Is it hard being ugly brehs?

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I get cool looking chicks and I'm prob the ugliest dude on the coli due to my gap teeth, but I don't let it get in my way..I just never smile for the camera..
No homo but you aren't ugly.

But to the topic, some of this is really lame. Ain't this a LSA topic anyway.
 

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It's not hard being ugly outside of the dating scene...

Some people are going to give you slack for your looks, yeah, but it's mostly just avoiding those kind of people or situations that rely on looks... if you're ugly, don't try to reach beyond your looks. Unattractive people acting like they're hot only makes them look worse. You also gotta know that no matter how polite people are about it, no matter how much they lie and say you don't look that bad, they still notice your ugliness (they aren't blind, just too nice to keep bringing it up) and whenever you're in a fight it's always the first thing that's gonna get thrown on your face (''you ugly!'') You gotta be prepared to throw it right back at them like, ''Yeah, I'm ugly, so what?''

I speak from experience. My face was fukked up for a loooong time because of acne. Which is probably where I got my practical approach to looks from, I spent so much time looking like shyt and refusing to let anyone put me down over it, that now that my skin's fixed, I'm realistic enough to be satisfied and not take any insults regarding my appearance too seriously. :yeshrug:
 

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Being ugly isn't that bad. Still a virgin at 30 but Mama tells me it's because my queen is on her way :ehh:
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I went years (over 10) being convinced I was ugly but I put my pic up in the Men of TLR thread and Ive had many of the women here dap it up. So I guess I'm not.

I've had girlfriends and been with my fair share of women, so I guess I'm not.

I posted my picture on my tumblr of myself shirtless when I was working out heavy (I'll admit, I was trying to hook up with some tumblr girls) for my female followers and they liked and reblogged it.

But I am still convinced I am unattractive to the opposite sex somehow. It's a mental trap that's been with me since high school. I was never some social butterfly or some playboy and all that rejection and mental abuse will really kill a man's soul. And that's because I'm still struggling financially and I'm really convinced women can smell out broke and struggling. So I just don't even try. :yeshrug:I don't care to anyways...I'm more so focused on getting that paper and making my business successful. Then women will just flock to me (hopefully) I don't rush it...I personally don't like having to do all of that work putting myself out there only to get rejected everytime and I'm just sick and tired of it to the point I'd rather not care about it.
 
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It's not hard being ugly outside of the dating scene...

Some people are going to give you slack for your looks, yeah, but it's mostly just avoiding those kind of people or situations that rely on looks... if you're ugly, don't try to reach beyond your looks. Unattractive people acting like they're hot only makes them look worse. You also gotta know that no matter how polite people are about it, no matter how much they lie and say you don't look that bad, they still notice your ugliness (they aren't blind, just too nice to keep bringing it up) and whenever you're in a fight it's always the first thing that's gonna get thrown on your face (''you ugly!'') You gotta be prepared to throw it right back at them like, ''Yeah, I'm ugly, so what?''

I speak from experience. My face was fukked up for a loooong time because of acne. Which is probably where I got my practical approach to looks from, I spent so much time looking like shyt and refusing to let anyone put me down over it, that now that my skin's fixed, I'm realistic enough to be satisfied and not take any insults regarding my appearance too seriously. :yeshrug:


That's just bad self-esteem dude. You were only seen as ugly because you thought you were ugly. Women, yeah, the advice you said may be more true. Men are supposed to get women through merit, and you can be ugly as a dude and still get hawt bytches

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Attractiveness isn't some kind of jedi mind-bending thing. Either you look hot or not.


Attractiveness for a man isn't so much about raw sex appeal as it is about your aura, how you put yourself together, and your confidence. As long as you aren't super fat or deformed, you're fine in the looks department. In school, I knew plenty of ugly/short/lame dudes that got mad bytches because they were in top frats. Women care about status more than looks
 
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I went years without taking pictures of myself or selfies...in fact this whole selfie culture is something I find weird. What does that say?

If I could...I would walk around with a mask on..simply because I like wearing masks.

It seems like women are interested in me...but I like to play it safe and just assume they aren't.

I'm not fat. I'm in shape (I spent the better part of a year working out 5-6 days a week). I think it's really the fact that I'm in a new city and I'm still trying to get my feet on the ground (financially/jobwise/etc) that really makes me not really that inclined to put myself out there.

Even with all my good qualities, I still am nervous to put myself out there...simply due to getting rejected. Why even try.

I gave up on okcupid because of how shallow people are on there...not my scene or my vibe.

I'm just getting old I guess.
 
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