Is holding a lifelong grude really a bad thing?

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Or is the brother in this video sounding like a simp?

I don't think he talking about a grudge over somebody who owe you $100.

More like maybe when one of your close friends have sex with somebody you thought loved you.

Coli what ya'll think are there parameters on holding a lifelong grudge?

Where do you draw the line?
 

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If you're holding a grudge for years, you need to get over that shyt. A grudge is supposed to be something that quickly turns into "I couldn't care less about them." Just let it be that you don't fukk with that person. Wasting mental energy on someone to hold a grudge (which means more than the allotted time of anger) will give you cancer.
 

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If you're holding a grudge for years, you need to get over that shyt. A grudge is supposed to be something that quickly turns into "I couldn't care less about them." Just let it be that you don't fukk with that person. Wasting mental energy on someone to hold a grudge (which means more than the allotted time of anger) will give you cancer.

A real grudge is when you still love or want to be around someone but just can't fukk with them anymore to protect your pride.
 

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I have a grudge with someone that's lasted over 12 years, its on sight when I see him in person and don't care where im at when I do.

My situation is I had an attempt on my life.

Was that person ever your friend?
 

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I have a grudge with someone that's lasted over 12 years, its on sight when I see him in person and don't care where im at when I do.

My situation is I had an attempt on my life.
This person tried to kill you or was involved with someone trying to kill you and you see this person frequently and do nothing?
 

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Was that person ever your friend?
Best friend for many years, dude flipped out about me taking a girl out he liked, Now mind you she had no interest in him and he is married and has kids.

I told him before it happened if you're gonna let some sucker shyt like this come between us, then he pulled that BS move and tried taking me out.
 

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This person tried to kill you or was involved with someone trying to kill you and you see this person frequently and do nothing?
I haven't seen this person in 12 years, he moved fast after this shyt went down and I put his family member in ICU.


just saying when I do run into him in this area its on sight. No questions asked.
 
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