Is anyone else seen as “husband material”?

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It's hilarious how they want to whore and get banged out 18-29..then they want to change and be with a so called regular dude. No. You went to waste. The new goal for a guys your age should be college girls.



gille actually hit the nail on the head with this shyt.

someone else here said it too bout dating a bytch between 18-25. If she Fukk with you and wanna marry you in her prime years, then :salute:

hoes think it’s all fun and games during their prime years then get mad when they washed and can’t find no good men.

Me and one of my sides been fukkin since 2011. Even in her prime at 25 she still had a baby by some drug dealer nikka. To this day she on FB everyday crying bout not finding a good man etc etc. I told her even bac then when she was sobbing when I ain’t wanna wife her that she done let a low ass quality nikka nut all up inside her and now you think ima have “SUCKA” tattooed on my forehead?! bytch please :childplease:
 

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gille actually hit the nail on the head with this shyt.

someone else here said it too bout dating a bytch between 18-25. If she Fukk with you and wanna marry you in her prime years, then :salute:

hoes think it’s all fun and games during their prime years then get mad when they washed and can’t find no good men.

Me and one of my sides been fukkin since 2011. Even in her prime at 25 she still had a baby by some drug dealer nikka. To this day she on FB everyday crying bout not finding a good man etc etc. I told her even bac then when she was sobbing when I ain’t wanna wife her that she done let a low ass quality nikka nut all up inside her and now you think ima have “SUCKA” tattooed on my forehead?! bytch please :childplease:

IYKYK
 

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gille actually hit the nail on the head with this shyt.

someone else here said it too bout dating a bytch between 18-25. If she Fukk with you and wanna marry you in her prime years, then :salute:

hoes think it’s all fun and games during their prime years then get mad when they washed and can’t find no good men.

Me and one of my sides been fukkin since 2011. Even in her prime at 25 she still had a baby by some drug dealer nikka. To this day she on FB everyday crying bout not finding a good man etc etc. I told her even bac then when she was sobbing when I ain’t wanna wife her that she done let a low ass quality nikka nut all up inside her and now you think ima have “SUCKA” tattooed on my forehead?! bytch please :childplease:



He ain't lying lol
 

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Thread just full of pain
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And truth:sas1:
 

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Thread just full of pain
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And truth:sas1:

People always do that weird who hurt who?, shyt but the fact is 95% you are who you are in the physical, you can try to optimize, but you won't go from ugly to handsome, or short to tall. You can clean up diet, improve skin, personality/social skills, increase finances, but the base template of you remains, that either is or isn't DESIRED by women, not to say you can't get them with the right finesse timing or tricking, it just means they're not choosing you AKA giving/making themselves available for virtually nothing/no effort. In past economic periods, and eras men didn't question it. Some got it easy, some didn't but I know exactly how hard I work for each dollar and what my time is worth if a woman doesn't see value in me/desire me enough to give it up off GP, I won't bytch and moan, but I'm not interested in doing work to bag her at a later date when she's lost value when I'm not willing to "work" to get her now that's just stupid. Women should be proving themselves to duded not the other way around they are usually the catalyst for marriage/long term anyway.

I think dudes play dumb/have a hard time admitting it because it means the bulk men and (their fathers) had to jump through extra hoops to get they girl (fathers did same to get their mothers) and it make men feel less than/inadequate when in reality that how the bulk of men's dating like will go whether they like it or not. As long as you protect yourself financially and enjoy it as it lasts as opposed depend, rely upon, or need her/the relationship, indulge. I personally just have too much awareness, critical thinking skills and pride. Moreover nowadays broads don't even try to hide that they settle from the IG posts, to the homegirl chats, to the flirting w/ or w/out their man around for better or worse 3rd wave feminism has made most women very transparent, and men as a collective are fragmenting on what to do with the latest update of women. Some will play along, some will play the field, and some won't play at all. If you can live with your decisions theoretically there are no wrong answers.
 

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No offense to yall but this thread seems sad. I get what yall saying about women having their fun and wanting to settle down yrs later. But I dont see nothing wrong with being looked at as husband material. Its who you choose to settle down with that's important. If that's what you're looking for. If you just smashing who cares how a woman perceives you. Who cares what they think about you positive or negative. Taking care of yourself while putting your bid in and being indifferent about the outcome is the best look to me.
 

