Is anyone else seen as “husband material”?

[Reality]

I might be in the minority, but I don't mind a woman wanting to "settle down" when they're like 27+ after having some fun in their 20s. I mean...they are like us brehs. What I HATE is them expecting you to pick up the pieces or address any baggage caused by them mismanaging their hoe phase or letting it run too long.

You have kids and you're looking for a stable father figure provider now? Not my problem.
You're not willing to have sex before a committed relationship because a series of dusty dudes played you? Not my problem.
You have trust issues that make you act like an insane person? Not my problem.
You have no career or financial footing to speak of, just a bunch of dudes who ran through you in the past? And now you're looking for some stability? Not my problem.
You want to be boring in the bedroom now when you were a freak in your 20s? Not my problem.
You don't want to hit the gym to keep it tight like it was for the brehs who got it when you were 23? Not my problem.

I screen this shyt out so ruthlessly because I had my hoe phase in my 20s too, but came out the other side without all the bullshyt baggage. Why should I expect less of you? I won't.

 

[Vodun]

I might be in the minority, but I don't mind a woman wanting to "settle down" when they're like 27+ after having some fun in their 20s. I mean...they are like us brehs. What I HATE is them expecting you to pick up the pieces or address any baggage caused by them mismanaging their hoe phase or letting it run too long.

You have kids and you're looking for a stable father figure provider now? Not my problem.
You're not willing to have sex before a committed relationship because a series of dusty dudes played you? Not my problem.
You have trust issues that make you act like an insane person? Not my problem.
You have no career or financial footing to speak of, just a bunch of dudes who ran through you in the past? And now you're looking for some stability? Not my problem.
You want to be boring in the bedroom now when you were a freak in your 20s? Not my problem.
You don't want to hit the gym to keep it tight like it was for the brehs who got it when you were 23? Not my problem.

I screen this shyt out so ruthlessly because I had my hoe phase in my 20s too, but came out the other side without all the bullshyt baggage. Why should I expect less of you? I won't.

I see what you mean breh but women become imprinted by those dudes they sleep with and have kids with most times.

There being is built to receive energy from men. You not only dealing with her but the ghost of niggz who was deep in the p*ssy and possibly imprinted her

 

[Oatmeal]

I just got hit with this statement, a year after this thread dropped

Woman I'm cool with said I would be husband & father material, I immediately remembered reading something about women saying that somewhere and it was right here

It ain't sit well when she said it cause I took it like she was trying to say I was a simp, I'm respectful because I'm working and focused on my own shyt trying to get this bread, this woman ain't ever seen me in the streets outside of a professional environment to even say some stuff like that to me. She know that I've done charity work and stuff with kids but I'm still feeling some type of way cause I ain't never heard someone hit me with that...

Spoiler

wild thing is, I wouldn't consider her wife material, even though she been married before, I ain’t even feeling her like that but i think she think im on it

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

It ain't sit well when she said it cause I took it like she was trying to say I was a simp

Take compliments for insults, brehs.

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[High Art]

I get told I'm father material a lot or "I'd make a great dad".

 

[MajesticLion]

Standards must be upheld.

 

[rabbid]

That shyt aint cute.

as I've gotten older I've began to become immune to the lovebombing nonsense that women throw at you. Actions speak louder than words. If I'm husband material than show me. Come get this work.