Is it considered cheating for your girlfriend to give men her IG?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I get trying to avoid rejecting someone in person but unless you're blocking him right after, it's just bad

It's about the intention. He asked her out and she gave him her IG page to go through and possibly still contact in the DMs. That possibility is shady.

That's how some women keep guys hanging around just waiting for her main to drop the ball.

If we say that's foul she says we're jealous and insecure. But she knows that guy's intentions already.

Aren't the intentions of the guys following her the same? What's the difference? Lust is lust.

I just see her trying to get more followers. I've given my IG to men I wasn't interested in just to get the follow and it didn't get any farther than that.

If you have a problem with ya girl giving out her IG you probably should have a problem with it as a whole.

IG isn't sexual unless the person makes it that way.

 

[concise]

lol, you know how many people add others they do not care for in any way, just to add to their like counts?

and like @colicolicoli said it's a super easy method that avoids the unpredictable reactions that can occur with rejections. It's somewhat common, but idk how some of you are out here using social media.

 

[StretfordRed]

Things in the US must be different than elsewhere

If you ask for a girls number and she says Insta instead, that's a rejection basically.

This situation happened with my Mrs, but she said the Breh was trying to get information about a common subject and he asked for her number, but she said no, then Insta, but she said no then just gave her email address. But that was situational, if there's no common subject the person wants to know about, then there's no reason for communication channels to be open.

On the flip side when I was out, I was jamming with one girl, and I told her I had a Mrs, she got a bit flaky then added me to her insta. I just blocked her the next day...


I think a lot of the "yeah she cheating" responses are based on brehs on here shooting game to chicks in DMs and of course the whole "Insta-thot" situation

 

[Depreciating Asset]

Aren't the intentions of the guys following her the same? What's the difference? Lust is lust.

I just see her trying to get more followers. I've given my IG to men I wasn't interested in just to get the follow and it didn't get any farther than that.

If you have a problem with ya girl giving out her IG you probably should have a problem with it as a whole.

IG isn't sexual unless the person makes it that way.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

It depends on her intentions. The woman might be politely curving a dude and getting a potential follower at the same time. Or she maybe fishing for someone new.

 

[Dwolf]

Scenario...a guy or group of men approach your girl and tries to ask her out..she tells them that she has a boyfriend. They then say that's cool, but can I get your IG so I can follow you?

Your girlfriend says yes and tells them her IG name and walks away.

Is this cheating?
Does giving away your IG name = giving out your number?

It's not cheating unless she replies to the DM.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

So if some random guy follows a woman and then hits her DM asking for her number if she continues to allow him to follow is she cheating?

I really don't think there is too much of a difference.

The only difference is if she has her page private and accepts dude after she gave him her page info. If the page is open for anyone to follow her then that's different.

 

[Dzali OG]

Let's not play dumb

It may not be cheating in the manner of smashing, but it's cheating in giving access. And access is 25% of getting to home base.

 

[newworldafro]

Post-Yo Gotti "Down in the DM"

 

[jeh]

No it's not cheating
Giving some one the email clapchat ig is not cheating. Giving a man or woman your number is not cheating. Inappropriate borderline unacceptable behavior but not cheating

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

No it's not cheating
Giving some one the email clapchat ig is not cheating. Giving a man or woman your number is not cheating. Inappropriate borderline unacceptable behavior but not cheating

Would a person do it in front of their mate? If not, guess what...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The only difference is if she has her page private and accepts dude after she gave him her page info. If the page is open for anyone to follow her then that's different.

I see your point. But even then idk.

Just because a page is private doesn't mean people don't want followers. They could just not want their posts shared all over the internet. I follow a private account that has 1.3 million followers.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's not cheating unless she replies to the DM.

This

 

[jeh]

I would do it in front of my mate, I'd explain to my wife(not married) the reasoning behind it. If we whoring around (which I don't live or do no more) then all is fair in love and war. Just like dude said in all about the Benjamin's before clapping her, she not my wife yet.


That's why I said it not cheating. Unacceptable behavior sure. But we ain't married, ye ain't got no papers on me, so on and so forth. Thank God I was delivered out of that life

@G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes.

......I had to delete mine.

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