Is cheating the worst thing in a relationship?

[Remote]

For those who believe cheating on your partner makes you evil scum...

Is that your position regarding Martin Luther King, Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan and Bill Clinton?

Are they evil scum?

Or did they just do bad things?



@Emperor_ReinScarf
@Sunshine
@Elle Driver

 

[Ashley Banks]

For those who believe cheating on your partner makes you evil scum...

Is that your position regarding Martin Luther King, Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan and Bill Clinton?

Are they evil scum?

Or did they just do bad things?



@Emperor_ReinScarf
@Sunshine
@Elle Driver

yeah. just because you've done big things, doesn't mean you can't be scum, breh.

 

[Remote]

yeah. just because you've done big things, doesn't mean you can't be scum, breh.

MLK is scum according to Sunshine.
This woman at least stands by her shyt.

 

[Gains]

worst thing is when your family/friends/neighbors/enemies find out that your partners cheating before you can that'll mark you as a simp,bytch,suckah in their minds while they show sympathy on the outside

also when your girls thot friends knows shes doing dirt (most likely encouraging her behavior ) and when your all together they're acting all cool in front of you

 

[Elle Driver]

For those who believe cheating on your partner makes you evil scum...

Is that your position regarding Martin Luther King, Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan and Bill Clinton?

Are they evil scum?

Or did they just do bad things?



@Emperor_ReinScarf
@Sunshine
@Elle Driver

Yes. I wouldn't paint MLK as evil scum, however it is hypocritical and the act itself is evil. I also believe in forgiveness though.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

This is complete bullshyt

Spoken like a man who doesn't know the difference between a girlfriend and a wife.

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[wishbone]

Picture the woman that you love
fukking another man
Her ignoring your phone call as they get busy
Lying saying she somewhere she isnt
sucking his dikk
Swallowing
Him breaking her back
Doing shyt she hasn't done to you in years
Having multiple orgasms
Laying her head on his chest afterwards
Stroking him telling him it was awesome
Now tell me if you can make shyt work

Breh you know that's not all.
The hours of texting and phone calls to set up their rendezvous
Swallowing nut, and kissing you in the mouth an hour after
Planning their next meeting
Taking him to your favorite hang-out spots

Calling him your own pet name
Fukkin in your bed
Nut on your sheets
Condoms in your trash
Spending family money on him

Not gonna lie, the shyt broke me down...

 

[beanz]

Yes, I think a cheater is a bad person.


It's all the same.



It's all the same.

its not all the same and you know it.

Men always tell themselves the things they do aren't "as bad" to make themselves feel better. It's all the same.

u keep thinking my opinion is some excuse i use to cheat. i dont cheat on my wife and never would. im 30. i have been around and got it all out of my system. im getting older and my goal is to be a great husband and father. thats all.

i never once said its ok for a man to cheat or that it isnt a big deal or its justified. of course its a horrible thing and it fukking sucks and if i had a daughter or a sister and she was cheated on, i would be so sad and pissed for her. if my dad cheats on my mom with some slut, im gonna be pissed at my dad. you are exaggerating my opinion.

If a male cheats he's also a "thot" fukk outta here.

yes, he is. but most women nowadays seek out male thots. you dont want an undesirable man, u want a man that other women want so u can feel special that he chose you and changed for you. very few women seek out the inexperienced man with no swag that other women ignore in the club. no, ya all gravitate towards the life of the party that all the girls want because like i said, it makes ya feel special that u are the one.

i base my opinions on observations i have made throughout my entire life. human beings do not like being honest with themselves when the truth is inconvenient.

 

[DarlingNikki]

yes, he is. but most women nowadays seek out male thots. you dont want an undesirable man, u want a man that other women want so u can feel special that he chose you and changed for you. very few women seek out the inexperienced man with no swag that other women ignore in the club. no, ya all gravitate towards the life of the party that all the girls want because like i said, it makes ya feel special that u are the one.

i base my opinions on observations i have made throughout my entire life. human beings do not like being honest with themselves when the truth is inconvenient.

