Is Lil Duval right about this double standard?

[Jamal514]

Notice how he gently calls short guys “dudes”, but insults overweight women by calling them “bytches”? He just revealed the double standard within himself.

Male or female, everyone is entitled to their preferences. No one is forcing you to date anyone you’re not attracted to in the name of political correctness. But being an obnoxious person is also a personal choice. He’s really asking why it’s inappropriate to loudly insult darker skinned women? He doesn’t understand centuries of racial bias, which labeled darker skin as undesirable and ugly? Why, as a black man, would you want to contribute to that anti-black narrative and help enforce racist beliefs?

He has a point but he gets it across in a very obnoxious way, almost as though he has a bone to pick with dark skinned women. Same goes for the women who feel the need to loudly proclaim their preferences. If you have a preference, that's cool, but focus on those who fit the bill rather those who don't. Unsolicited opinions about who isn't worthy of your attention always reek of self-importance.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

dark women and fatter women experience fairly stronger discrimination than light and short dudes basically, (light skin is preferred be it men or women and while shorter men are actively discriminated against be serious if you applying to a job would you rather be a 5'5" dude or a fat mediocre looking chick, none of y'all are choosing the latter)

Nah man...That's outdated.Light skinned men stopped being the craze damn near 25 yrs ago

Niccaz still get to tossing salad and sucking toes for light skinned women, tho.That craze is still very much alive

 

[Ya?]

The average heights in East Asia, South America and India are like 5”7, 5”5 and 5”6. Get a clue. It would be impossible for women there to only want 6 foot tall men.

Who said anything about 6 feet, if the men are that height then that means that the women are much shorter. North Koreans and north Chinese are taller compared to southern Koreans and southern Chinese and there are a lot of efforts made by asians to be taller.

 

[Gold]

Dude is living in Cali somewhere barely any BW there,

Facts

 

[Marti]

I developed my own preference and I could care less now about a mans preference

I use to get in my feelings about things like that but now since I get so much action from the types of men I find attractive, I could care less about a mans preference whom I don’t even find attractive (short and dark skin man).

 

[ItzRailT]

All facts women can a whole list of things don't like in a man and get praised and no shyt for it but soon as a man has one or two preferences all hell breaks loose but I don't care I like what I like and don't care how many bytch made simps and fugly ass women I piss off.

 

[Ya?]

Black women have carte blanche to shyt on us as monolith but we can't even lightly criticize fat women, dark skinned women, generally unattractive women, women who make dumb decisions, single mothers, hoodrats, etc. etc. so I guess we can only take light skinned women to task. Chicks really be acting like they are a protected class but they are damned near the white people of the black people. Tell VSB to bleed out an article on that topic.

When are LS women.taken to task? Cause saying they are gassed up because men approach them more says more about the men than the women. DS are dissed almost exclusively.

Guy even admit it on here. DS women get more than their fair share of insults. It’s time to diversify. If these men who love dissing DS women were dissing LS women I don’t think these men would have careers

 

[ItzRailT]

Also as far preferences go I feel like everyone is free to have their own and what they like but the fact is most women can't accept the consequences or results of what they like (Forever baby mama, late night screw toy material, future cat lady spinster that's gonna die alone)

 

[Exlurkernegro]

dark women and fatter women experience fairly stronger discrimination than light and short dudes basically, (light skin is preferred be it men or women and while shorter men are actively discriminated against be serious if you applying to a job would you rather be a 5'5" dude or a fat mediocre looking chick, none of y'all are choosing the latter)

With my experience I'd rather be a fat mediocre chick when applying to jobs. I don't know any fat that chick have been rejected much as I have.

 

[MysticMonroe]

Hunh? What are you talking about dawg?

Oh yeah, nikka?

Its personally happened to me, have seen it happen to other women. Also have people tell me or read post in threads about it.

My personal experience. I have been walking by & had a group of black teens yell out " Do something with your hair!" when I first went natural.

I had dudes make fun of how skinny I was for a black girl.

Ive been at work and a black male co-worker comment on my butt size in front of a black male supervisor

I've had black male supervisor compare my hair to Ben Wallace when was going natural, this dude used to make fun of me in front of other black male co-workers.

I used to get picked on for wearing weave. And also got made fun of for going natural.

I saw a black dude call a chick "ugly" to her face, in front of people by the way. When her friends told him she thought it was cute.


Its fine if guys dont believe me but when the Me Too & Colorism movement starts moving to Black Entertainment Industry & in real life some of the stuff myself and other women have talked about will be confirmed. A lot of rappers, athletes, actors and even regular 9-5 dudes will start losing their jobs.

