Is it weird I don't wanna do anything with my coworkers outside of work ?

Rawtid

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Jun 23, 2012
Messages
43,323
Reputation
14,698
Daps
119,482
No. Why would you? I mean I can see if you got cool with one or two but for the most part it's not expected to.
 

SirReginald

The African Diaspora Will Be "ONE" (#PanAfricana)
Supporter
Joined
Aug 31, 2014
Messages
51,732
Reputation
55
Daps
79,396
Reppin
Pan Africanism
I wouldn't say I'm anti social, but for the most part I'm to myself unless it's a kickback, party or bar etc. I just wanna get my work done and dip out. Plus it's only one black coworker there and we complete opposites(I will not elaborate on that). Plus last week a coworker of mine who found a new job invited the team to a bowling alley with a bar, I didn't go but everyone else wanted me to go to welcome me since I'm still new.

Are any of y'all like this ?

Thoughts ?
Never befriend coworkers breh.

No it's not weird at all. You are there to work nothing more.
 

WaveCapsByOscorp™

2021 Grammy Award Winner
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
18,984
Reputation
-385
Daps
45,205
no, that's not weird. some people prefer the comfort of their homes. i know i'm one of them. i have a different set of coworkers than most in here but it's the same principle; i like to chill at home whenever i'm finished working and not run around with the people i work with following our allotted work time.
 

Bunchy Carter

I'll Take The Money Over The Honey
Joined
May 19, 2014
Messages
22,107
Reputation
4,452
Daps
92,805
Reppin
Triple O.G. Bunchy Carter
I wouldn't say I'm anti social, but for the most part I'm to myself unless it's a kickback, party or bar etc. I just wanna get my work done and dip out. Plus it's only one black coworker there and we complete opposites(I will not elaborate on that). Plus last week a coworker of mine who found a new job invited the team to a bowling alley with a bar, I didn't go but everyone else wanted me to go to welcome me since I'm still new.

Are any of y'all like this ?

Thoughts ?

The key thing is you being new and black (i guess your black or could be white posing as black on here)

Being new to the job, there is nothing wrong with going to 1 or 2 functions, but you have to remember that they are only inviting you to figure you out. Since your not being the loud mouth, rap talking, stereotyped black man, they pictured you to be; the just want to see how you really are.

You can go, but don't do shyt, just chill like you do at work. After a while of being the same person at work and outside of work, they will stop inviting you.

I been there, done that.
 

OHMYLOVE773

Banned
Joined
Oct 27, 2016
Messages
147
Reputation
-1,221
Daps
693
Reppin
Windy City
The key thing is you being new and black (i guess your black or could be white posing as black on here)

Being new to the job, there is nothing wrong with going to 1 or 2 functions, but you have to remember that they are only inviting you to figure you out. Since your not being the loud mouth, rap talking, stereotyped black man, they pictured you to be; the just want to see how you really are.

You can go, but don't do shyt, just chill like you do at work. After a while of being the same person at work and outside of work, they will stop inviting you.

I been there, done that.
Y'all must REALLY got a problem with whites pretending to be black on here. I didn't know it was that crazy. :mjlol:
 

King Poetic

D.O.G. ( Disciple of God)
Supporter
Joined
Feb 15, 2013
Messages
107,160
Reputation
22,895
Daps
521,121
Reppin
Southern California…
nah. u not weird..

my last job, i went out with some female co workers and man these chicks was telling everybody business about the boss catching his wife getting fukk, to another female who fukked every new male co worker and even moving a nikka into her pad with her 9 year old son in like 30 days after they met..stories about a white co worker who was sucking like 4 dikks at the same time at a hollywood party
 
Top