Is it worth the headache involved with a relationship with a really attractive person?

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Yes it's worth it.
If you can pull one attractive person, you're able to pull multiple attractive people.

I'm not ever compromising my standards/preferences out of fear of competition. I'm not insecure and have confidence/high self-esteem.
If a man can take my girl, he can have her because she was never mine to begin with.:yeshrug:
 

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Are you going to have sex with your children? Why do you care if they are at least average looking? The vast majority of people are average, nothing special, nothing stands out etc when it comes to looks. I don't understand why people say this.

Being average looking is not going to stop you from living a normal, healthy fulfilling life.
Obviously I care about their health first and foremost but of course I want my kids to be exceptional looking

The better looking you are, the more options you have in life, the easier time you have socially, the higher quality of women and men you can attain, the easier it is for you to get jobs, etc
 

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Obviously I care about their health first and foremost but of course I want my kids to be exceptional looking

The better looking you are, the more options you have in life, the easier time you have socially, the higher quality of women and men you can attain, the easier it is for you to get jobs, etc
The vast majority of highly successful people are not exceptionally good looking. Looks can only get you so far. communication skills, people skills, leadership, confidence, etc are far more important when it comes to success then what someone looks like.

Are you exceptionally good looking? You sound like a woman man :snoop:
 

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Quick answer. No it aint worth it.

Does she know she's a dime? If so, that's gonna alter the dynamic even more.
Are you a dime? If so, she chose.
Are you a strong nickel? If so, you might have won.
Will she find 5 threads in this current locker room cache interesting enough to talk about for 17 minutes? If no, you share that girl.
:francis:
 
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Knowing dudes are always going to be coming at her? At work, in her DM, church, the grocery store. Ever her managers and supervisors try to be slick and invite her to lunch to discuss her career.
:snoop:

Her being so pretty automatically gives her some leverage in the relationship, you aren't as quick to threaten her with leaving her like you would an average women.


:francis:



Is it less stressful to have a ugly girl that you don't have to worry about?:patrice:


It's funny you bring this up right now.

I'm dealing with a dime that I've been pursuing since 2013.

Finally got her in the bag and whatnot.

p*ssy is... a little underwhelming but I just like having her around.

Anyway last week we're in bed and she says some off the cuff shyt.

I had been drinking so I tell her to "get the fukk out". Normally, that's not like me but she pissed me off and I snapped.

Figured we'd both sleep it off and it'd be cool the next day.

It's not cool the next day.

I txt her telling her I'm sorry. She's not trying to hear it.

I txt her the next day, trying to meet up, she's aloof and apathetic... :dry:

I txt her one last time the following day trying to mend the fence, but she's on her queen shyt so no go.

So I stop.

About a week passes. No contact.

Saturday night at midnight, I'm at home w/ another girl in bed.

The first chick comes by unnanounced... :wtf:

Obviously I don't let her in, but wtf is up with that?
 
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The vast majority of highly successful people are not exceptionally good looking. Looks can only get you so far. communication skills, people skills, leadership, confidence, etc are far more important when it comes to success then what someone looks like.

Are you exceptionally good looking? You sound like a woman man:snoop:

Being good looking won't guarantee you'll have a fruitful life but it HELPS

You have more room for error as a good looking person. People will treat you better. The opposite sex will bend over backwards for you. People of the same sex will want to be your friend. It improves your chance of making valuable connections


You realize that has little to nothing to do with it right?

If you look at most really attractive people today their parents usually average to below looking
It doesn't guarantee your children will be good looking but it drastically improves the probability of having good looking children
 

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It's funny you bring this up right now.

I'm dealing with a dime that I've been pursuing since 2013.

Finally got her in the bag and whatnot.

p*ssy is... a little underwhelming but I just like having her around.

Anyway last week we're in bed and she says some off the cuff shyt.

I had been drinking so I tell her to "get the fukk out". Normally, that's not like me but she pissed me off and I snapped.

Figured we'd both sleep it off and it'd be cool the next day.

It's not cool the next day.

I txt her telling her I'm sorry. She's not trying to hear it.

I txt her the next day, trying to meet up, she's aloof and apathetic... :dry:

I txt her one last time the following day trying to mend the fence, but she's on her queen shyt so no go.

So I stop.

About a week passes. No contact.

Saturday night at midnight, I'm at home w/ another girl in bed.

The first chick comes by unnanounced... :wtf:

Obviously I don't let her in, but wtf is up with that?
The new nikka she WAS fukking had just finished fukking HIS other bytch and told her not to come thru, so she hit you up.

This is rookie shyt doc, you should know this. :coffee:
 

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The new nikka she WAS fukking had just finished fukking HIS other bytch and told her not to come thru, so she hit you up.

This is rookie shyt doc, you should know this. :coffee:

Nah, that's probably unlikely. If she's fukking anyone else, it's her ex who she still lives with.

But I digress.

Why would she come by at all?
 

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Knowing dudes are always going to be coming at her? At work, in her DM, church, the grocery store. Ever her managers and supervisors try to be slick and invite her to lunch to discuss her career.
:snoop:

Her being so pretty automatically gives her some leverage in the relationship, you aren't as quick to threaten her with leaving her like you would an average women.


:francis:



Is it less stressful to have a ugly girl that you don't have to worry about?:patrice:



no better feeling in the world than a dude looking at your woman and thinking "how did he get her" .....

Ive never found it stressful ..... for two reasons

1. you have to have a certain amount of self confidence in yourself ..... i feel a girl is lucky to have me and not the other way round

2. most guys play the percentage game, average women get approached more than the so called really attractive ones because guys feel they have more of a chance ..... If your girl is so called average she gets approached wayyyyy more
 
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