Is anyone else seen as “husband material”?

[RareHunter]

Expound my nikka lol

Uptown boogie described it pretty much. Through my dealings, and convos that’s clearly the case and they are exactly aware. That’s not to say there isn’t some misguided women getting played, but I wouldn’t buy the sob stories. If you handsome gang, you see enough to know that MOST women aren’t truly wives to be proud of. It’s just companionship. You have to find a God fearing women period not just a God believing women like most women at church.

 

[dezert_storm]

Don’t fall for that shyt.

they out here doing threesomes and one might stands then meet you and want to tell you your husband Material.

absolutely not

I see these types of stories on Reddit all the time. Dudes talking about their gf did all kinds of wild shyt with other men but are sexually tame with them

 

[MollyGalaga]

I see these types of stories on Reddit all the time. Dudes talking about their gf did all kinds of wild shyt with other men but are sexually tame with them

Update always ends with the guy breaking up with her

 

[Coco Loco]

Do u think im a husband material?

6"4
39 inch vert

Are you trying to get scouted or married beloved lol

 

[Ahadi]

What is her age?

If it is near 30, that is the time they will be tryna get married.

It's a target age for many females.

You really should be dating 18-25. Their prime age will tell you if they really like you.

 

[Ahadi]

The hurt in this thread is next level




Yall gonna to figure out how heal eventually instead of treating every woman you manage to finesse like the one that did you dirty

Yall gonna figure out that if you not pulling quality boss chicks it's says more about you than who you pullin.

Coli Brehs talking about women have me like

Both sides are right. But therapy, building yourself and creating the most leverage is the only way you win this game. Hit that gym, build those soft skills.

ASK QUESTIONS & LISTEN.

 

[mag357]

This thread is needed.

Never be "husband material"...

Be "getting sucked off, late night" material

 

[mag357]

It's a compliment if the woman is actually trying to get married. Telling a man she can see herself building a family with him is a positive. Now if she's saying that but not looking to settle down or on bs then...

It's never a positive...

It just means that man seems like a dude to put up with her shyt and be responsible.
Thats all a husband is....
Security.

Usually the security dude and the nikka she really wants isn't the same man

 

[mag357]

My ex momma said “you were an Angel for my daughter and I appreciate the blessings you gave her”. It hurt when I had to delete my almost step mom of Facebook but we can’t talk no more now that your daughter out the picture

What the momma look like?

 

[mag357]

To be fair men do the same thing. The woman who is "wife material " gets tossed to side so men can chase their more attractive counterparts

Sadly, this is Facts...

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

talk is cheap. yall love to be gassed up, i like running on E

post up when you've actually been proposed to several and miscellanous times

 

[Mass]

I see these types of stories on Reddit all the time. Dudes talking about their gf did all kinds of wild shyt with other men but are sexually tame with them

Yea. I’ve been that guy. I just don’t bytch on the internet about it. I keep doing self improvement shyt and kicking bytches out soon as they tell me I’m a good man.

 

[Reality]

To be fair men do the same thing. The woman who is "wife material " gets tossed to side so men can chase their more attractive counterparts

This is a false equivalency...because the shyt that makes women attractive to men doesn't simultaneously/directly make them less suitable as mothers and wives.

With women, a lot of them view dysfunction and drama as attractive in and of itself. The usual bad boy shyt. And for most of them, nothing is more of an aphrodisiac than the sense that you're desired by other women. So, getting with these type of women usually means committing to dealing with consequences of them dealing with dysfunctional dudes (e.g., kids by aint-shyt dudes).

That's just not the case with men. A woman's behavior does completely re-wire our circuitry in terms of how attractive we deem them. It might give them an extra point or 2...a 7 with sex appeal can hit as an 8, but even that's usually appearance-based vs. behavior.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I see these types of stories on Reddit all the time. Dudes talking about their gf did all kinds of wild shyt with other men but are sexually tame with them

two reddit stories stixk out vividly:

first story this one white chick was freaking out on r/sex. she had tried to wipe her past porn star history from the net. To the extent that she bought the masters...... needless to say her fiance found out. The scene he saw was one of her gettin blown out by 3 bbc nikkas on some Blacked type shyt... ..... now the kicker is she admitted in the post that her fiance (did i mention he was a cac ? ) ain't working with even a mini excalibur...... so she went on to explain to him when he confronted her that she "didn't enjoy the experience" ..... that it was "painful" .......... so homeboy disappesred for a few days up to a cabin to "think"..... he comes back and says that he had to "get over the experience and he truly loves her"......


story 2 goes along the lines of dude was walking up the stairs and he heard his fiance talking to her girlfriend that her current fiance doesn't clap them cheeks the way that her ex did (who was ur typical Chad).... the joke of this one is that homeboy getting shytted on acknowledgedd that the only reason his fiance is with him is cause the Chad dumped her and if the Chad wanted her back she would run back to him.. ....... did he leave her?.... not sure this one didn't get a clean ending, but if he on reddit looking for advice.... I'm not holding my breath..

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Any man is technically husband material to women.

The question is, is that man capable of being a good husband to a wife.

But if a woman says a man is husband material, it's a backhanded compliment

The irony is they want to take a man who isn't husband material and turn him into that.

They'd rather try to raise a pitbull puppy that was born in a tiny cage and abused than adopt a chilled out dog thats only been given up because his previous owners ain't want a dog anymore. The challenge is more meaningful to them than the results