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People always do that weird who hurt who?, shyt but the fact is 95% you are who you are in the physical, you can try to optimize, but you won't go from ugly to handsome, or short to tall. You can clean up diet, improve skin, personality/social skills, increase finances, but the base template of you remains, that either is or isn't DESIRED by women, not to say you can't get them with the right finesse timing or tricking, it just means they're not choosing you AKA giving/making themselves available for virtually nothing/no effort. In past economic periods, and eras men didn't question it. Some got it easy, some didn't but I know exactly how hard I work for each dollar and what my time is worth if a woman doesn't see value in me/desire me enough to give it up off GP, I won't bytch and moan, but I'm not interested in doing work to bag her at a later date when she's lost value when I'm not willing to "work" to get her now that's just stupid. Women should be proving themselves to duded not the other way around they are usually the catalyst for marriage/long term anyway.

I think dudes play dumb/have a hard time admitting it because it means the bulk men and (their fathers) had to jump through extra hoops to get they girl (fathers did same to get their mothers) and it make men feel less than/inadequate when in reality that how the bulk of men's dating like will go whether they like it or not. As long as you protect yourself financially and enjoy it as it lasts as opposed depend, rely upon, or need her/the relationship, indulge. I personally just have too much awareness, critical thinking skills and pride. Moreover nowadays broads don't even try to hide that they settle from the IG posts, to the homegirl chats, to the flirting w/ or w/out their man around for better or worse 3rd wave feminism has made most women very transparent, and men as a collective are fragmenting on what to do with the latest update of women. Some will play along, some will play the field, and some won't play at all. If you can live with your decisions theoretically there are no wrong answers.

Dudes on here like to play obtuse. “WHA? That’s never happened to me” or their lady said called them husband material themselves and in denial.

:mjlol:

Anything to protect the image of their mothers. They go on and on about black men not expressing themselves and how they need to talk to each other it slowly becomes:

“ThIs ThReAd FuLl oF pAiN”

“YoU aLl sEeM hUrt”

Goofy as hell.

Black forum advocating for therapy and not harboring feelings and ppl on here bashing.
 

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gille actually hit the nail on the head with this shyt.

someone else here said it too bout dating a bytch between 18-25. If she Fukk with you and wanna marry you in her prime years, then :salute:

hoes think it’s all fun and games during their prime years then get mad when they washed and can’t find no good men.

Me and one of my sides been fukkin since 2011. Even in her prime at 25 she still had a baby by some drug dealer nikka. To this day she on FB everyday crying bout not finding a good man etc etc. I told her even bac then when she was sobbing when I ain’t wanna wife her that she done let a low ass quality nikka nut all up inside her and now you think ima have “SUCKA” tattooed on my forehead?! bytch please :childplease:


Exactly. That’s the only way you know she really likes you.

Without any kids, no clearance sales, just like how kids tell you the truth when their little. Women do the same during that 18-25 period.
 

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People always do that weird who hurt who?, shyt but the fact is 95% you are who you are in the physical, you can try to optimize, but you won't go from ugly to handsome, or short to tall. You can clean up diet, improve skin, personality/social skills, increase finances, but the base template of you remains, that either is or isn't DESIRED by women, not to say you can't get them with the right finesse timing or tricking, it just means they're not choosing you AKA giving/making themselves available for virtually nothing/no effort. In past economic periods, and eras men didn't question it. Some got it easy, some didn't but I know exactly how hard I work for each dollar and what my time is worth if a woman doesn't see value in me/desire me enough to give it up off GP, I won't bytch and moan, but I'm not interested in doing work to bag her at a later date when she's lost value when I'm not willing to "work" to get her now that's just stupid. Women should be proving themselves to duded not the other way around they are usually the catalyst for marriage/long term anyway.

I think dudes play dumb/have a hard time admitting it because it means the bulk men and (their fathers) had to jump through extra hoops to get they girl (fathers did same to get their mothers) and it make men feel less than/inadequate when in reality that how the bulk of men's dating like will go whether they like it or not. As long as you protect yourself financially and enjoy it as it lasts as opposed depend, rely upon, or need her/the relationship, indulge. I personally just have too much awareness, critical thinking skills and pride. Moreover nowadays broads don't even try to hide that they settle from the IG posts, to the homegirl chats, to the flirting w/ or w/out their man around for better or worse 3rd wave feminism has made most women very transparent, and men as a collective are fragmenting on what to do with the latest update of women. Some will play along, some will play the field, and some won't play at all. If you can live with your decisions theoretically there are no wrong answers.
You want to know the cold hard truth why people say this is because you are a man and no one gives a damn about how you feel :yeshrug:
 
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