I don't judge the desirability of my mate by what other women think. I'd actually prefer to think that im the only one who wants my man, although I know it's untrue, I'm selfish that way.

After a while that "life of the party" shyt gets stale and I just want someone who I feel comfortable doing nothing with. Experience isn't an issue for me.

A man cheating on a woman is just as bad because not all men are emotionally attached. Every instance of cheating is not the same, it's not "a man being a man". If he was really a man he'd leave his relationship before deciding he wanted to fukk something else. That's one thing that is truly unforgivable to me, cheaters ain't shyt.

 

[beanz]

I don't judge the desirability of my mate by what other women think. I'd actually prefer to think that im the only one who wants my man, although I know it's untrue, I'm selfish that way.

After a while that "life of the party" shyt gets stale and I just want someone who I feel comfortable doing nothing with. Experience isn't an issue for me.

A man cheating on a woman is just as bad because not all men are emotionally attached. Every instance of cheating is not the same, it's not "a man being a man". If he was really a man he'd leave his relationship before deciding he wanted to fukk something else. That's one thing that is truly unforgivable to me, cheaters ain't shyt.

thats you tho. however u have to admit that most females do enjoy that.

as far as your last paragraph, idk if its a typo but u kind of made my point for me. not all men are emotionally attached. men are able to have sex without emotions much easier than women. thats what my opinion is based on, that known fact. a man will cheat and be forgiven because a woman knows in the back of her mind that we are weak in the face of sex.

u can agree with me that most cases of infidelity where the man cheats, its with some hoe he is not emotionally attached to.

and most cases where a woman cheats, it isnt just sexual. in most cases this other man had to talk to her for a while and convince her to cheat by gaining her affection.

thats where i base that it is more hurtful.

however unemotional cheating is the same on both sides, and emotional cheating is the same on both sides.

but the motives are, most of the time, different.

BUT ITS ALWAYS WRONG! im not justifying it. of course its always hurtful and fukked up.

 

[DarlingNikki]

thats you tho. however u have to admit that most females do enjoy that.

as far as your last paragraph, idk if its a typo but u kind of made my point for me. not all men are emotionally attached. men are able to have sex without emotions much easier than women. thats what my opinion is based on, that known fact. a man will cheat and be forgiven because a woman knows in the back of her mind that we are weak in the face of sex.

u can agree with me that most cases of infidelity where the man cheats, its with some hoe he is not emotionally attached to.

and most cases where a woman cheats, it isnt just sexual. in most cases this other man had to talk to her for a while and convince her to cheat by gaining her affection.

thats where i base that it is more hurtful.

however unemotional cheating is the same on both sides, and emotional cheating is the same on both sides.

but the motives are, most of the time, different.

BUT ITS ALWAYS WRONG! im not justifying it. of course its always hurtful and fukked up.

"Unattached" I didn't realize that's how I wrote it. Plenty of men cheat for emotion, to get a feelings from the other girl that he's not getting from his own. Even if my man cheated on me for physical reason, that's just as bad. Either way this person has something or is fulfilling your partner in a way that they don't think you can.

There are women who cheat and aren't emotionally attached. People are different

 

[DarlingNikki]

MLK is scum according to Sunshine.
This woman at least stands by her shyt.

Just because you do good things doesn't mean you're a good person.

 

[Remote]

Just because you do good things doesn't mean you're a good person.

So then why do you think just because someone does a bad thing that they are a bad person?

 

[Broke Wave]

yeah. just because you've done big things, doesn't mean you can't be scum, breh.

I think you're going a little too far here. I understand your point and it is valid, but maybe we're not showing respect by insinuating that MLK is scum or can be called scum?

 

[DarlingNikki]

So then why do you think just because someone does a bad thing that they are a bad person?

Weren't there threads here of guys saying they'll never trust a friend who can cheat on his wife? I think there's a moral standard that a "great" person should have. He was a great man socially who did something rather disgusting in his personal life.