Is it wrong to want to go on vacation by yourself while in a relationship?

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

You know that relationship has reached its expiry date but your pride wont let you admit plus families being involved makes it even worse. Goodluck breh

 

[Mike809]

why be in a relationship , where you rather travel somewhere alone than with your partner?

 

[Juggalo Fred]

I just feel like she'll eventually be a buzzkill and we'd just fight at some point and honestly, vacation is for peace not beef.

Just tell her you and your juggalo homies are taking a road trip to catch the new Twiztid and Blaze Ya Dead Homie tour and she'll probably not even ask any follow up questions and let you go

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Cuz it was never like this in the beginning. Our honeymoon phase lasted a good 2 years. She took me to an all expenses paid trip to one of my favorite places. Plus we got family and friends involved, a whole life together... It ain't as easy as it seems

Y'all not married or have kids?

 

[TheLostOnes]

It's honestly her. It's like walking on eggshells. I can only deal with her in doses now. I'm just motivated to level up and move the fukk on.

Beloved just break up with her. If that is how it feels when you're around her then you be to yourself. You're only harming yourself mentally.



Fred

 

[Krazy]

Nope you need your alone time.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Tough question. I love my alone time, but I know my girl would feel away if I told her I wanted to go to Miami by myself . You’re better off disguising it as a “Work” trip.

 

[who_better_than_me]

kinda depends I guess: if the trios is something of your personal hobby/interest then it’s not necessarily an issue. But if it’s something you know you’d both enjoy, then that’s an issue . The last broad I messed with wasn’t the type to get mad if I something on Heflin we both enjoy without her but she would get irritated if a new movie came out or club/restaurant opened up and I went by myself without her. Communication is the key.

 

[ItsPeople]

Damn and here I am feeling bad watching a show my wife likes without her.


Op you know what needs to be done but I understand it’s not that easy

 

[The ADD]

Damn why even be with someone if you can’t enjoy a trip with them.

 

[Serious]

pretty much.

at this stage of my relationship id rather go alone, and rather my girl go alone/with her friends

You’d trust your girl in Jamaica

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

No I’ve been all over while married
Not only is it ok but you’ll come back a better partner.

I’ve been to Amsterdam, Belgium, Switzerland, Mexico, Cuba, Paris, all over the U.S, and other places too.

But her, no she should not be allowed to go without you

 

[maxamusa]

yea you dead wrong OP but I feel you

 

[MoveForward]

Just break up with her. I involve my significant other in all of my plans and if she starts getting on my nerves, I will tell her to chill. If she persist, I will ignore her and enjoy myself.

 

[Ohene]

You’d trust your girl in Jamaica

yea. and even still i dont really give a fukk

my relationship is younger though. gotta learn and understand this chick more before i can think about traveling with her somewhere