Is cheating the worst thing in a relationship?

[Remote]

Sometimes, there's a good reason to kill. Like defending yourself, defending your family member or someone you love, or even defending a stranger.

Give me a good reason for someone to cheat.



But they still knew it would hurt them.

I'm not talking about defending yourself.
My example was the murder of someone who harmed your child.
Address the question I asked. Not the one you wish I asked.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm not talking about defending yourself.
My example was the murder of someone who harmed your child.
Address the question I asked. Not the one you wish I asked.

Are you...blind....orrr?

 

[Remote]

Are you...blind....orrr?

 

[Amy Traphouse]

If my husband cheated on me today by having sex with another woman, that may be the end of our marriage.

It takes alot to go as far as fukking another woman. At what point did he stop and think it was a bad idea? Post nut clarity? The drive home?

Nah son.

And yes it hurts to be cheated on regardless of who it was with.

 

[Ashley Banks]

you completely skipped over the rest of my answer.

 

[Remote]

you completely skipped over the rest of my answer.

Oh no, I read it.

I'm just in awe of your cognitive dissonance where you can understand why someone would commit a murder, but you can't understand that someone may cheat without them systematically seeking to do so.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Oh no, I read it.

I'm just in awe of your cognitive dissonance where you can understand why someone would commit a murder, but you can't understand that someone may cheat without them systematically seeking to do so.

I asked you to give me a good reason for someone to cheat just like you did with the murder scenario, yet here we are

 

[Remote]

I asked you to give me a good reason for someone to cheat just like you did with the murder scenario, yet here we are

My argument was never that there was a good reason.
My argument is that sometimes shyt happens and it's understandable how someone might stray.

Read my posts again, chica.

 

[The Maverick]

If my future wife cheated, I don't care if there's kids, houses, cars, whatever. It is over on sight. Next time we would speak would be through lawyers.

 

[swag2011]

my uncle did the same thing except his wife cheated with his (adult) son and he caught them and still married her WTF and he tries to say "she's a sweet person" "you should get to know her"

guess this means women cheating doesn't hurt as much

tf? His son is fukked up for that, are him and his dad (your uncle) cool? how did unc find out? he must be real desperate to still marry her

 

[Ashley Banks]

tf? His son is fukked up for that, are him and his dad (your uncle) cool? how did unc find out? he must be real desperate to still marry her

I don't know if they're still cool but the last time I saw them, they were.

He said he caught them fukking

Yeah, he's one of those "don't want to die alone" types of people.

My argument was never that there was a good reason.
My argument is that sometimes shyt happens and it's understandable how someone might stray.

Read my posts again, chica.

are you arguing just to argue or something?

You can understand why someone lies to their partner, hurts them, and exposes them to stds, I can't.

You think lying to your partner, hurting them, and exposing them to stds doesn't make someone a shytty person, I do.

Glad we got that cleared up.

Cheaters are scum only cheaters think cheaters are scum.

And that goes for all you emotional cheaters as wel

c/s

 

[Remote]

are you arguing just to argue or something?
You can understand why someone lies to their partner, hurts them, and exposes them to stds, I can't.
You think lying to your partner, hurting them, and exposing them to stds doesn't make someone a shytty person, I do.

Glad we got that cleared up.



c/s

Arguing just to argue? No.
You're just being a typical woman and refusing to acknowledge a point that doesn't jive with your belief system.

Do I think lying to a partner makes someone a sh*tty person? Not necessarily. It depends why they lied.
Exposing them to STDs? Not everyone who cheats gives their partner an STD.
It's an unfortunate thing when someone who cheats gives their spouse an STD. But you're implying that a person who strays is purposely seeking to give their partner an STD. That's rather presumptuous.

Here's where I differ from you, because you lack the ability to read between the lines.

You think cheating makes a person inherently bad.

I think cheating is bad, and spare my condemnation of that person's character.

 

[BodieBroadus]

I tend ta' maintain that trust is tha most important part of a relationship, so cheatin and losing that trust would hafta be tha worst, yuh.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Arguing just to argue? No.
You're just refusing to acknowledge a point that doesn't jive with your belief system.

Do I think lying to a partner makes someone a sh*tty person? Not necessarily. It depends why they lied.
Exposing them to STDs? Not everyone who cheats gives their partner an STD.
It's an unfortunate thing when someone who cheats gives their spouse an STD. But you're implying that a person who strays is purposely seeking to give their partner an STD. That's rather presumptuous.

Here's where I differ from you, because you lack the ability to read between the lines.

You think cheating makes a person inherently bad.

I think cheating is bad, and spare my condemnation of that person's character.

lol how would you know if I lack the ability to read between the lines?

I don't "lack the ability" to read between the lines, I can do it just fine. YOU just think that because I'm not agreeing with you that I don't know what you're saying.

So let me help you out

I get that you don't think cheaters are bad people, you think "shyt happens" and that a person can lie to their partner and hurt them and still be a god person.

I don't think that, I think that if you KNOW something is going to hurt someone and YOU STILL DO IT, you're a shytty person, you're scum etc.

 

[Elle Driver]

My argument was never that there was a good reason.
My argument is that sometimes shyt happens and it's understandable how someone might stray.

Read my posts again, chica.