Is going days with out contacting your girlfriend normal to men?

Raava

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Have any of the other coli women been thru this? If so please share what happened and what u did

I don't get that far. I refuse to blow up a guys phone especially if we aren't serious. Even if I am really upset about it they will never see it. You get like 2 text and a courtesy call during that week. Especially if its in the first couple of months if a guy is not putting forth effort like I am I keep it moving. Actions vs. words.
 

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Mine situation is a little different. Like I was initiating contact and he responded but then I waited to see how much time would past before he hit me up first and it was a little over a day. If I hadn't heard from him in 48 hours I was prepared to ignore him.

I can't imagine the amount of rage I would feel if I hit him up and he didn't respond at all.

I don't get that far. I refuse to blow up a guys phone especially if we aren't serious. Even if I am really upset about it they will never see it. You get like 2 text and a courtesy call during that week. Especially if its in the first couple of months if a guy is not putting forth effort like I am I keep it moving. Actions vs. words.
THIS......

never anything more than this.[DOUBLEPOST=1397366302][/DOUBLEPOST]
Then you really must not be shyt then :brehwow2:
You are not shyt for this!!! :wow:
 

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Man in the end nikkas playing games and girls getting played.
Yall want it to stop?
Stop wearing make up.
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Welp, not much left to cover on this front

:heh: at getting away with days, shyt would get real for me quick
 
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If he was like that from the jump then I wouldn't be fussing...but this man was on me hard and made sure that I fell hard for him!

He sounds like myself. I'm not the type of nikka to keep contact with anybody. Especially during the work week. I only hit people up on the weekends when I actually have time to talk to them. And even then, I usually only talk to them if I plan on seeing them that weekend.

We're just kinda introverted like that. We get nothing outta "checking in" or talking just to talk. Plus after we see people kinda often....we need some time apart to like recharge the batteries or else its like pulling teeth, and we get annoyed really easily being around the same person too often.

The problem is, you cant be this way from jump...especially with women. Cause then we'd never get no p*ssy. You gotta be everything a bytch wants you to be in the first few weeks to get her to fall for you. Then once shes trapped you can let your true colors show.

I'm also the kinda nikka that never really gave a fukk about a bytch tho so :yeshrug:
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
But I cook, give him great sex, he says that I'm the first woman he knows that actually is a hip hop fan, we have debates on rappers and convos about politics.
I'm outgoing... I have my own friends and I'm out here living life like a 23 yr old woman :manny:


You're playing house :ld:

Explain why he needs to go above and beyond the bare minimum when you're already giving sex and playing the role of a wife? I really don't understand how you women think, he's already doing very little and you're giving up all this, why then does he need to do more when he's already used to getting the benefits of a relationship without doing much at all?

Foreign women save the marriage role for their husband, western women play the role of wife without a dude ever committing and then wondering why homie won't do more or marry them :dead:
 
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