/being intimate. I don't know. My problem is not calling/texting enough usually I let the guy handle this early on but I now know that I must make an effort as well. He had it all, educated, intelligent, ambitious, professional and was encouraging me to complete my goals. I'm pretty sure we are over. You win some you lose some. I'll take what I learned and apply it next time.

Anyways when someone is clingy there's some kind of fear there and issue they need to address within, same with aloofness. It's a catch 22 at times.

Same with me. I have been told that o am aloof and not loving.

I think most of them like clingy (to a certain extent)/very affectionate girls, but pretend not to.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Clingy chicks annoying. Im the kinda nikka that will not even hit my girl up for an entire day

you won't do that to someone you really care for .

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

It depends on your definition of clingy, and what you can handle when it comes to invasion of boundaries. There were times when I've thought the same way you did about not understanding how men don't want to be around their women, but then I'd have someone invade the fukk out of my boundaries and then I'm like

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

you won't do that to someone you really care for .

Thats just the kinda person I am. Im not doing it on purpose.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Thats just the kinda person I am. Im not doing it on purpose.

So was i breh I'm just telling u when u really care it changes

 

[Fellatio]

Till her worrying gets to you
She might even start verbally abusing you
Alienating you from fam friends

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I dated one girl I felt was clingy......she was just the type who needed to be around her man all the time. Good girl but it was a bit much for me.....


If you have any type of hobbies or life outside of her it's compromised because she wants to be around you so much. It gets worse when you two don't really have the same interest and she wants to be around you all the time.


Affection is good but there needs to be some kind of balance. I can see how a clingy girl can work for some guys, if they need an ego boost, weren't the guy who got a lot of girls, constantly need company and/or if they don't have a lot going on in their lives......For me I'm on the go a lot and need time to myself.....it would literally drive me crazy if I don't get space to myself sometimes.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Probably the same type of people who can't function in drama-free relationships

 

[Mr.Plan B]

My girl was clingy at first, she found out I did not like that. But I was being stupid rather her be all up in my shyt then her having all the free time to herself. You don't know what they doing. Wise things could go back to how they used to be...........

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Ohmigod, who's home? you are, you are huh?

 

[Blackout]

Its normal.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Ohmigod, who's home? you are, you are huh?