Is it worth the headache involved with a relationship with a really attractive person?

Sterling Archer

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You sound insecure and beta as hell. If you that concerned about your woman and interacting with people, then you are not on her level. Part of the appeal that creates a strong sexual energy/chemistry is walking into a room with your girl and seeing how many people want to be next to her, while understanding that you are the one that she is with. Likewise, women will feel the same way when they walk into a room and have other women want to be in her shoes. If you havent ever been to a dinner or event and have your woman show you off and stare at you starry-eyed because the women she competes with want you as bad as she does, then you are losing the battle.

Another thing is you need to steel yourself and bolster your confidence when you are in a room of men that are eyeing your woman because rest assured, she sees your beta tucked tail and unease with competition and it most certainly is a turn off. Show her you are comfortable with other dudes being in her space because you are confident that you have what it takes not only to keep her, but that you arent worried about what any other dude has to offer cause she knows what she has at home. Let her be turned on by your confidence with her and other men, and your allure with other women.

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Also, its a good thing to show early on to your girl during the courting phase that you have attractive women that pursue you as well. There should never be shift in power in that regard. She needs to know that you are desired by desirable women. This helps exponentially.
 

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Women will always be hit on by men, doesn't really matter what we look like. That's how most men are :gucci:


If you have a quality woman and you're a quality man, you nothing to worry about.
If you don't have a quality woman, still nothing to worry about, let her do you a favor and send herself to the bushes.:camby:
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Dimes are temporary. Trust me.

Only one out of the few I've got stuck around past a year.

Got to enjoy it while it lasts. If a guy doesn't get to her head.. her girlfriends will and she's out.

If you're rich, they'll stick around a little longer. :patrice:
 

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Nah, that's probably unlikely. If she's fukking anyone else, it's her ex who she still lives with.

But I digress.

Why would she come by at all?
:what: Breh, you serious?

You developing feelings for this girl? Only reason why I ask is cuz you were trying to mend fences with her with the multiple calls and no response.
 

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:what: Breh, you serious?

You developing feelings for this girl? Only reason why I ask is cuz you were trying to mend fences with her with the multiple calls and no response.

The feelings been had. :yeshrug:

I loved her while I was still with my ex. It is what is is.
 
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That comes with the territory of having a bad one, plus gets other chicks intrigued too it's a win/win unless you're charmin' soft :mjgrin:
 

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The feelings been had. :yeshrug:

I loved her while I was still with my ex. It is what is is.
Hey, man...you do you but maybe ya'll need to air this shyt out and find out if ya'll gonna be exclusive. This ain't no time for games, fam.
You want her, draw a line in the sand.
But I hate to tell you this, the probability that her ex/roommate may be still blowing her back out is highly likely.
You don't want that kinda drama.
 

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Hey, man...you do you but maybe ya'll need to air this shyt out and find out if ya'll gonna be exclusive. This ain't no time for games, fam.
You want her, draw a line in the sand.
But I hate to tell you this, the probability that her ex/roommate may be still blowing her back out is highly likely.
You don't want that kinda drama.

I'd say it's 100% certain, not highly likely.

But I'm doing my own thing too.

We've talked about it. I've told her what I want and shyt. If she wants go get aboard, cool. If not, she knows I'll find someone else.

No need to force the issue; it'll resolve itself, one way or the other.

I tried to mend the fence... if she doesn't wanna see me anymore then the loss is hers. :yeshrug:
 

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I'd say it's 100% certain, not highly likely.

But I'm doing my own thing too.

We've talked about it. I've told her what I want and shyt. If she wants go get aboard, cool. If not, she knows I'll find someone else.

No need to force the issue; it'll resolve itself, one way or the other.
Best 'a luck then.:ehh:
 
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