Is Lil Duval right about this double standard?

[Gold]

True, but Duvaland many other are calling out the hypocrisy and lack of logic

Man this is gonna sound sexist coming from me.... but there are certain subjects and topics that I simply do not engage with women on. I won't even entertain debate if they instigate it

I just don't care about their opinion on certain things.

This is one of them

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Breh. I done heard BBWs say shyt like, "I cant mess w/ no fat dude" like bissssh! You only a couple McDoubles away from needin a triple bypass. A guy can just PERFER a lighter woman (not dissing darker toned women) and still get lambasted. I think if we the ones who takin action to get shyt happening, why cant I openly express my preference. I dont want no confusion.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Man this is gonna sound sexist coming from me.... but there are certain subjects and topics that I simply do not engage with women on. I won't even entertain debate if they instigate it

I just don't care about their opinion on certain things.

This is one of them

I feel you, cuz theyll do the same once you press em w/ questions...damn I'm soundin like a real woman hater right now

 

[MillionMills]

Women are so extremely insecure about their weight, they throw any logic out the window when it comes to it.

It's ok for a woman to say she wont date a dude that's 5'4. Let's be honest, woman are not laying down at night hoping to meet a man that's 5'4 or short in general.

But when a dude says he wants a woman thats in shape or not fat, their insecurity takes over and they lash out. It's just woman emotions.

Everybody has their preference. It's life.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I feel what you saying about the dark skin slander, but I think you just picking it apart instead of taking in the whole message. He's basically saying that how come women can have all these standards, requirements, lists and so forth. But when a man does says anything he's a pig, or shaming women. Tbh I think a lot of women carry that double standard because they dont really understand the struggle we have to go through in courting women, they have it all coming to them...and that's if they're not even that attractive

Really? A man says “anything” and he’s shamed and called a pig? That’s a pretty weighty chip on your shoulder you have there.

In many ways this discussion mimics white peoples persecution complex over “reverse racism”, and how they claim to be the biggest victims in life, because blacks can say the n word and have more social leeway when it comes to racial jokes, commentary, and analysis.

At any rate, Duval’s comment received about 500k likes last I checked. Seems like he was “allowed” to insult dark skinned, fat women and live to tell about it.

And another thing, the Coli loves to ridicule women if they choose “bums” and have babies with someone and it doesn’t work out. But if they have strict standards in order to “choose right” you guys get upset and claim it’s unfair. Be consistent.

 

[Cat piss martini]

truth.

 

[MaxPain]

He’s right, but who cares



U like what u like, u can reject anyone based off whatever u like. U can have whatever standards u want. Now if u can actually afford to have these standards and get what u want is another topic.

I prefer lighterskinned women and latinas and ive gotten backlash with all type of faux weak arguments. None if any made sense . And Ima still do what the hell I want.

Stop taking what these broads say so seriously. And if u like something be a man and stick to it. Cant no one tell u where to put ur dikk in. Just think about it, someone telling YOU where to put your dikk

 

[StarGirl]

Is this on the internet or off of it?

It’s like some guys want to feign blindness to differences in male and female socialization.

I myself don’t really have a preference, beside the fact that he has to be taller than me.

I also don’t catch feelings if I’m not everyone’s preference. And guys shift their preference depending on who they’re speaking to.

When the emphasis on meeting beauty standards is put on one gender, you’re going to have this imbalance.

It’s like how people see a broke woman and a broke man differently. Because of the differences in socialization.

Unless we’re all raised with equal expectations, you’re going to find that the playing field isn’t leveled.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Really? A man says “anything” and he’s shamed and called a pig? That’s a pretty weighty chip on your shoulder you have there.

In many ways this discussion mimics white peoples persecution complex over “reverse racism”, and how they claim to be the biggest victims in life, because blacks can say the n word and have more social leeway when it comes to racial jokes, commentary, and analysis.

At any rate, Duval’s comment received about 500k likes last I checked. Seems like he was “allowed” to insult dark skinned, fat women and live to tell about it.

And another thing, the Coli loves to ridicule women if they choose “bums” and have babies with someone and it doesn’t work out. But if they have strict standards in order to “choose right” you guys get upset and claim it’s unfair. Be consistent.

You missin the point fam. If u wanted to focus on skin tone, you should have bolded the shyt.

Never meant "anything" literally breh. U know what I meant.

Now that last paragraph...breh. i cant even argue w/ that. I dont get that either. But @ the same time women not catching as much flack as men on this subject.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Is this on the internet or off of it?

And guys shift their preference depending on who they’re speaking to.

Were talking on and off the internet. Just GP.

Brehette. Everybody does this

 

[bx.lion]

You can date whoever you want just keep those preferences to yourself.

 

[King Sun]

Notice how he gently calls short guys “dudes”, but insults overweight women by calling them “bytches”? He just revealed the double standard within himself.

Male or female, everyone is entitled to their preferences. No one is forcing you to date anyone you’re not attracted to in the name of political correctness. But being an obnoxious person is also a personal choice. He’s really asking why it’s inappropriate to loudly insult darker skinned women? He doesn’t understand centuries of racial bias, which labeled darker skin as undesirable and ugly? Why, as a black man, would you want to contribute to that anti-black narrative and help enforce racist beliefs?

Posters looking for daps will call you beta for this ,

 

[StarGirl]

Were talking on and off the internet. Just GP.

Everybody does this

I’m just saying, I seent it. A lot of girls turn up with hurt feelings cause of these flexible “preferences”. Trying to meet everybody’s “preference” cause we’re socialized that way. Freedom comes from trying to unplug and realize you can’t be everything to everybody. Girls out here killing themselves for a fake a*. Their man turn around and cheat on them with a flat booty girl. But what do I know?

I asked cause I’ve never had these convos off the internet.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

I’m just saying, I seent it. A lot of girls turn up with hurt feelings cause of these flexible “preferences”. Trying to meet everybody’s “preference” cause we’re socialized that way. Freedom comes from trying to unplug and realize you can’t be everything to everybody. Girls out here killing themselves for a fake a*. Their man turn around and cheat on them with a flat booty girl. But what do I know?

I asked cause I’ve never had these convos off the internet.

nikka need his ass beat if he doin some cat ass shyt like that

 

[No_bammer_weed]

You missin the point fam. If u wanted to focus on skin tone, you should have bolded the shyt.

Never meant "anything" literally breh. U know what I meant.

Now that last paragraph...breh. i cant even argue w/ that. I dont get that either. But @ the same time women not catching as much flack as men on this subject.

Trust me. I got you. The dating scene can be mad frustrating for bruhs that ain’t sitting on a mansion, and also possessing Denzel in his prime looks. You are entitled to be frustrated. Just don’t let that frustration divorce you from reality, and conclude things that aren’t true in life.

Women don’t get a free pass to say shytty, awful mean spirited things to men without consequence. Life don’t move like that. What Lil Duval said was racist and obnoxious. Don’t excuse him for that because he’s playing to your biases. That makes you the kind of person you’re accusing women of being.

Just remain positive and reasonable. Character always wins.