'Straight Outta Compton' -- Casting Agency Admits Mistake ... Not All Poor People Are Fat and Dark

Straight Out of Compton casting call

The people behind the "Straight Outta Compton" movie say they're NOT just casting overweight, dark-skinned black girls to play "poor" people in the movie ... telling TMZ the casting ad was an "innocent mistake."

The ad went viral -- with the casting company inviting L.A.-based women to apply for one of several categories of extras that will be featured in the film.

The casting agency used an A, B, C, D scale to group the women. Here's the breakdown:

A) "Hottest of the hottest. Models" (open to women of any race)
B) "Fine ... Beyonce is a protoype here" (light-skinned women)
C) African American girls ... Medium to light skinned with a weave
D) "These are African American girls. Poor, not in good shape. Medium to dark skin tone."

People were upset ... since the "D" group was the only group associated with an economic class -- "poor" -- and it was made up of only dark-skinned, out of shape black women.

But we spoke with a rep for Sande Alessi Casting who tells us ... the ad was an "innocent mistake" -- and when it comes to casting the "poor" people, they're also looking for women of various skin tones and body types.

As for people who claim the A,B,C,D grouping system was racist -- Sande Alessi Casting says it's the usual method they use to look for different types of people for any project and it wasn't meant to offend anyone.

 

[MaxPain]

I developed my own preference and I could care less now about a mans preference

I use to get in my feelings about things like that but now since I get so much action from the types of men I find attractive, I could care less about a mans preference whom I don’t even find attractive (short and dark skin man).

Nah u just damaged from high school insults & using it as an excuse to hate darkskin bm

Plus u fat and ugly so u never really had a chance

 

[ben anderson]

Nah u just damaged from high school insults & using it as an excuse to hate darkskin bm

Plus u fat and ugly so u never really had a chance

You be killing me when you fry her ass up

 

[Contrefaire]

Coli nikkas are some of the most emotional on the planet.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I have my preferences and don't care who doesn't like it. I don't get why so many men are scared and act like pussies with preferences when women generally don't give a fukk about men they don't find attractive.

No one's obligated to walk on egg shells with you insecure losers btw. People can say to state what you like without offending others but a lot of you soft fukks will still get emotional and mad if someone simply says what they like and it doesn't include your features. If some of these people worked on liking what they see in the mirror then they wouldn't be crying so much about preferences.

 

[Ya?]

Its personally happened to me, have seen it happen to other women. Also have people tell me or read post in threads about it.

My personal experience. I have been walking by & had a group of black teens yell out " Do something with your hair!" when I first went natural.

I had dudes make fun of how skinny I was for a black girl.

Ive been at work and a black male co-worker comment on my butt size in front of a black male supervisor

I've had black male supervisor compare my hair to Ben Wallace when was going natural, this dude used to make fun of me in front of other black male co-workers.

I used to get picked on for wearing weave. And also got made fun of for going natural.

I saw a black dude call a chick "ugly" to her face, in front of people by the way. When her friends told him she thought it was cute.


Its fine if guys dont believe me but when the Me Too & Colorism movement starts moving to Black Entertainment Industry & in real life some of the stuff myself and other women have talked about will be confirmed. A lot of rappers, athletes, actors and even regular 9-5 dudes will start losing their jobs.

'Straight Outta Compton' -- Casting Agency Admits Mistake ... Not All Poor People Are Fat and Dark

Straight Out of Compton casting call

The people behind the "Straight Outta Compton" movie say they're NOT just casting overweight, dark-skinned black girls to play "poor" people in the movie ... telling TMZ the casting ad was an "innocent mistake."

The ad went viral -- with the casting company inviting L.A.-based women to apply for one of several categories of extras that will be featured in the film.

The casting agency used an A, B, C, D scale to group the women. Here's the breakdown:

A) "Hottest of the hottest. Models" (open to women of any race)
B) "Fine ... Beyonce is a protoype here" (light-skinned women)
C) African American girls ... Medium to light skinned with a weave
D) "These are African American girls. Poor, not in good shape. Medium to dark skin tone."

People were upset ... since the "D" group was the only group associated with an economic class -- "poor" -- and it was made up of only dark-skinned, out of shape black women.

But we spoke with a rep for Sande Alessi Casting who tells us ... the ad was an "innocent mistake" -- and when it comes to casting the "poor" people, they're also looking for women of various skin tones and body types.

As for people who claim the A,B,C,D grouping system was racist -- Sande Alessi Casting says it's the usual method they use to look for different types of people for any project and it wasn't meant to offend anyone.

Nice. Proud of bw doing this.