Is it considered cheating for your girlfriend to give men her IG?

[YaFingerDealMe]

Nah, it’s just social media, I say that because if I had a page I would be giving women my shyt

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Isn't lusting over another girl's picture in front out ya girl not somewhat disrespectful though? If you are following a chick on IG because you lust over her body how are you (general) any different then the guy who asked for the IG so he could do the same thing?

Idk but I don't equate loyalty to who follows who on IG. If I did then following a chick you lust after would make a person equally disloyal as a person who gives out an account to someone who lusts after them.

Of course, I don't think liking pictures and following someone is inappropriate though unless a person makes it that way but of course that can be applied to a lot of things.

I've watched porn in front of my girl when I was into it like that. She never had a problem with it. I've checked out other women on social media in front of her and she never said anything about it.

I try to be as honest with myself about things so to answer your question about it being disrespectful I have to say yeah it is because I would have a problem with it if she did it....however...we could be riding down the street and if she seen a chic with a nice ass she would acknowledge it to me....I wouldn't do the same if a yoked up dude was walking past us in the mall so the double standard is applied.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Cheating is cheating but this is a suspect situation. Ole girl can just say no, I have a man.

 

[J.E.T.S]

I hate Instagram so much.

 

[J.E.T.S]

It is cheating but women will try to spin it like it ain’t!

"You're insecure"... "IG is not real life"...

I've been through this before.

 

[FukyourFort]

Its not cheating per say but its a bad sign and I would check that expeditiously. Its disrespectful

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

pearl, you know damn well the vast majority women are not conducting any sort of serious business on IG

the average woman is not in IG to promote their business, they are there to gain male attention

My timeline is full of people with businesses or prompting themselves to get money. Again, I don't use IG to lust after people.

I follow animal accounts, businesses, Black businesses, some cute kids, funny videos, dance videos, a hand full of celebrities, hair videos, a few fashion houses and food channels. I only follow one or 2 people who are regularly posting sexy pictures and even those people do it with business in mind.

If you're dating women that only use it to thirst trap or date then the problem is with the person not the app. If you can't trust a follow you probably can't trust them anyway.

 

[null]

Yeah but still...from a woman that's in a committed relationship I don't see the point of accepting a friend request from someone you met that you know wants to fukk.

Maybe I'm old school, but I have the utmost respect for women that flat out rejected dudes by saying she had a man and totally ignoring anything else a mufukka had to say after that and kept walking Whenever I got rejected by a woman like that I told myself "Damn, her dude got him a good one" I would hope my woman does the same...so far she's passed all the tests As soon as she doesn't she's gone.

or #uglygang has a new member

 

[Nobu]

My timeline is full of people with businesses or prompting themselves to get money. Again, I don't use IG to lust after people.

I follow animal accounts, businesses, Black businesses, some cute kids, funny videos, dance videos, a hand full of celebrities, hair videos, a few fashion houses and food channels. I only follow one or 2 people who are regular posting sexy pictures and even those people do it with business in mind.

If you're dating women that only use it to thirst trap or date then the problem is with the person not the date. If you can't trust a follow you probably can't trust them anyway.

I don't doubt you use your IG for business, I'm saying you're in the minority. More young women on IG are using it for thirst trapping to some extent than are using it for business or family friendly photos.

And I agree with you that someone who thirst traps on IG is not LTR material. A lot of young women aren't, the ability to get attention from thousands of guys is too tempting/addictive and has corrupted them and their ability to enjoy attention from 1 man at a time

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I've watched porn in front of my girl when I was into it like that. She never had a problem with it. I've checked out other women on social media in front of her and she never said anything about it.

I try to be as honest with myself about things so to answer your question about it being disrespectful I have to say yeah it is because I would have a problem with it if she did it....however...we could be riding down the street and if she seen a chic with a nice ass she would acknowledge it to me....I wouldn't do the same if a yoked up dude was walking past us in the mall so the double standard is applied.

So what makes you lusting after women on IG any different than a random asking for her IG?

 

[Charlie Sollers]

First mistake was dating a woman with an IG

Finding a girl without IG is like trying to win the lottery. Not exactly great odds.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I don't doubt you use your IG for business, I'm saying you're in the minority. More young women on IG are using it for thirst trapping to some extent than are using it for business or family friendly photos.

And I agree with you that someone who thirst traps on IG is not LTR material. A lot of young women aren't, the ability to get attention from thousands of guys is too tempting/addictive and has corrupted them and their ability to enjoy attention from 1 man at a time

If someone is using it "appropriately" then the inappropriateness started well before the follow. The follow isn't the issue.

I can't speak on people who do things inappropriately. I would assume that if you are in a relationship then you would be with someone who wasn't being "inappropriate." So I don't understand why ya'll would be applying that mentality to your girl unless you are dating someone you can't trust.

That's like me applying man whore behavior to my boyfriend. That shouldn't be the case.

 

[Wayans Brehs]

I'm honestly surprised by the responses in here. If I were in this situation, I would consider it a "nice" curve and wouldn't even follow. You cant compare a phone number to something as public as IG.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

So what makes you lusting after women on IG any different than a random asking for her IG?

It's simple. The first two words in the definition of cheating are "Act dishonestly". If everything is in the open then one can't cheat.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

I'm honestly surprised by the responses in here. If I were in this situation, I would consider it a "nice" curve and wouldn't even follow. You cant compare a phone number to something as public as IG.

You think an attractive chic would give her IG to an ugly midget if he approached her on the street?