Is being a 'stay at home mom' an excuse for being lazy?

[↓R↑LYB]

Every time gender wars happen I always see this: :fight: from both sides.

I try to tell my fellow females that not all men are out here to keep you down likewise, I wish males would realize that not all of us females out here to get you.

I think what happens, is that with some people, they grew up in such a shytty home environment or had a horrible relationship and they just end up bitter about the opposite sex.

So bitter in fact, the should be amongst their own sex.

Anyways, not everybody is bitter about relationships and the opposite sex and there are still a lot of people out here with beautiful, fair, and loving relationships. Both parties gotta give n' take. You can't be selfish really.

I agree 100%, but hey it's the coli. nikkas get tossed in the bushes with the quickness

I've said it in other threads though, I never hear this gender war BS in the real world. It's a crazy internet phenomena IMO.

 

[Classy X]

The bolded is the key, this shyt only happens online. Bitter nikkas get on a message board and have a circle jerk. It's the only place where all black women are evil hoodrats who's been destroying the black community since slavery, every one is 6 foot of lean muscle, and pulling dime pawgs without ever having to even say hello. I'd imagine the same fukkery happens on sites like lipstick alley where a bunch of bitter bytches congregate to say nikkas ain't shyt 24x7.

Ya' know, when I see the nonstop negativity about Black men or Black women I have to laugh because I realize folks be bitter and haven't stepped outside in real life for a day or two.

But, alas, once again, it's the internet. Sitting behind that monitor brings the worst out of a person and has allowed hidden, horrible demons of folks to really come out.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Ya' know, when I see the nonstop negativity about Black men or Black women I have to laugh because I realize folks be bitter and haven't stepped outside in real life for a day or two.

But, alas, once again, it's the internet. Sitting behind that monitor brings the worst out of a person and has allowed hidden, horrible demons of folks to really come out.

It's funny because back when I was on sohh, I was the #1 nikka going ham on black women. I was talking reckless 24x7 thinking the shyt was jokes and nikkas was just fukking around. I figured they'd log off, go kick it with their black gf/wife/whatever and have a normal, happy life like I was.

Then I realize most of these dudes were dead ass serious with how much they seem to hate women

 

[rantanamo]

- Not always economically better for both to work
- Truly take care of a house, cooking, cleaning, washing, scrubbing, not some bullshyt laying around, and tell me that's an easy life.
- Be submissive and at the mercy of another's dollar and tell me that shyt is an easy life.
- Is more gas, more credit cards, daycare, eating out most of the time, worth the social and economic cost for many? It isn't for some, it is for others. Some would rather have their children's needs met by their spouse instead of some strangers that don't give a shyt about them and who you're paying 1/4 of your salaries.

Just a few sociological observations.

 

[Sharp]

Other than being home for the child during the first 2 years of life, I feel that a woman being a stay at home mom can be detrimental.

Most stay at home moms watch soap operas all day, while they put their child in front of a TV with nickelodeon on. They clean for one hour out of the day and make it seem like they've been busting their ass all day.

I can respect a woman who really runs her household. But if you're a stay home mom, then there should never be a day where breakfast or dinner isn't prepared; the house should never ever be is disarray, kids should be dressed and out the door to school on time, your husband's clothes and all of his stuff should be prepared as well. You should also be paying all of the household bills (of course from the joint account).

 

[MeachTheMonster]

In a perfect world, the mother should be able to stay at home with the kids till they are school age, then go to work when the kids go to school.

 

[-G$-]

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Other than being home for the child during the first 2 years of life, I feel that a woman being a stay at home mom can be detrimental.

Most stay at home moms watch soap operas all day, while they put their child in front of a TV with nickelodeon on. They clean for one hour out of the day and make it seem like they've been busting their ass all day.

I can respect a woman who really runs her household. But if you're a stay home mom, then there should never be a day where breakfast or dinner isn't prepared; the house should never ever be is disarray, kids should be dressed and out the door to school on time, your husband's clothes and all of his stuff should be prepared as well. You should also be paying all of the household bills (of course from the joint account).

My wife does all this AND goes to school full time. I lazy woman is a lazy woman doesn't matter her profession.

 

[RoCKetSity256]

Aint nothin wrong with putting your kids in daycare while you get your bread

If I made enough for my family to live comfortably I would love my girl to be home 24/7 cause If a nikka ever put his hands feet or any other object on my girls then its gone be hell to pay and I aint even like that no more!!!

 

[Sharp]

My wife does all this AND goes to school full time. I lazy woman is a lazy woman doesn't matter her profession.

You're a lucky man then breh

 

[Nintendough]

Do you want strangers from daycare and babysitters nurturing your seeds or do you want their mother doing it?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You're a lucky man then breh

The more I read the coli, the more I understand this. I do help with cooking allot, only cause it's my hobbie, but if I didn't we'd still good

 

[ThugLife]

9 Year Old Abuses Infants At A Daycare - YouTube



If I made enough for my family to live comfortably I would love my girl to be home 24/7 cause If a nikka ever put his hands feet or any other object on my girls then its gone be hell to pay and I aint even like that no more!!!

Yea because all day-cares are like this bro.

Plus that daycare was ran by some country ass ratchet black people.


I aint puttin my child in a daycare ran by no nikkaS

 

[Ayatollah Watts]

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/31399-stay-home-parent-bullsh*t-occupation.html#.UGWn-ZgzPng

posted my feelings in this one.

 

[LastEmperor2k2]

I only know one stay at home mom, and she's a lazy ass airhead bytch.