Is being a 'stay at home mom' an excuse for being lazy?
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Being a stay at home mom is an excuse for a woman to sit on her lazy ass. Once a child hits 4 they can go to preschool and daycare. A babysitter can be hired for earlier ages. What is a woman doing every day while at home? Laundry is done once a week. A deep cleaning is done once a week along with a very quick clean up everyday. Cooking is a joke, I cook everyday and I am in college at school half the time. You could get everything you need done around the house in 1 day, hence thats what Sundays are for. So Monday - Friday a woman needs to get off her lazy ass and earn some income. Women want equal rights? Fine. Get a fukking job and work 40+ just like a man does.
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If the chick husband is cool with her doing that, what's the problem? Me and my girl had the convo, and she said wants to work and I told her if we ever have kids I'd prefer for her to be a stay at home mom. My mother was a stay at home mom, so for me, that'd be the ideal situation for my kids if i ever have em. Right now, she's cool with the idea and I'm cool with it too.
She's a teacher, so over last summer she was off and I had to work and I got to see the benefits of being in that situation. I'd wake up in the morning, she'd suck me off then make me breakfast. I'd come home for lunch and lunch would be waiting for me on the table. I'd come home for dinner and dinner would be waiting. My crib would be spotless, my bed would be made, and the dishes would be washed and put away.
Then on friday's she know i like to have a glass of scotch, so I'd come home and there'd be my bottle sitting there waiting for me, the ps3 controller, and frosted scotch glass fresh out the freezer.
I can cook my ass off, I'm a clean person, and I've been self sufficient my whole life. But I feel like I'm winning in this scenario breh.
Thats good for you, but im all about efficiency. All that damn time at home can equate to something more productive; like money
What about working from home? Like, she has a online business she works out of the house?
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
The key is finding a chick who's good with money and is a penny pincher. shyt, my girl looks at me funny cause I buy the gladlock sandwich bags instead of the generic one. I remember she came home from work, and brought the sandwich bag with her. I'm like why you ain't throw it away? She said "nikka you spent 3.99 on these bags, I'm reusing em until they fall apart
"That's when I realized she was def a keeper.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Eh, money isn't an issue though. I'm an IT consultant so I'm
good ouchea. I would tell nikkas how much I make, but nikkas is gonna just say 
All Ima say is, me and my chick has been talking bout potentially buying our first crib together cash. She said she already got about 30k to give me when the time comes
That situation might not be for everybody, but for me and her, it works.
The key is finding a chick who's good with money and is a penny pincher. shyt, my girl looks at me funny cause I buy the gladlock sandwich bags instead of the generic one. I remember she came home from work, and brought the sandwich bag with her. I'm like why you ain't throw it away? She said "nikka you spent 3.99 on these bags, I'm reusing em until they fall apart
That's when I realized she was def a keeper.
LOL! That sounds like me unless, raw meat was in them.
I think what gets me sometimes is I feel like men want it both ways. If a woman does have a career, men get mad about that saying she needs to be back in the kitchen but, if a woman does decide to stay in the kitchen then all of the sudden she is a lazy moocher.
Same thing with sex, a girl puts out, she's a heathen whore whose vagina should burn in the seventh layer of hell but, if she doesn't put out, she's a stuck up prude who wipes her tears with pages out of the bible.
However, I only see this women hating or men hating on the internet.
With that being said, I wouldn't dare intrust my newborn into daycare and I'm not going to drop it off on my mom either so, for the first few years of its life before it goes off to school, I want to be with my child twenty-four seven.
I guess it's just a motherly instinct thing.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
The funny thing is, nikkas like to think that women is out here plotting on em like their last name is gates or some shyt. Dudes making $10/hr talkin bout "I don't trust these bytches breh, they only want a nikka for his paper
"nikkas like to live vicariously through their favorite rapper, actor, or ball player. It's way nikkas is alway complaining about rich people getting fukked over in divorce settlements when they barely got a g in the bank
Eh, money isn't an issue though. I'm an IT consultant so I'm
All Ima say is, me and my chick has been talking bout potentially buying our first crib together cash. She said she already got about 30k to give me when the time comes
That situation might not be for everybody, but for me and her, it works.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
LOL! That sounds like me unless, raw meat was in them.
I think what gets me sometimes is I feel like men want it both ways. If a woman does have a career, men get mad about that saying she needs to be back in the kitchen but, if a woman does decide to stay in the kitchen then all of the sudden she is a lazy moocher.
Same thing with sex, a girl puts out, she's a heathen whore whose vagina should burn in the seventh layer of hell but, if she doesn't put out, she's a stuck up prude who wipes her tears with pages out of the bible.
However, I only see this women hating or men hating on the internet.
With that being said, I wouldn't dare intrust my newborn into daycare and I'm not going to drop it off on my mom either so, for the first few years of its life before it goes off to school, I want to be with my child twenty-four seven.
I guess it's just a motherly instinct thing.
The bolded is the key, this shyt only happens online. Bitter nikkas get on a message board and have a circle jerk. It's the only place where all black women are evil hoodrats who's been destroying the black community since slavery, every one is 6 foot of lean muscle, and pulling dime pawgs without ever having to even say hello. I'd imagine the same fukkery happens on sites like lipstick alley where a bunch of bitter bytches congregate to say nikkas ain't shyt 24x7.
The funny thing is, nikkas like to think that women is out here plotting on em like their last name is gates or some shyt. Dudes making $10/hr talkin bout "I don't trust these bytches breh, they only want a nikka for his paper
nikkas like to live vicariously through their favorite rapper, actor, or ball player. It's way nikkas is alway complaining about rich people getting fukked over in divorce settlements when they barely got a g in the bank
Every time gender wars happen I always see this: :fight: from both sides.
I try to tell my fellow females that not all men are out here to keep you down likewise, I wish males would realize that not all of us females out here to get you.
I think what happens, is that with some people, they grew up in such a shytty home environment or had a horrible relationship and they just end up bitter about the opposite sex.
So bitter in fact, the should be amongst their own sex.
Anyways, not everybody is bitter about relationships and the opposite sex and there are still a lot of people out here with beautiful, fair, and loving relationships. Both parties gotta give n' take. You can't be selfish really.
