Is going days with out contacting your girlfriend normal to men?
- Thread starter Ooh Marty
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good advice would have been to tell her to throw him in the bushes. your advice is basically to entertain the guy's little games and play the same games. again, just because it's "common advice" doesn't make it good advice.
TheFemalePerspective
All Star
I think once it reaches that stage (playing games) it's best to dead it, unless you enjoy the mind games (not aimed at you!).
If the communication is weak, the relationship is weak.
It's clear that OP is not happy with the situation. It's up to her now to change it.
We can't control how people choose to treat us, but we can control what we allow.[DOUBLEPOST=1397395382][/DOUBLEPOST]@Marty Kaan You deserve better!!!
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I didn't tell her to throw him in the bushes because other people have already said that.
If that's all the advice she wanted the thread could have been closed already.[DOUBLEPOST=1397395500][/DOUBLEPOST]
She isnt happy with the situation but clearly she still is interested. Or else this thread would be pointless. She would just cut him off. No advice would be needed.
He just called me 
Ignore!
I should've listened to u brehs the first time!
It's cool tho!
How da fukk I'm playing wifey to a nikka that treats me like a side chick?
#martylost
Ignore!
I should've listened to u brehs the first time!
It's cool tho!
How da fukk I'm playing wifey to a nikka that treats me like a side chick?
#martylost
Gotta stop thinking p*ssy is worth something to men.
We don't get the same emotional connection as women do when we have sex.
I know it's hard to separate your emotions from the actions, but it is just an action to us. The emotion comes from how you make us feel and think in between. If I was charming enough to get some p*ssy early, then you better be charming enough to make me want to hang around when that aint what we're doing. At this point, you need to figure out how to be his friend so he wants to hang out with you instead of avoiding you to make sure you don't think a relationship can happen.
It sounds like he's feeling the pressure from you on a relationship tip and he wants to show you that's not in his thought process
We don't get the same emotional connection as women do when we have sex.
I know it's hard to separate your emotions from the actions, but it is just an action to us. The emotion comes from how you make us feel and think in between. If I was charming enough to get some p*ssy early, then you better be charming enough to make me want to hang around when that aint what we're doing. At this point, you need to figure out how to be his friend so he wants to hang out with you instead of avoiding you to make sure you don't think a relationship can happen.
It sounds like he's feeling the pressure from you on a relationship tip and he wants to show you that's not in his thought process
So the games continue........He just called me
Ignore!
I should've listened to u brehs the first time!
It's cool tho!
How da fukk I'm playing wifey to a nikka that treats me like a side chick?
#martylost
keep passing on your wisdom if that's how you feel...
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
FukyourFort
All Star
I do... No response or text yet he swear how much he miss me on my Facebook pro
why you still with em after that?
@Teedot is giving terrible advice in the thread. I'm actually surprised at how good the advice @TheFemalePerspective is giving though
Nah breh I'm done!
When I'm over with someone I just ignore them and completely cut them out of my life
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
@Teedot is giving terrible advice in the thread. I'm actually surprised at how good the advice @TheFemalePerspective is giving though
me too. i was looking at it like@Teedot is giving terrible advice in the thread. I'm actually surprised at how good the advice @TheFemalePerspective is giving though
