Is Lil Duval right about this double standard?

[1thouwow]

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Notice how he gently calls short guys “dudes”, but insults overweight women by calling them “bytches”? He just revealed the double standard within himself.

Male or female, everyone is entitled to their preferences. No one is forcing you to date anyone you’re not attracted to in the name of political correctness. But being an obnoxious person is also a personal choice. He’s really asking why it’s inappropriate to loudly insult darker skinned women? He doesn’t understand centuries of racial bias, which labeled darker skin as undesirable and ugly? Why, as a black man, would you want to contribute to that anti-black narrative and help enforce racist beliefs?

 

[Gold]

Imagine being a grown ass man and caring what women who you aren't dating/marrying/raising say about your dating opinion.
The fact that he even cares shows that he has some level of insecurity.


I know exactly what build/shape/tone of woman I prefer and there isn't a human being on earth that can make me feel ashamed of saying so.

Save all that "Bu..but... women get away with it!!" nonsense.
It just makes you look weak

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Notice how he gently calls short guys “dudes”, but insults overweight women by calling them “bytches”? He just revealed the double standard within himself.

Male or female, everyone is entitled to their preferences. No one is forcing you to date anyone you’re not attracted to in the name of political correctness. But being an obnoxious person is also a personal choice. He’s really asking why it’s inappropriate to loudly insult darker skinned women? He doesn’t understand centuries of racial bias, which labeled darker skin as undesirable and ugly? Why, as a black man, would you want to contribute to that anti-black narrative and help enforce racist beliefs?

I feel what you saying about the dark skin slander, but I think you just picking it apart instead of taking in the whole message. He's basically saying that how come women can have all these standards, requirements, lists and so forth. But when a man does says anything he's a pig, or shaming women. Tbh I think a lot of women carry that double standard because they dont really understand the struggle we have to go through in courting women, they have it all coming to them...and that's if they're not even that attractive

 

[Karb]

Brehs get shamed for preferring light skin women

 

[Caribbean lover]

you can reject anyone for any reason when it comes to personal relationships as far as im concerned just dont be a dikk about it. Those same women that shame men for not dating fat women or whatever will be the same ones posting memes laughing at rejecting small dikk men.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Notice how he gently calls short guys “dudes”, but insults overweight women by calling them “bytches”? He just revealed the double standard within himself.

Male or female, everyone is entitled to their preferences. No one is forcing you to date anyone you’re not attracted to in the name of political correctness. But being an obnoxious person is also a personal choice. He’s really asking why it’s inappropriate to loudly insult darker skinned women? He doesn’t understand centuries of racial bias, which labeled darker skin as undesirable and ugly? Why, as a black man, would you want to contribute to that anti-black narrative and help enforce racist beliefs?

You conveniently skipped over his point on purpose

 

[Gold]

Brehs get shamed for preferring light skin women

Only if you choose to feel ashamed.

If you truly don't give a fukk those insults won't even faze you.

Years ago at a company happy hour a white chick asked me if I had a gf. I said no. She then asked if I had ever dated a white girl bf. I said no, I don't date white women.

She said, "wow... that was kinda racist don't you think?"

I said "No, I don't think it was"


Y'all can't be letting women who mean nothing to you control you. Let them be mad if they want

 

[King Poetic]

I feel what you saying about the dark skin slander, but I think you just picking it apart instead of taking in the whole message. He's basically saying that how come women can have all these standards, requirements, lists and so forth. But when a man does says anything he's a pig, or shaming women. Tbh I think a lot of women carry that double standard because they dont really understand the struggle we have to go through in courting women, they have it all coming to them...and that's if they're not even that attractive

Exactly....

This has me thinking of that video of this fat light skinned woman on Oprah with Steve Harvey, talking about she need a man over 6 foot, in shape, dark skinned, bald headed all his teeth, etc etc and the crowd started clapping and laughing..

Now if that was a brother on there saying he only looking for women who isn't over 130lbs looking like and walking like Monique and light skinned, then he would get label has a shallow pig...

Black Men specifically are supposed to be willing to except shyt like this

 

[Exlurkernegro]

He's right, but people gonna miss the point cause he brought skin tone into the discussion. If a guy darker than Wesley Snipes don't like dark skin women it's considered self hate, but if a short woman don't like short guys it's "preference".

 

[DaDoc04]

of course he's right.... double standards exist but who gives a fukk


some work for you, some don't

 

[keond]

Women have this button in their brains that conveniently turns off logic and hypocrisy.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Notice how he gently calls short guys “dudes”, but insults overweight women by calling them “bytches”? He just revealed the double standard within himself.

Male or female, everyone is entitled to their preferences. No one is forcing you to date anyone you’re not attracted to in the name of political correctness. But being an obnoxious person is also a personal choice. He’s really asking why it’s inappropriate to loudly insult darker skinned women? He doesn’t understand centuries of racial bias, which labeled darker skin as undesirable and ugly? Why, as a black man, would you want to contribute to that anti-black narrative and help enforce racist beliefs?

Dude sounds like a bytch.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Only if you choose to feel ashamed.

If you truly don't give a fukk those insults won't even faze you.

Years ago at a company happy hour a white chick asked me if I had a gf. I said no. She then asked if I had ever dated a white girl bf. I said no, I don't date white women.

She said, "wow... that was kinda racist don't you think?"

I said "No, I don't think it was"


Y'all can't be letting women who mean nothing to you control you. Let them be mad if they want

True, but Duval and many others are calling out the hypocrisy and lack of logic

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Women have this button in their brains that conveniently turns off logic and hypocrisy.

We posted basically the same thing at the same time