I agree, but sometimes what people don't say, or how they act around you, is stronger than words.
at taking drastic actions based off of assumptions fueled by no communication.
Is going days with out contacting your girlfriend normal to men?
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at taking drastic actions based off of assumptions fueled by no communication.mortuus est
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TheFemalePerspective
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Should could ask but might not get an answer until May.
Better to ask and get that than to ask nothing at all.
TheFemalePerspective
All Star
You don't believe people give hints?
Some men (and women too) find it hard to break it off with someone. Instead, they just drift away, in hopes, that you'll have enough self-worth to walk away.
People kinda make it clear when they want you in their life.
If they're not responding to you....
that in itself.. is a response.
She said she's messaged him several times & he just shows up randomly whenever he wants with no explanations.
Can it get anymore obvious that he's not into her, the way she's into him.
Even if she brings it up, he'll throw some words to mentally confuse her, and because she's so into him, she might believe it.
It'll be best if she just cuts off communication with him & spends time with those who truly love her.
Lets be real here, no one and I mean NO ONE is too busy to carve 15 seconds out of their day to shoot a text if they wanna hear from you.
If im 'freezing' a chick its because i want to, and it usually means she aint my girlfriend
If im 'freezing' a chick its because i want to, and it usually means she aint my girlfriend
Further that's 15 seconds for a chick you are just trying to keep on the roster.
If you and he are supposed to be together and somewhat serious and he isn't in contact something is generally off.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Never understood why people waste their time entertaining this. If I'm done with you I will tell u.straight out. Why make her think you could just be busy. She can't take the hint[DOUBLEPOST=1397393846][/DOUBLEPOST]
Don't call or text or write on his Facebook. Let him call you at least twice. And don't pick up.
Yea this is childish but he thinks he is in control. Men eat it up when they know the woman cares more.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
What? I admitted that it was childish. No denying that. But he is probably some guy that gets a big kick out of women flocking to him.
just because you admit it's childish doesn't give it a pass or make it good advice.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Sure it's good advice it's the same as a person telling her not to call the guy even though she probably wants to. People do this all the time where they say you shouldn't answer someone's phone calls after that haven't been contacting or answering your phone calls. If you aren't aware of this it's because you're a guy and men do this not calling thing all the time. Women have been putting up with this bs for years. This is common advice. Whether you think it's dumb or not.
I have gotten this advice from old women and younger women